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BAD AT KEEPING SECRETS explores themes of emotional vulnerability, personal growth, love, and finding meaning in modern life through intimate conversations and reflections. It touches on coping mechanisms, relationship dynamics, self-improvement strategies, societal expectations, and the quest for connection and safety amid life's uncertainties.

Personal Growth Emotional Well-being Relationship Dynamics Self-Improvement Societal Expectations Life's Uncertainties Love and Connection

How do you know when to give up?

1533 implied HN points • 11 Sep 23

Knowing when to give up can be a difficult decision, even when you love what you're doing.
The pandemic has brought forth challenges of disconnection and lack of control, leading to uncertainty about the future.
Around 40% of our happiness is theoretically within our control, so focus on doing your best amidst uncertainties.

How To Decide. Like actually do it.

904 implied HN points • 11 Jan 24

🏥 Health & Wellness Decisions Self-Improvement Books Reflection Mindfulness

Knowing when to walk away is just as important as knowing when to stay
Having permission to leave something if it's too much is okay
Annie Duke's research can help in making decisions with confidence

Afterthoughts. Why is it so hard to learn from the past?

825 implied HN points • 16 Oct 23

🎭️ Culture Reflection Creativity Relationships Mental health Podcasts

Reflection on past experiences helps us learn and grow.
Seeking advice and feedback from others can provide valuable insights.
Embracing change and defining our own path can lead to personal growth and unity.

Lunar Magic To Change Your Life

746 implied HN points • 25 Sep 23

⛪ Faith & Spirituality Spiritual Practices Self-Improvement Magic

Sarah Faith Gottesdiener believes in the power of the moon and its connection to our bodies.
Lunar Magic involves transformation, consistency, and aligning with personal values.
Using the moon for self-improvement is about finding truth, acceptance, and living in alignment with your values.

Is it time to move on?

727 implied HN points • 22 Jan 24

🏥 Health & Wellness Mental health Safety Anxiety Parenting

The author is contemplating whether they should move from a neighborhood with high levels of violence.
The writer expresses their deep emotional attachment to their current home despite its dangerous location.
The author shares a personal experience of gun violence near their home, sparking further consideration about whether to stay or move.

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Ways to make someone fall in love with you...

648 implied HN points • 05 Feb 24

🏥 Health & Wellness Relationships Love Self-Improvement

Trying to make someone fall in love with you can backfire.
Authenticity is important in relationships, even though there might be societal pressures to play games.
Acting disinterested or playing hard to get may not lead to the desired outcome in love.

How Did You Get By?

648 implied HN points • 31 Aug 23

🎨 Art & Illustration Storytelling Book promotion Interviews

New York Times columnists Julia Rothman and Shaina Feinberg interview people to share honest stories about topics not commonly discussed.
Their book 'How We Got By' features unique yet universal stories about addiction, career changes, relationships, and more.
The work by Julia and Shaina aims to provide perspective, comfort, and a sense of connection by addressing taboo topics openly.

Why do we feel so alone in our sadness?

628 implied HN points • 02 Oct 23

⛪ Faith & Spirituality Emotions Connection

Feeling alone in sadness is a common experience.
Sharing unsavory emotions helps us connect with others.
Jealousy and comparing ourselves to others can stem from childhood experiences.

Do we have a choice in who we love?

589 implied HN points • 18 Sep 23

⛪ Faith & Spirituality Love Reflection Blessing

Choosing who we love is complex and often not entirely within our control.
Feedback and adaptation can lead to valuable adjustments in content creation.
Prioritizing rest, attention, faith, and acceptance can be beneficial in personal growth.

Creating meaningful ways to remember

569 implied HN points • 18 Jan 24

⛪ Faith & Spirituality Grief Support Journal Interview

Creating meaningful ways to remember and honor grief
Grief teaches us to grow at our own pace and to bloom in our own time
Supporting those who are grieving can be a powerful gift

I can be the villain in your story...

412 implied HN points • 15 Jan 24

🎨 Art & Illustration Creativity Self-Expression Emotions Personal Growth

The post discusses topics like creative despair, marital struggles, and being the 'villain' in someone's story.
Struggling with creativity during tough times can affect work and overall well-being.
Embracing difficult emotions like sadness and using them as fuel for creativity can lead to meaningful art.