The hottest Gender Relations Substack posts right now

And their main takeaways
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Freddie deBoer β€’ 17636 implied HN points β€’ 06 Mar 26
  1. A small but vocal slice of sexually frustrated men has come to shape public talk about sex, making ordinary admissions of sexual experience feel stigmatized and spreading the idea that nobody is getting laid.
  2. Framing attraction as a marketplace or leaderboard (think looksmaxxing and sexual market value) turns intimacy into competition and validation-seeking, and social platforms amplify that narrow, toxic view.
  3. Sex and romance are ordinary and broadly attainable; being genuine, social, and willing to face rejection usually builds real connections better than obsessing over metrics or extreme self-improvement.
Of Boys and Men β€’ 533 implied HN points β€’ 19 Jul 25
  1. We need to change how we talk about boys and men. Instead of focusing on what's wrong, we should highlight what's right about them and support their growth.
  2. Having more men involved in boys' lives is really important. Dads and male role models help boys learn and grow in positive ways.
  3. It's crucial to fix the bigger issues affecting boys and men, not just blame them for problems. By supporting them, we also help everyone, including women and girls.
The Great Gender Divergence β€’ 235 implied HN points β€’ 17 Jan 24
  1. Female employment and divorce rates are low in South Asia due to different religious majorities in India, Pakistan, and Sri Lanka.
  2. Religion can reinforce patriarchy in four ways, like close-knit communities unquestioningly following teachings and members conforming to gain respect.
  3. Scripture can be used to justify the Patrilocal Trap, religious violence and discrimination may exacerbate gender inequalities.
Wood From Eden β€’ 432 implied HN points β€’ 06 Feb 24
  1. It's valuable to explore book recommendations even if you can't read them all from cover to cover.
  2. Readers can share book and film recommendations on specific categories on the Wood From Eden book recommendations page.
  3. The principle behind the recommendations page is to create a space for like-minded readers to share and discover new, interesting books and films.
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Anxiety Addiction & Ascension β€’ 39 implied HN points β€’ 12 Sep 23
  1. Andrew Tate is considered divisive within different ideological circles, being seen as either a savior or a criminal.
  2. The case against Andrew Tate is questioned due to flimsy evidence and potential ulterior motives behind his prosecution.
  3. Andrew Tate's extreme persona and views are seen as a reaction to the societal shift towards a more feminized culture.