Default Wisdom • 188 implied HN points • 08 Mar 26
- Online mediation is reshaping intimacy and identity, producing experiences where people can feel arousal or connection while being disconnected from physical sexual participation.
- A new pattern of harm is emerging in which someone uses sustained, platform-based communication to build coercive psychological control and push a specific person toward self-destruction without ever meeting them in person.
- Existing criminal labels don’t capture this phenomenon, so we need a mechanism-focused category — a "mediated murderer" — for targeted, interactive, platform-dependent coercion that culminates in death without physical co-presence.