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you don't know what's gonna happen

Both Are True • 195 implied HN points • 20 Nov 25
📚 Literature Personal Essay
  1. You don't know what will happen when you start writing; ideas often change and new things emerge as you go.
  2. If you judge your idea too early you'll stop writing and miss the surprising material that comes out in the process.
  3. The messy, unexpected parts of writing often contain the best stuff—comedy, joy, and even darkness—so it's worth letting the process reveal things and sharing them.

Gemma's boyfriend

Eclecticism: Reflections on literature, writing and life • 9 implied HN points • 20 Feb 26
📚 Literature Personal Essay
  1. People sometimes stay with partners who clearly value themselves more than their partner, tolerating possessive or controlling behaviour.
  2. Berating someone to leave a bad relationship can backfire; pointing out positive traits or using a gentler approach may be more effective.
  3. Possessiveness slowly erodes freedom and selfhood—small signs like fear about spending money can reveal just how controlling a relationship has become.

Six Hours in Line

Natural Selections • 10 implied HN points • 03 Mar 26
🎭️ Culture Personal Essay
  1. Lockdown pulled a family tightly together, turning small rituals like long walks, scavenger-hunt bears, and backyard celebrations into deeply meaningful moments.
  2. Decisions about Covid vaccination were shaped by different health risks and fears—some accepted the shots for protection while one household member had a severe reaction after the second dose.
  3. The sudden death of a young family member with chronic heart defects brought lasting grief and survivor’s guilt, making ordinary shared moments (like six hours standing in line) into treasured memories, and whether the vaccine played a role remains unknown.

Rodeo by Calvin Lee Martin

The Soup • 1218 implied HN points • 04 Apr 23
🎨 Art & Illustration Personal Essay
  1. The author shares a special edition of her newsletter featuring her son's college essay.
  2. The son's college essay is deeply personal and showcases his writing skills.
  3. The author pays her son for allowing her to share his work in her newsletter.

Laugh, And the World Laughs With You

Slack Tide by Matt Labash • 102 implied HN points • 11 Dec 25
😂 Humor Personal Essay
  1. Small rituals and strong feelings like humor, anger, and spite can keep a person going when the world feels broken. They give energy and a reason to keep showing up.
  2. It’s normal to wonder if criticism or satire actually changes anything, but that doubt doesn’t stop people from doing the work. They keep at it because the act itself matters, even if it rarely moves the needle.
  3. Looking to people who live amid real hardship offers practical perspective on how to act when things fall apart. Their steady wisdom helps turn despair into meaningful, ongoing effort.
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Hand-Holding: Two Final Readings (for now)

Bet On It • 105 implied HN points • 25 Nov 25
🎭️ Culture Personal Essay
  1. Directly asking to hold hands is a simple, effective way to show interest.
  2. Saying "Do you like holding hands?" gives both people plausible deniability while still making your interest clear; if they say yes you can take their hand, and if no you can shrug it off.
  3. If you’re shy, small gestures and cultural moments can help you reach out; holidays like Thanksgiving or a song that resonates can be a good excuse to ask someone to hold your hand.

I keep overrating intelligence

Sex and the State • 19 implied HN points • 30 Jan 26
🎭️ Culture Personal Essay
  1. People working in service jobs often show more intelligence and skill than people assume.
  2. Switching from a corporate career into the service industry can reveal and correct false assumptions about who is smart or capable.
  3. Feeling surprised or embarrassed by those assumptions is a useful prompt to notice and adjust your own biases about coworkers.

The darkness

Random Minds by Katherine Brodsky • 70 implied HN points • 17 Dec 25
🎭️ Culture Personal Essay
  1. I’m struggling to write and feel my words are useless, which leaves me deeply sad.
  2. I see widespread cruelty and people spreading falsehoods, some knowingly and some through willful ignorance, and I’m disturbed by how many justify or normalize harm.
  3. Despite the darkness, there are many good people and small gatherings that bring comfort, even if they feel overwhelmed by the larger problems.

A Slack Tide Christmas Sale

Slack Tide by Matt Labash • 61 implied HN points • 18 Dec 25
🎭️ Culture Personal Essay
  1. A holiday sale cuts the annual subscription from $50 to $35 (about 9.6 cents a day) and gift subscriptions are available, though the discount only applies to annual plans.
  2. The newsletter will take a holiday break but may post a year-in-review Q&A around New Year’s and will rerun a critical piece about politicized Christmas ornaments and related merchandise.
  3. The tone is satirical and critical, mocking the political commercialization of Christmas, frequent partisan email blasts, and tasteless merch that feel like cash-grabs.

The Symptoms I Carry

Natural Selections • 19 implied HN points • 03 Feb 26
🎭️ Culture Personal Essay
  1. The pandemic widened political and emotional rifts that ended a long marriage and left many important conversations unsaid, turning fear into anger between partners.
  2. Lockdowns erased in-person communities and activities that shaped identity, and returning to those spaces now feels alien and difficult.
  3. There are invisible, lasting harms—guilt, grief, and a hollow sense of survival—that aren’t detected by medical tests but stay with people long after the virus recedes.

Life update: Middling

Sex and the State • 32 implied HN points • 06 Jan 26
🎭️ Culture Personal Essay
  1. The move out of a high‑pressure city was meant to provide rest and more family time, and it also led to reconnecting with a life partner.
  2. Unpredictable events—like a layoff, shrinking VC funding, and political changes—plus practical constraints such as pets and a partner’s preferences made returning to the previous job market and city much harder than expected.
  3. Socially, the hometown has been isolating: making friends has been difficult, there’s been a lot of rejection, and that lack of connection is taking an emotional toll.

What Am I Doing Here?

Gideon's Substack • 40 implied HN points • 24 Dec 25
📚 Literature Personal Essay
  1. Creative work can become the main source of purpose in midlife, which feels stressful when big projects stall and you worry about what you’re actually accomplishing.
  2. Opinion and newsletter writing are often about persuasion: targeting persuadable readers, shaping how they think, and nudging them to act, even while competing in an attention economy that can turn reading into workplace distraction.
  3. Writing is also a way to think aloud and invite conversation — valuing understanding and deep engagement over pure influence — while still hoping for a larger, appreciative audience despite realistic limits.

What it feels like to be in love | #73

Castles in the Sky • 29 implied HN points • 27 Dec 25
📚 Literature Personal Essay
  1. Love often arrives in small, unforgettable moments that make you feel deeply seen, like happy tears or honest vulnerability.
  2. Being in love is multifaceted — it can feel peaceful and boundary-dissolving or bittersweet and painful, and art often captures those complex sides.
  3. Healthy love depends on honest communication and learning from each other, and sometimes you just know it's right despite outside dating rules or advice.

Yes, I Power-Capitalize

I Might Be Wrong • 7 implied HN points • 12 Feb 26
😂 Humor Personal Essay
  1. Capitalizing words for effect is a conscious stylistic tool to emphasize meaning and cue readers that a joke or special tone is intended.
  2. Traditional grammar rules are useful but can be bent in comedy because visual cues like capitalization and italics help control cadence and make punchlines clearer.
  3. Writers who produce frequent humorous pieces use tools like power-capitalization to make jokes land and accept that grammar purists may object.

Start the Week #108

Eclecticism: Reflections on literature, writing and life • 8 implied HN points • 26 Jan 26
🎭️ Culture Personal Essay
  1. Keep recovery keys, backups and important files stored in several safe places so a forgotten password or a sudden tech issue doesn't derail your work.
  2. Always get consent before sending newsletters or marketing; unsolicited messages annoy people and show poor data-protection practice that can lose subscribers.
  3. Question precise claims and suspicious sales pitches instead of accepting them at face value, and avoid subtle or unnecessary displays of wealth because they tend to put people off.

Miss America: a Love Letter.

Milk Trekker • 314 implied HN points • 14 Jul 23
🎭️ Culture Personal Essay
  1. The author expresses love and concern for America in a heartfelt manner.
  2. America is seen as having both great potential and deep-rooted issues that need addressing.
  3. Encouragement is given for America to confront its past and seek healing for a better future.

And In My Head I Do My Very Best Saying Goodbye

Babbling On • 196 implied HN points • 07 Mar 23
🎭️ Culture Personal Essay
  1. Experiencing change can offer new perspectives and help in moving past personal struggles.
  2. Seeking beauty in surroundings and reconnecting with creative outlets can aid in healing and feeling like oneself again.
  3. Cinematic moments and experiences can offer a form of escapism and reflection during times of emotional turmoil.

People Cannot Wrap Their Heads Around Exponentials

Jay's Data Stream • 5 implied HN points • 28 Jan 26
🎭️ Culture Personal Essay
  1. People struggle to intuitively grasp exponential growth, so they underestimate how fast things like infections or price inflation can accelerate.
  2. Personal feelings about being "behind" often don't match the data; younger generations can feel poorer even when inflation-adjusted measures show they're better off at the same age.
  3. Each generation tends to feel it will be worse off than the previous one, a recurring pattern driven by perception, cognitive biases, and economic shifts like housing-price inflation.

Remembering the New Year's Eve That I Got Big-Timed By Third Eye Blind

I Might Be Wrong • 11 implied HN points • 01 Jan 26
🎭️ Culture Personal Essay
  1. Getting full of yourself often brings a quick reality check; small successes can be cut down in an instant.
  2. Crowds are fickle and will abandon an opener the moment a bigger act appears, so attention and timing matter as much as talent.
  3. Early wins can give you the confidence to take bigger risks, and even if those risks fail, other skills and persistence can keep your career moving forward.

Notes for an Essay on Buses

The Commonplace • 513 implied HN points • 03 Mar 24
🎭️ Culture Personal Essay
  1. The process of creation can be as interesting as the final product, with notes and early drafts often more compelling than explanations by artists.
  2. Observing people in everyday settings like bus stations can lead to intriguing insights and reflections on societal trends and human behavior.
  3. Writing about familiar topics, like daily bus commutes, can unlock unexpected memories, moments, and connections that spark creativity and thoughtful contemplation.

What I Learned By Writing...Oh My God...a THOUSAND Posts

I Might Be Wrong • 8 implied HN points • 09 Jan 26
😂 Humor Personal Essay
  1. Consistent output usually comes from pressure and habit rather than waiting for inspiration. Deadlines and the fear of falling behind can motivate steady publishing.
  2. Monetizing content matters: paywalls and subscriptions are effective ways to turn writing into income. Giving everything away for free makes it harder to build a sustainable business.
  3. Writing is hard and the blank page is intimidating, and many creators feel that struggle. Recognizing that this is normal makes it easier to keep going.

Writing as Psychotechnology (30/30)

psychotechnology • 15 implied HN points • 01 Dec 25
📚 Literature Personal Essay
  1. Daily publishing forces you to do emotional work and build resilience through repeated practice, and publishing a lot increases the chance that a few pieces will break out and grow your audience.
  2. Writing can be used as a psychotechnology: it helps you sharpen your mental models, integrate difficult parts of yourself, and amplify your ability to act in the world.
  3. Balance output with new input — sometimes you need to pause publishing to go on quests and gather material, and learning to hit publish anyway (plus side practices like performance or exercise) strengthens your craft.

On Loving Weezer [4]

The Author Is Dumb • 3 implied HN points • 08 Feb 26
🎶 Music Personal Essay
  1. Maladroit goes for a grittier, self-produced sound but ultimately comes off as shallow and not one of Weezer’s stronger albums.
  2. Re-listening years later shows how nostalgia and changing taste rewrite the stories we tell about records, with some albums staying essential and others losing their shine.
  3. Coming out in a year stacked with great releases, Maladroit didn’t stand out and already revealed some of the band’s worst instincts despite a few catchy tracks.

Strapping Mephedrone to My Balls (19/30)

psychotechnology • 15 implied HN points • 20 Nov 25
🎭️ Culture Personal Essay
  1. He sneaks and uses mephedrone at a nightclub to alter his state and work through emotional stuff, treating the trip like a DIY therapy session.
  2. Nightclub security feels like performative theatre — intrusive, inconsistent, and often more about control than real safety.
  3. Drugs and dancing act as a kind of tribal, entheogenic ritual that can deepen emotional and social experience, but the author still feels out of place and resents being supervised.

Start the Week #106

Eclecticism: Reflections on literature, writing and life • 7 implied HN points • 22 Dec 25
🎭️ Culture Personal Essay
  1. Debates about 'decolonising' Father Christmas are treated with humour and used tongue-in-cheek to argue for Santa's existence.
  2. The holidays are a mix of enjoyment and relief, with pleasure from lights and gatherings but a strong preference for returning to work; the season can also bring sadness because a family death occurred on December 26.
  3. There is a seasonal push to subscribe with a 70% discount, alongside plans for a paid nonfiction series and writing courses, and an emphasis on a long, consistent writing career and regular updates.

Hemiphytophilia

Passing Time • 301 implied HN points • 01 Feb 24
📚 Literature Personal Essay
  1. The writer defies the doctor's advice and keeps a plant in the room due to a strong affinity for plants.
  2. The plant, a heartleaf philodendron, symbolizes a zest for life with its slow growth and eventual white flowers.
  3. The writer contemplates switching to dark mode on the blog and shares a personal story intertwined with plant symbolism.

On Sticking 2C-T-2 Up My Ass (29/30)

psychotechnology • 3 implied HN points • 30 Nov 25
🎭️ Culture Personal Essay
  1. 2C-T-2 gives a powerful, mystical sense of connection to nature and awe, but it reliably causes severe nausea, dry-heaving, and whole-body tension during the come-up.
  2. Rectal administration raises bioavailability and speeds the come-up so you can use lower doses, but it can compress the experience and make nausea and body load worse rather than better.
  3. Nausea is likely driven by off-target serotonin receptors in the brain and gut (e.g., 5‑HT2B/2C), so changing the route of administration may not eliminate those side effects, and the imagined benefits of rectal dosing often don’t match the uncomfortable reality.

Shaky

Nice Try • 19 implied HN points • 05 Dec 20
📚 Literature Personal Essay
  1. Work life can feel uncertain and shaky at times, with jobs changing and less demand for certain workers.
  2. People have unique ways to cope with stress, like finding humor in parenting or unexpected situations.
  3. Learning new skills can be fulfilling, whether it's cooking or teaching, and it helps us grow beyond our previous experiences.