Richard Hanania's Newsletter • 1950 implied HN points • 22 Jan 26
- Whether you're seen as virtuous depends on which audiences you're trying to impress; you care more about opinions from people you respect.
- Who criticizes you shapes your feelings—criticism from someone you admire makes you hurt and rethink yourself, while criticism from someone you dislike can feel entertaining or irrelevant.
- Feedback matters most when it comes from people you find honest, competent, and trustworthy, and their disapproval can lead you to change your behavior.