The hottest Gender Substack posts right now

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Boys and men online: Don't panic, do care

Of Boys and Men • 103 implied HN points • 10 Dec 25
🎭️ Culture Gender
  1. Digital technology isn’t all doom; it can expand agency and connection if we design, use, and regulate it with intention. We need balanced, evidence-based research instead of moral panic or a libertarian shrug.
  2. Young men aren’t being mass-radicalized online; many are retreating into digital spaces and their political views haven’t shifted dramatically. That retreat matters because it links to harms like loneliness and rising suicide, so policies should meet them where they are.
  3. There are real gendered risks from sports betting, addictive platforms, pornography, gaming, and AI companions, and boys and men can be especially vulnerable. We need better guardrails, stronger evidence, and more real-world opportunities for play, connection, and safety.

Male sexual desire is good, actually

Sex and the State • 89 implied HN points • 08 Dec 25
🎭️ Culture Gender
  1. Male sexual desire isn’t inherently bad. It helps make sex happen, and sex can be fun, intimate, and important for reproduction and connection.
  2. The real problem is gender norms, not desire. Masculinity pressures men to perform constant horniness and to be pushy or entitled, which leads to harmful behavior.
  3. Sex-negativity and shame are the true dangers. Reducing stigma and adopting sex-positive attitudes would be healthier and cut down on harm.

Won't somebody think of the men?

My Goodness! From Jo Elvin • 432 implied HN points • 11 Feb 24
🎭️ Culture Gender
  1. Some men react strongly to content that is not specifically catered to them, displaying incredulous outrage.
  2. Women's entertainment options are often broad and inclusive, while men sometimes struggle with consuming content not targeted at them.
  3. Top podcasts and media platforms are predominantly hosted by white men, raising questions on audience preference and representation.

The Biden Administration’s Prosecution of Dr. Eithan Haim

Common Sense with Bari Weiss • 1446 implied HN points • 04 Dec 24
🏥 Health Politics Gender
  1. Dr. Eithan Haim is facing serious legal trouble for speaking out about gender transition treatments being offered to minors at Texas Children's Hospital. He believes these treatments are unethical and harmful.
  2. Haim feels that delaying puberty in children with gender dysphoria is making them sick and is against his medical ethics.
  3. Many of Haim's fellow doctors also have concerns but are afraid to speak up due to the pressure and potential consequences they might face in their careers.

Araminta Hall on living post-MeToo

The Shift With Sam Baker • 399 implied HN points • 15 Feb 24
🎭️ Culture Gender
  1. Araminta Hall questions if the MeToo movement has lost momentum or needs a fresh perspective, sparking thought-provoking discussions.
  2. Growing up in a time of evolving views on women, the author reflects on the societal changes she has witnessed, highlighting the challenges and contradictions faced by women over the years.
  3. The post emphasizes the ongoing importance of discussions around gender equality and the complexities of navigating societal expectations.
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The Romance Novel Edition

Why is this interesting? • 965 implied HN points • 14 Feb 25
🎭️ Culture Gender
  1. Romance novels offer escapism and predictable happy endings that many readers enjoy during tough times. They have become popular among diverse groups of women, from stay-at-home moms to college students.
  2. The romance genre focuses on female pleasure and sexuality while challenging societal views about women's desires. It mixes fun storytelling with important cultural discussions.
  3. Romance novels are a big business, outselling even the Bible. Many readers are not just fans—they are part of a community that engages with the genre through discussions, fan fiction, and events.

Attack of the 50something women

The Shift With Sam Baker • 838 implied HN points • 29 Jun 23
🎭️ Culture Gender
  1. Women over 50 are showcasing their skills and confidence in various fields, challenging the notion that they should be invisible.
  2. Prominent female figures like Sharlene Spiteri, Cate Blanchett, and Jo Whiley are inspiring with their energy and talent at ages 54-57.
  3. The growing visibility of women over 50 in media, entertainment, and other industries may signify the start of a movement towards inclusivity and recognition.

A Library of Books That Really Changed Minds

Reactionary Feminist • 22 implied HN points • 24 Jan 26
🎭️ Culture Gender
  1. Readers who change their minds draw on a wide range of books — fiction, philosophy, history, science, and religious works — not just contemporary bestsellers. These diverse genres offer different ways to challenge assumptions and reshape worldview.
  2. Many of the books that shifted people’s views are critiques of modern progressive ideas, managerial elites, or prevailing secular dogmas. They often question ‘woke’ orthodoxy, identity politics, and the cultural power of experts.
  3. The books that most often change minds are long, rigorous, and committed to truth rather than tribal comfort. Serious recommendations and sustained, argument-driven writing help bring readers to new perspectives.

How Naomi Osaka found her voice

Power Plays • 432 implied HN points • 16 Jan 24
🎭️ Culture Gender
  1. Naomi Osaka found her voice through social activism and empowerment during her tennis career.
  2. Author Ben Rothenberg's book about Naomi Osaka explores her journey through the lens of the tennis tour.
  3. Osaka's relationship with press conferences shifted over time, from engaging to distressing due to various factors.

The curse of f*ckability

The Shift With Sam Baker • 738 implied HN points • 08 Jun 23
🎭️ Culture Gender
  1. The concept of 'fuckability' is a curse that affects women from puberty and beyond, with societal expectations and objectification causing harm.
  2. Women, especially as they age, are rejecting the societal pressure of being seen as 'fuckable' and embracing their independence and experiences.
  3. The issue of 'fuckability' is deeply intertwined with power dynamics and ownership over women, beyond just physical appearance.

The case for fewer fucks and kicking kindness to the kerb.

A B’Old Woman • 359 implied HN points • 06 Feb 24
🎭️ Culture Gender
  1. It's okay to care less about many things in life. Focus on what really matters to you instead.
  2. Being overly kind can sometimes backfire, especially for women. It's important to balance kindness with self-care.
  3. Growing older can give you a clearer perspective on what's worth your energy and attention. Embrace the freedom that comes with it.

Kellie-Jay Keen is not coming to New Zealand due to fears for her life – yes, here in New Zealand!

A B’Old Woman • 719 implied HN points • 16 Sep 23
🇺🇸 U.S. Politics Gender
  1. Kellie-Jay Keen canceled her trip to New Zealand because she felt unsafe and feared for her life. She wasn't confident that the police would protect her due to influence from trans activists.
  2. Many people are upset about how a few loud activists seem to be controlling police and political responses in the country. There's a feeling that women's voices are being ignored in the conversation.
  3. There's concern that creating a 'martyr' from this situation could actually empower people on the other side of the debate. While the 'Let Women Speak' rally is still planned, it's unclear how it will affect the protests.

The Problem(s) with Men

The Biblioracle Recommends • 707 implied HN points • 16 Jul 23
🎭️ Culture Gender
  1. Society is facing challenges with the well-being of men, showing disparities in education and mental health.
  2. There are varying issues affecting men, from societal pressures to toxic masculinity in tech moguls.
  3. Reading books can shape empathy and understanding, offering insights into diverse perspectives and relationships.

The Profile: The Apple CEO going all in on VR & the trans kids transitioning back

The Profile • 396 implied HN points • 11 Feb 24
🎭️ Culture Gender
  1. Surround yourself with people who see the best version of you, even when you may not see it yourself. This support can empower you to strive to be that version every day.
  2. In any supportive partnership, the goal should be to help each other grow into the best versions of themselves.
  3. Transgender children 'detransitioning' has become a topic of increased scrutiny, as the affirmation model of care faces criticism for not exploring other sources of distress.

Novelist Barbie

quite useless • 707 implied HN points • 20 Aug 23
📚 Literature Gender
  1. Branding can impact how a book is perceived and who reads it.
  2. Gendered branding in novels can lead to misunderstandings and impact sales.
  3. Appropriately branded Big-Bomb art by women often performs well.

Shiny Happy People Recipe...

illyanna Maisonet's Newsletter • 687 implied HN points • 26 Sep 23
🎭️ Culture Gender
  1. The author offers a discount for annual subscriptions to their newsletter until the end of the year.
  2. There is a discussion about engaging and retaining followers, with feedback on the tone of the newsletter being shared.
  3. The complexity of balancing authenticity with audience perception, especially in terms of expressions of anger or jadedness, is highlighted.

I have a right to be here

Men Yell at Me • 949 implied HN points • 08 Jan 25
🎭️ Culture Gender
  1. Running in public spaces can feel dangerous for women because of harassment and violence from men. This creates fear and anxiety about simply existing in those spaces.
  2. Women’s bodies in public are often sexualized and blamed for harassment, making it hard for them to feel safe. Society frequently tells them to stay inside or take precautions instead of addressing the root of the problem.
  3. Despite the threats, it's important for women to keep asserting their right to be in public spaces. Running and walking let them claim their freedom and say, 'I belong here.'

The Toxic Pursuit of Greatness in Chess (w/ Brin-Jonathan Butler) | The Chris Hedges Report

The Chris Hedges Report • 70 implied HN points • 06 Dec 25
🎭️ Culture Gender
  1. For a small, obsessive group, chess can act like a narcotic that consumes lives, driving extreme devotion, mental breakdown, and the loss of broader education or skills.
  2. Elite chess culture prizes domination and status, encouraging sadistic, hypercompetitive behavior where winning isolates and often masks deep insecurity.
  3. The modern chess ecosystem has structural problems: only top players earn well, technology makes cheating easier, and persistent misogyny and hostile atmospheres keep many women and newcomers out.

Book Review Contest Winner: Love in the Time of Incarceration

Freddie deBoer • 2351 implied HN points • 08 Mar 24
🎭️ Culture Gender
  1. The book 'Love in the Time of Incarceration' explores relationships with inmates and challenges stereotypes about prison love.
  2. Online communities for women with incarcerated loved ones provide support and understanding, forming a unique sisterhood.
  3. The book delves into the complexities of incarcerated relationships, showing how love can thrive in challenging circumstances.

A clarification but, crucially, not a correction

Close-reading the reruns with Phoebe Maltz Bovy • 334 implied HN points • 30 Jan 24
🎭️ Culture Gender
  1. The author clarified a theory about online pseudonyms critiquing appearances of celebrities, emphasizing it was just a neutral guess.
  2. The author received feedback from a woman contradicting assumptions about their identity and intentions behind their critique of Taylor Swift's appearance.
  3. The discussion expanded to critique societal norms around women's body image and the impact of judgments on appearance.

The World's Most Famous Narco Wife Walks

CrashOut by Ioan Grillo • 628 implied HN points • 13 Sep 23
🌍 World Politics Gender
  1. Emma Coronel is a famous figure due to her association with El Chapo and her glamour as a former beauty queen
  2. There is a long-standing interest in the role of narco wives in media and fiction, focusing on their relationships and power dynamics
  3. Despite her legal troubles, Coronel continues to attract media attention and appears to be navigating her situation strategically

Trans Trouble in Tiny Town

Look What You Made Me Do • 628 implied HN points • 27 Mar 23
🎭️ Culture Gender
  1. There is a growing concern and hysteria surrounding trans individuals in the US, leading to legislative measures and social tensions.
  2. The issue at the heart of anti-trans efforts is not about men trusting trans women, but rather men trusting themselves around trans women.
  3. Respect and protection for trans individuals are crucial, and instances of violence against them underscore the need for understanding and support.

Watching women cannibalize themselves for fun and profit

Men Yell at Me • 444 implied HN points • 28 May 25
🎭️ Culture Gender
  1. Reality shows like 'The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives' show the struggles women face in a patriarchal society. These women navigate personal relationships while dealing with societal pressures.
  2. Despite being successful, many women feel trapped by expectations at home and in their faith. They are the breadwinners, but still carry the bulk of household responsibilities.
  3. The show's drama reflects real issues many women face today, like work-life balance and societal judgment. Watching these stories can make it easier to question the larger systems affecting all women.

MAGA misogyny

Trickle-Down Wellness • 294 implied HN points • 02 Feb 24
🎭️ Culture Gender
  1. Men's aggression towards women in male-dominated spaces reflects deeper issues
  2. Younger women leaning liberal, while younger men move right politically
  3. Men who exhibit certain red flags as partners are less likely to be appealing to women

Is this really what 50something looks like?

The Shift With Sam Baker • 579 implied HN points • 03 Aug 23
🎭️ Culture Gender
  1. The idea of how women in their 50s should look is changing, with celebrities like Kate Beckinsale and J-Lo challenging traditional expectations by being vibrant and bold.
  2. There is a conflict in the media's portrayal of women in their 50s, struggling to balance objectification with the idea of women 'old enough to know better' engaging in lively behavior.
  3. The text reflects the author's personal feelings of both admiration and exhaustion towards the evolving representation of women in their 50s, highlighting the importance of women taking up space and being visible at all ages.

A straight-talking chinwag with Di from Mana Wāhine Kōrero is always a pleasure :-)

A B’Old Woman • 319 implied HN points • 19 Jan 24
🎭️ Culture Gender
  1. Di from Mana Wāhine Kōrero speaks openly about the impact of gender ideology on children. It's important to address how this can affect young people's understanding of themselves.
  2. The conversation touches on the importance of language, especially te reo Māori and women's language. Losing these languages can feel painful and impacts cultural identity.
  3. There was a discussion about an older Māori woman facing backlash for her t-shirt that stated 'Men are not women, even if you squint.' This highlights ongoing tensions around gender identity and expression.

Ruminating with Hillary Clinton

OLD GOATS with Jonathan Alter • 569 implied HN points • 27 May 23
🇺🇸 U.S. Politics Gender
  1. Hillary Clinton remains optimistic while acknowledging worries about the current state of the world
  2. Analysis of Trump's influence and tactics in politics, his impact on the Republican Party, and the importance of truth in democracy
  3. Reflection on women's empowerment, political engagement, and the challenges of perfectionism in today's society

The Puzzle of Stalking

Going Awol • 159 implied HN points • 13 Apr 24
📖 Philosophy Gender
  1. Identifying why stalking is wrong helps determine its legality and severity.
  2. Stalking can be seen as a forced and unwanted relationship imposed on the victim.
  3. Stalking involves violating the victim's autonomy and right to choose their relationships.

Single Ladies, Paying on Dates, Tinder Matching

Rob Henderson's Newsletter • 2121 implied HN points • 14 Feb 24
🎭️ Culture Gender
  1. Sociometric status, like respect and admiration from peers, can influence well-being more than socioeconomic status, even for introverted individuals
  2. The family structure is noted as a hindrance to central control of social processes in historical Marxist literature. Engels initially included undermining family bonds in the Communist Manifesto draft
  3. Women in their twenties using Tinder are more likely to swipe right for a man with a master's degree compared to one with a bachelor's degree

Candidates must promise, and deliver, family formation

Sex and the State • 38 implied HN points • 25 Dec 25
🇺🇸 U.S. Politics Gender
  1. Low family formation among working-class, non-college people — especially men in unstable or low-paying jobs — is driving cultural and political shifts that benefit conservatives.
  2. Promises of good, stable jobs matter because steady employment makes men more likely to be seen as marriageable and supports family formation, while means-tested welfare can reduce the incentive to marry.
  3. To win back working-class voters outside high-opportunity cities, Democrats need to offer pathways to good jobs and family formation rather than only promoting welfare, and they should understand these voters' family-oriented motivations.

How Woke Led to Cultural Decadence

Richard Hanania's Newsletter • 3438 implied HN points • 14 Jun 23
🎭️ Culture Gender
  1. Cultural critics are concerned about the decline in original storytelling in movies, with studios relying more on established franchises.
  2. The influence of 'woke' ideology on art can limit the creation of compelling works by disregarding the natural differences and gendered characteristics between men and women.
  3. Wokeness has impacted art in areas like race representation in fantasy worlds, creating challenges for new storytelling while established franchises remain unaffected.

The family formation theory of everything

Sex and the State • 36 implied HN points • 24 Dec 25
🎭️ Culture Gender
  1. Family formation has fallen mainly among the bottom half because the male-breadwinner norm persists while bottom-half male wages have stagnated, making marriage and children less affordable or attractive.
  2. Job quality for the bottom half has gotten worse—unstable schedules, insecure work, and little to no benefits—which makes starting and sustaining a family much harder even when pay exists.
  3. The decline in marriage, especially among men, drives loneliness and mental/brain harms that increase deaths of despair, social dysfunction, and susceptibility to authoritarian and conspiracy-minded politics.

Award-Winning Canadian Journalist Was Fired After Going Grey

Changing The Channel • 518 implied HN points • 19 Feb 23
🎭️ Culture Gender
  1. Society often views women in their 50s who look their age as 'past their prime.'
  2. Ageism and gender bias can impact professional opportunities and how individuals are perceived in the workplace.
  3. The story of the Canadian journalist losing her job after going grey highlights the challenges faced by women in media and the importance of addressing age and gender discrimination.

Of ICE Queens and Handmaidens

Reactionary Feminist • 18 implied HN points • 14 Jan 26
🎭️ Culture Gender
  1. Online memes and jokes claim progressive women protesting ICE are really motivated by sexual attraction, often riffing on Handmaid’s Tale costumes and romanticized imagery.
  2. It’s possible for protesters to be sincerely committed to a political cause while some participants also bring erotic or performative elements to demonstrations.
  3. Using horny memes to mock these protests is a way to dismiss and delegitimize their politics, and that ridicule often says more about the mockers than about the protesters.

When a Woman Betrays a Woman

Ladyparts • 499 implied HN points • 05 Jun 23
🎭️ Culture Gender
  1. Betrayals between women are complex and have societal implications beyond just personal relationships.
  2. Exploring instances of betrayal can lead to self-reflection on personal experiences of betrayal.
  3. The dynamics of betrayal can reveal underlying power structures and inequalities.