Men Yell at Me

Men Yell at Me is a Substack featuring a mix of personal and political commentary, focusing on issues like gender roles, societal expectations, liberation movements, and current events. It combines humor with critique, addressing topics from women's rights to the politics of resentment, and spotlighting 'Dingus of the Week.'

Gender Roles and Liberation Societal Expectations Politics and Current Events Women's Rights and Reproductive Health Media and Journalism Personal Growth and Relationships Humor and Critique Art and Creation Parenting and Family Dynamics

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We live in a time of anti-feminist backlash

367 implied HN points • 13 Mar 24
🎭️ Culture Feminism Gender Equality Activism History Social Issues
  1. We are currently experiencing an anti-feminist backlash, and this issue has been persistent throughout history.
  2. Feminists face challenges in fighting for equality, with movements like Me Too being depicted negatively by anti-feminist forces.
  3. To combat the backlash, feminists must continue demanding equal rights and creating a world where gender doesn't limit opportunities.

Dingus of the week: Boeing

322 implied HN points • 15 Mar 24
📰 News Politics Aviation Safety
  1. Boeing has faced safety concerns, including incidents of plane debris, fatal crashes, and whistleblower allegations, raising doubts about their safety practices.
  2. Boeing's significant revenue from government contracts raises questions about accountability and oversight in the aviation industry.
  3. The aviation industry's duopoly of Boeing and Airbus, self-regulation by Boeing, and underfunding of the FAA highlight systemic issues impacting airplane safety.

There is a reason politicians don't want pregnant women getting divorced

540 implied HN points • 28 Feb 24
🇺🇸 U.S. Politics Policy Abortion Marriage Gender Laws
  1. In some states, pregnant women are not allowed to divorce, even in cases of domestic violence.
  2. Forcing pregnant women to stay married can lead to financial and emotional vulnerability, especially in states with abortion bans.
  3. Laws restricting pregnant women from divorcing are not about the well-being of the child or mother, but rather about controlling women and limiting their freedoms.

Dingus of the week: "Pro-IVF" Republicans

436 implied HN points • 01 Mar 24
🇺🇸 U.S. Politics Abortion Republicans Laws Politicians
  1. Republicans are facing challenges with IVF laws in Alabama, impacting IVF providers and potential parents.
  2. The recent Alabama Supreme Court ruling on frozen embryos is causing political tensions and highlighting contradictions in anti-abortion beliefs.
  3. Key Republican figures, such as Nikki Haley, Brian Kemp, and Greg Abbott, are struggling to navigate the complexities of the IVF issue while articulating their stances.
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"You are just bitter"

555 implied HN points • 21 Feb 24
🎭️ Culture Essays Art Feminism Identity Social Issues
  1. Bitterness is often used to dismiss messages of pain or betrayal, shifting focus from blame-worthy behavior to the person expressing the pain.
  2. Bitterness, like anger, is a morally neutral emotion, and how it is used can determine its impact - as a cudgel to brush off ideas or as a force for uniting people.
  3. Swallowing bitterness can give clarity and power, enabling one to keep writing and speaking out against injustice.

Dingus of the week: Nic Pizzolatto

419 implied HN points • 23 Feb 24
🎭️ Culture TV shows Literature Music Entertainment Social Issues
  1. The 'Dingus of the Week' is Nic Pizzolatto for his reactions to the TV show True Detective's latest season, which featured indigenous women and received criticism from him.
  2. Some recent positive highlights include a strippers' bill of rights, a stingray in North Carolina who reproduced without a mate, and Beyonce becoming the first Black woman to top the country charts.
  3. Celebrating personal victories, like having a book published, can be surprisingly down-to-earth, even involving mundane tasks and moments with loved ones.

Creating love stories from metal. And melting them down when they end.

259 implied HN points • 07 Mar 24
🎨 Art & Illustration Jewelry Design Craftsmanship Symbolism
  1. Creating personalized story rings with unique designs like mountains or bird feathers can be a powerful way to symbolize love and connection.
  2. Repurposing wedding rings after a divorce by melting them down can be a cathartic and transformative process, helping individuals let go of emotional baggage and begin a new chapter.
  3. Jewelry holds deep connections to personal stories and histories, making it more than just a material possession - it can represent relationships, memories, and values.

Building a woman from scratch

490 implied HN points • 14 Feb 24
🎭️ Culture Gender Feminism Movies Society Creativity
  1. The Pygmalion myth, where a man creates an ideal woman to replace real ones, is a common theme in stories and movies.
  2. Society often portrays women as needing to fit a certain perfect image, leading to pressure to meet unrealistic standards.
  3. Despite societal pressures and expectations, women are pushing back, embracing their messy, rebellious, and authentic selves.

A perfect golden day

158 implied HN points • 17 Mar 24
  1. The author had a memorable experience on the Today Show after being asked to speak about her book, despite initially having scheduling conflicts.
  2. The producer insisted the author make it work for that specific day, showing the importance of the opportunity.
  3. The post is intended for paid subscribers, indicating exclusive content behind a paywall.

A mug story

198 implied HN points • 10 Mar 24
🎨 Art & Illustration Storytelling
  1. The author values their collection of novelty mugs, with one mug having a special story behind it.
  2. The author mentions sharing the story of their David Brooks mug at book events.
  3. The post is intended for paid subscribers, with an option to subscribe or sign in provided.

Blackened and changed

248 implied HN points • 25 Feb 24
🎭️ Culture Relationships Social Issues Media Literature Interviews
  1. The book 'This American Ex-Wife' has sparked conversations about love, marriage, and relationships in American society.
  2. The author has received mixed feedback - from angry men questioning her views to women thanking her for the impact of her book on their lives.
  3. The author's book was reviewed by various publications and sparked discussions on important topics like divorce, marriage, and feminism.

This American Ex-Wife syllabus

174 implied HN points • 03 Mar 24
📚 Literature Reading Writing Books Stories
  1. The author found her passion for reading and writing through a journey of rejection and self-discovery, eventually earning an MFA in creative writing.
  2. The author's MFA experience involved a lot of reading and writing, but she struggled to tell the truth in her writing, overcoming fear over time.
  3. The author shares a list of books that inspired her while writing her own book, focused on narratives of women breaking norms and finding new paths.

Dingus of the week: Oops! All good things

270 implied HN points • 16 Feb 24
🎭️ Culture Books Music Sports Events Drinks
  1. The newsletter edition focused on sharing only good news and positive things amidst a lot of concerning current events.
  2. Beyonce's entry into the country music world is seen as a significant cultural moment with potential to shake up the genre's dynamics.
  3. The idea of reimagining happiness and community around friendship rather than just romantic relationships resonated with many people.

The right way to be a "woman"

375 implied HN points • 24 Jan 24
🎭️ Culture Gender Marriage Feminism
  1. Women are pressured to conform to rigid definitions of womanhood and gender roles.
  2. Societal expectations attempt to confine women to narrow standards for their appearance and behavior.
  3. Expanding the definition of womanhood to be inclusive and diverse provides freedom and challenges limiting beliefs.

Dingus of the week: Ryan Walters

301 implied HN points • 26 Jan 24
🎭️ Culture Social Issues Food Media Art Lifestyle
  1. Ryan Walters appointed a controversial figure to the State's Department of Education, sparking criticism
  2. NYT upset Midwesterners with a tater tot casserole recipe that omitted canned cream of mushroom soup
  3. Positive events like emerging cicadas, local bar ownership, and charity work bring hope amidst controversies

Would you be scammed?

158 implied HN points • 18 Feb 24
🎭️ Culture Scams Books Interviews Podcasts Journalism
  1. Some scams might seem obvious to avoid, but the right scam can still catch anyone.
  2. People fall for different scams, even if they would never fall for a specific one.
  3. It's important to be cautious and aware of potential scams, as scammers can be creative in finding ways to trick people.

A meditation on love

156 implied HN points • 11 Feb 24
⛪ Faith & Spirituality Love Relationships
  1. The author reflects on the nuances of love and relationships, finding beauty in seeking love and happiness, especially after a divorce.
  2. The author shares personal experiences about friendships flourishing post-divorce, highlighting the freedom and joy of unrestricted friendships.
  3. Celebrations of love are seen as wonderful occasions, contrasting the realities of divorce and the evolving dynamics in friendships and relationships.

Panicking about the girlies

280 implied HN points • 07 Jan 24
  1. The panic over young girls shopping at Sephora reflects societal biases and misogyny.
  2. Girls are criticized for caring about skincare in a culture that values youth and appearance.
  3. Encouraging self-care habits in girls can be a positive way to navigate a world that can be harsh towards them.

Literary nemeses

145 implied HN points • 28 Jan 24
📚 Literature Authors Writing Publication
  1. The author used to have a list of literary nemeses.
  2. Seeing the success of these nemeses motivated the author.
  3. Desire to be published in certain outlets fueled the author to keep trying.

The journalists gaze

173 implied HN points • 14 Jan 24
🇺🇸 U.S. Politics Journalism
  1. Journalists at a restaurant in Iowa complained about the lack of Whole Foods and doubted the vegan options.
  2. Iowa is often portrayed in political journalism as a simplistic backdrop, reducing the state to stereotypes.
  3. Local perspectives and nuances are often overlooked in political reporting, where the same few interviewees are featured repeatedly.

Everything and Nothing

246 implied HN points • 26 Jul 23
🎭️ Culture Gender Film Literature Feminism Society
  1. Barbie can be both a toy of creation and destruction for girls
  2. There are different creation myths and interpretations for Barbie, similar to those in Genesis
  3. The Barbie movie reflects on societal expectations of women and the complexities of feminism