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#206: Hosting parties, having babies, being “original”

Maybe Baby • 1192 implied HN points • 26 Jan 25
🎭️ Culture Friendship Parenting Socialization Originality Connection
  1. Making friends can happen at any age, and it's normal to want connection. Even if life changes, there are always people looking for friendship.
  2. Hosting parties can be a great way to connect with others, even for introverts. It's about taking a chance to invite people and create opportunities for fun together.
  3. Knowing when you're ready to have kids is personal, and it's okay to feel unsure. Communication with your partner is key, and thinking about your family dynamics can help you decide.

Cairo Smith

Patti Smith • 28342 implied HN points • 26 Sep 23
⛪ Faith & Spirituality Death Companionship Legacy Connection Love
  1. Cairo Smith was a unique and special cat who lived to nearly 22 years, showing unwavering love and courage.
  2. Cairo had a deep bond with Patti Smith, being her guardian, friend, and companion throughout their time together.
  3. Cairo's gentle and loving nature touched the lives of many, bringing comfort, affection, and joy to those around her.

The 12 new idea books to launch 2024

Granted • 11240 implied HN points • 07 Jan 24
📚 Literature Mental health Connection Leadership Thinking Burnout
  1. Mental Health and Well-Being: Discover how a little therapy can lead to lasting change and how to move from languishing to flourishing.
  2. Connection and Community: Learn about the power of being like-hearted without needing to be like-minded and practical steps for unity in a divided world.
  3. Leadership and Power: Explore resources on fixing organizational problems, finding purpose after major life transitions, and improving critical thinking for wiser decisions.

How myth and story can help us belong to our places

The Art of Enchantment, with Dr Sharon Blackie • 5811 implied HN points • 20 Jan 24
🎭️ Culture Myth Connection Nature Imagination
  1. Find somewhere that draws you, connect with the place's ecology and folklore, tell stories to rocks and trees to build a relationship with the natural world.
  2. Imagine nature as a living creature with dreams, show up often in the same place, listen to the land's dreaming, and fall in love with the world.
  3. Connection with nature is about love, wonder, and awe, not about using nature for our needs; cultivate enchantment through myths and stories to feel connected and belonging.
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Drops of enchantment 2

The Art of Enchantment, with Dr Sharon Blackie • 1976 implied HN points • 17 Sep 23
⛪ Faith & Spirituality Reflection Connection Events
  1. The author had to delay an essay on mermaids and selkies for paid subscribers due to travel for a book tour celebrating the launch of the 'Hagitude' paperback.
  2. The author shared about their first proper book tour in the southwest of England after facing challenges like the pandemic and health issues.
  3. During an event at Frome, the author accidentally sprained their ankle and spilled water on their notes, highlighting the humor in life's unexpected mishaps.

Myth and Metrics: How social media robs us of ritual, and how to revive it

The Bigger Picture • 1777 implied HN points • 28 Sep 23
🎭️ Culture Social media Myth Attention Connection Ritual
  1. Social media captures and monetizes attention through stoking outrage and shallow engagement, impacting social cohesion and politics.
  2. Digital communication lacks the depth and relatedness of traditional rituals, focusing on extensive content rather than meaningful connections.
  3. Repetitive practices and storytelling in rituals, like traditional music sessions, offer deep attention and a sense of belonging that can counter the shallow experiences of social media.

Homing tendencies

The Art of Enchantment, with Dr Sharon Blackie • 1837 implied HN points • 04 Mar 23
⛪ Faith & Spirituality Personal Growth Spirituality Hope Connection Belonging
  1. Moving homes can trigger deep-rooted anxieties, stemming from disrupting the safe sanctuary one has spent years creating.
  2. The concept of 'home' is a complex mix of physical shelter, emotional security, and a place where one can always return to, and the fear of losing it can be deeply ingrained from childhood.
  3. Transitioning between homes can bring about self-reflection, exploration of uncertainties, and a mix of emotions, but it also offers opportunities for growth and new beginnings.

Culture is fragmented and so are we

Read, Watch, Binge • 569 implied HN points • 12 Jan 24
🎭️ Culture Pop culture Connection Streaming platforms Social media
  1. Culture is becoming more fragmented, making it harder to find shared experiences with others.
  2. The abundance of entertainment options and personalized content leads to decision fatigue and hinders connection.
  3. Despite fragmented pop culture, bad news and politics have become universal topics for connection, although they can also contribute to polarization.

The Incredible Beauty of Unlikely Friendships

Brent and Michael are Going Places • 904 implied HN points • 20 Mar 23
🏥 Health & Wellness Friendships Loss Connection Growth Community
  1. Unlikely friendships can have a profound impact on our lives, even if they are brief.
  2. People are not always what they seem, and judging based on first impressions or stereotypes can be misleading.
  3. Building connections with others, especially in unlikely circumstances, can bring a unique and beautiful experience to life.

The Wintering Sky

The Art of Enchantment, with Dr Sharon Blackie • 1178 implied HN points • 03 Dec 22
⛪ Faith & Spirituality Rituals Mythology Connection Nature Poetry
  1. Winter brings the gift of the night sky, which holds importance and rituals for the author, celebrating the return of darkness and stars.
  2. The author values ceremonies that emerge naturally and mark the rising and setting of the sun during the winter season.
  3. The author shares research on stars possibly being 'minded' entities, emphasizing the importance of celebrating the sky and the cosmos around us.

A Call To Enchantment

Everything Is Amazing • 1221 implied HN points • 12 Sep 23
⛪ Faith & Spirituality Connection
  1. The post discusses the recommendation of a book by Katherine May called 'Enchantment' that focuses on wonder and mystery in everyday life.
  2. The author mentions a live conversation with Katherine May, encouraging readers to join by becoming paid subscribers of 'The Clearing'.
  3. The post emphasizes finding beauty and fascination in the mundane, protecting against cynicism and hopelessness.

The Meaning of the Solstice

Changing The Channel • 458 implied HN points • 21 Jun 23
⛪ Faith & Spirituality Nature Seasons Connection
  1. The Summer Solstice is celebrated in the Northern Hemisphere, marking the longest day of the year and the beginning of shorter days.
  2. The author reflects on the connection between nature's rhythms, such as the seasons, the moon, and the sun, emphasizing the importance of aligning with these energies.
  3. Living in a city can make it challenging to stay attuned to nature, leading to a longing for places where people are more consciously connected to the natural world.

#96: How to learn anything fast in a data-abundant world

Many One Percents • 412 implied HN points • 09 Apr 23
🚌 Education Learning methods Podcasts Blogging Connection
  1. To learn fast in a data-abundant world, focus on reading landmark books to understand industry-changing concepts.
  2. After grasping the basics, delve into nuances by listening to podcasts where practitioners discuss topics in depth.
  3. Knowledge is like a territory, with basics as the mainland and nuances as the defining borders.

A Festival for the Soul

The Joyous Struggle • 395 implied HN points • 03 Jul 23
⛪ Faith & Spirituality Spirituality Connection Transcendence Community Meaning
  1. Experiencing emotions and interactions at events can lead to profound realizations and connections with others.
  2. Creating spaces for shared experiences and personal growth can have a meaningful impact beyond the event itself.
  3. Focusing on the soul, personal connections, and transformative education can lead to a deeper understanding of oneself and society.

True Security and the Lie of Never Enough

Risk Musings • 515 implied HN points • 01 Sep 23
🏥 Health & Wellness Mental health Self-care Connection Balance Acceptance
  1. Society often makes us feel like we never have enough, pushing us to seek more in the name of security.
  2. True security comes from forging and nourishing real connections with others, not just accumulating resources.
  3. Accepting uncertainty, embracing connections, and enjoying the journey are key to finding true security in life.

Health Huddle: Where You are the Guru

Are You Okay? • 379 implied HN points • 29 Dec 22
🏥 Health & Wellness Connection Friendship Grief Routine Volunteering
  1. Human connection is essential for health and well-being. Reach out, reconnect, and stay connected to others.
  2. Establishing a meaningful routine, engaging in volunteer work, and developing personal interests are crucial for a fulfilling retirement.
  3. In times of grief, making an effort to stay connected with friends and accept invitations, even if it feels uncomfortable, can help with the healing process.

Can America Admit It's Lonely?

The New Urban Order • 199 implied HN points • 11 Aug 23
🏥 Health & Wellness Loneliness Housing Policy Community Connection
  1. Loneliness and social isolation in America are serious issues that can lead to mental health challenges and premature death. Building social connections should be a priority like other public health issues.
  2. In the past, there were more housing options that naturally fostered community and connection. Policy decisions made privacy a priority over connection in the last century.
  3. Private sector initiatives like apps promoting living near friends or co-living spaces are addressing the need for more socially connected housing, while policymakers have not yet prioritized this issue.