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Sex and the State β€’ 44 implied HN points β€’ 23 Jun 25
  1. Decentering men is really about building strong connections with others. It's important to have a supportive community instead of relying solely on one person for emotional needs.
  2. Being in a committed relationship can still align with feminist values. It's okay to center a partner if that relationship is healthy and reciprocal.
  3. Love should be about wanting what’s best for each other, even if it means making tough choices. Trust and mutual respect in relationships lead to deeper intimacy.
Sarah Bessey's Field Notes β€’ 2889 implied HN points β€’ 23 Jan 24
  1. Marriage isn't a road map or a formula - it's about shared practices and experiences.
  2. Navigating marriage while deconstructing faith requires communication, empathy, and mutual respect.
  3. Give space for personal growth and change, prioritize connection beyond religion, and choose each other through challenges.
Many Such Cases β€’ 2877 implied HN points β€’ 18 Oct 23
  1. There's a lot of talk about a 'sex recession' where people are feeling less connected sexually. It's hard to measure, but we can sense it in our social lives and gatherings.
  2. People can have sex but still feel a disconnect in their sexual culture. Personal stories show that intimacy and sexual attraction can clash, leading to confusion about what they really want.
  3. Attending events like parties can reflect our sexual energy and culture. Conversations about these topics can help us navigate our sexual lives better.
Egg Report β€’ 1297 implied HN points β€’ 09 Sep 23
  1. Recognizing our own agency and capacity for danger is a prerequisite for participating in public life.
  2. In our modern electronic media environment, there is pressure to always put on an act and believe in it, hindering self-reflection.
  3. Intimacy is not about absence of rules but integration; true friendship involves shared understanding and civility.
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In the Flash β€’ 2038 implied HN points β€’ 20 Jul 23
  1. Photography can serve as a shield to hide personal fears and insecurities, but writing can bring out vulnerability more easily.
  2. Starting a newsletter allowed the author to express intimate thoughts and emotions that were hard to convey through photography.
  3. Transitioning from amateur to professional photography can lead to a loss of personal storytelling and a shift towards voyeuristic work.
Incense and Orris β€’ 117 implied HN points β€’ 04 Feb 24
  1. Marlou perfumes celebrate the intimate scents of the body, offering a unique olfactory experience that is personal and evocative.
  2. The brand creatively and boldly focuses on animalic scents, challenging traditional ideas of fragrance and offering a new perspective on scent composition.
  3. Marlou's perfumes, though strong, sit close to the skin, creating an intimate and personal aura around the wearer and defying typical notions of projection in perfumery.
The Bigger Picture β€’ 818 implied HN points β€’ 09 Jun 22
  1. The internet is a carnival that can disconnect us from real intimacy, eroding our ability to make sense and find truth.
  2. Online identity is becoming more fluid, causing a clash between affinity-based and experience-based identities.
  3. Social media gamifies communication, impacting our ability to have authentic conversations and eroding relational skills needed for true intimacy.
Splattern β€’ 19 implied HN points β€’ 24 Jun 24
  1. It's important to have a balance between independence and connection in relationships. Being close to someone can help us embrace our unique qualities.
  2. Adventure and exploring new places are important in life, but a stable foundation at home is needed to truly enjoy those experiences.
  3. Setting clear goals for personal relationships can help create a fulfilling life. It's about finding a partner to build a future together.
First principles trivia β€’ 0 implied HN points β€’ 07 Jan 23
  1. The original set of questions designed to lead to falling in love contained 40 questions, not 36, and was intended to gradually increase intimacy and vulnerability
  2. The questions included sharing personal stories, expressing gratitude, discussing dreams and aspirations, and reflecting on deep emotional topics like regrets and treasured memories
  3. These questions can serve as a tool for couples to enhance their connection and create emotional closeness in a structured and meaningful way