Knowingless

Knowingless explores the intersections of sex, psychedelics, and social analysis through personal experiences and theoretical insights. It covers themes such as inner growth, sexual dynamics, the sociology of desire, and navigating unconventional relationships, also offering practical guides on aspects like hiring an escort or understanding sexual consent.

Personal Growth Sexual Dynamics Social Analysis Psychedelics Intimate Relationships Seduction Techniques Consent and Sexual Preferences Mental Health

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Good At Sex: Antagonistic Seduction (pt 8)

823 implied HN points • 09 Mar 24
🎭️ Culture Sexuality Evolutionary Psychology
  1. Some women are interested in displays of power and dominance in sexual scenarios, such as forced sex or consensual nonconsent.
  2. There is a common misconception that all sex should be loving and gentle, but sexual preferences can be diverse and complex.
  3. Understanding the nuances of sexual dynamics, including the balance between consent and nonconsent, can help navigate different preferences without causing harm.

Good At Sex: Seduction Via Narrative Reinforcement (pt 7)

1188 implied HN points • 14 Feb 24
🏥 Health & Wellness Sexual Health Relationships Psychology Self-Improvement
  1. Seduction is seen as a collaborative activity where both parties want the same thing - to overcome barriers and enjoy sex together.
  2. People often seek to reinforce narratives about themselves, so being able to sell the right self-image to someone can be a powerful tool in seduction.
  3. Understanding and appealing to a person's core desires and self-conception can be more effective in seduction than just focusing on physical attractiveness or immediate desires.
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Good At Sex: Misjudging What Women Want (pt6)

810 implied HN points • 29 Jan 24
🏥 Health & Wellness Sexuality Gender differences Relationships
  1. In the realm of sex, men often overestimate what women want, leading to potential misunderstandings in sexual encounters.
  2. Men may exaggerate women's desires based on their own observations and experiences, creating a gap in understanding.
  3. Understanding the differences in sexual preferences between genders can help in bridging the gap and improving communication in intimate relationships.

How To Hire An Escort: An Overly Analytical Guide

702 implied HN points • 10 Jan 24
🏥 Health & Wellness
  1. The guide provides comprehensive information on hiring an escort, from finding one to ensuring safety and etiquette.
  2. It emphasizes the importance of price in determining the quality and safety of the escort experience.
  3. Tips and considerations are provided for a successful escort experience, including how to ensure the escort's enjoyment.

My Birthday Gangbang

15 HN points • 01 Mar 24
🎭️ Culture Sexuality Events Experience Organizing Survey
  1. Despite societal pressures and fears, the author faced their anxieties to explore sexual adventures and gangbang experiences.
  2. Organizing a large orgy event involved significant planning, including safety measures like STI testing and logistics like condom distribution.
  3. Men who attended the gangbang reported positive experiences, with some facing challenges in maintaining arousal due to the unusual setup.