Knowingless

Knowingless explores the intersections of sex, psychedelics, and social analysis through personal experiences and theoretical insights. It covers themes such as inner growth, sexual dynamics, the sociology of desire, and navigating unconventional relationships, also offering practical guides on aspects like hiring an escort or understanding sexual consent.

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How Onlyfans Took Over The World

7901 implied HN points • 26 Jan 25
💼 Business Online Platforms E-commerce Marketing Consumer behavior Sex work
  1. OnlyFans changed the way adult entertainment works by creating a sense of individual connection between creators and fans. This makes users feel like they're having a personal experience, even when there are a lot of other guys involved.
  2. The platform allows creators to reach a wider audience without much advertising support. Instead, users have to market themselves, which leads to a huge increase in the number of ads for OnlyFans across the internet.
  3. Agencies have become a big part of OnlyFans, managing content and interactions for creators. They help maximize profits by taking care of marketing and customer interactions, letting creators focus on content.

Pulling Out The Big Guns For Needle Phobia In An Insane World Where Nobody Seems To Take It Seriously

1121 implied HN points • 19 Feb 25
🏥 Health & Wellness Mental health Anxiety Medical treatment Self-help
  1. Needle phobia can be very serious and isn't always taken seriously by others. This fear can lead to panic attacks and avoidance of medical care.
  2. Exposure therapy often doesn't help with severe needle phobia. Finding alternatives like distraction or numbing methods can be more effective for managing panic.
  3. Techniques like ice packs and specialized devices can significantly reduce the pain associated with needles. Experimenting with different methods can lead to better results and less anxiety.

People Are Delusional About How Hot They Are

4321 implied HN points • 21 Jan 25
🎭️ Culture Self-image Gender Studies Social Psychology Surveys
  1. Most people don't see themselves as they really are when it comes to looks. They tend to think they are hotter than others see them.
  2. Women and men rate themselves similarly, but men are generally more off about how attractive they really are.
  3. When comparing looks to others, people are a bit more accurate when looking at their same gender rather than the opposite gender.

Men's Hotness Scale

1742 implied HN points • 06 Jan 25
🎭️ Culture Beauty Standards Gender Studies Social Trends Body Image
  1. A study was conducted to rate men's attractiveness based on women's opinions. Similar to a previous study on women, the results were surprising and showed that women's tastes can differ from the male perspective.
  2. The survey involved around 260 images of men’s faces, mostly AI-generated, rated by approximately 100 women. The results revealed that women often rated men's attractiveness lower than men rated women's.
  3. The highest rating for a man was 7.8 out of 10, while the highest for women was 8.4 out of 10. This suggests that women might take personality into account more than men do when judging attractiveness.

Mid Women Got Spanked Less (pt1)

1931 implied HN points • 13 Dec 24
🎭️ Culture Sociology Psychology Gender Studies Family Dynamics Social Issues
  1. Women who consider themselves attractive often report growing up in higher class families. This shows a possible link between looks and economic background.
  2. Hotter women appear to have a better self-image and feel more powerful. They are also generally more extroverted and conscientious.
  3. Mid-range attractive women seem to have had loving families but were spanked the least as children, suggesting family dynamics could influence their self-perception.
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The best psychedelic (survey results)

1890 implied HN points • 26 Nov 24
🏥 Health & Wellness Psychedelics Mental health Substance Use Therapeutics Addiction
  1. Different people value different effects of drugs. Some want deep life changes, while others prefer milder experiences.
  2. Ayahuasca is often seen as the most intense option, but MDMA is highly rated for pleasure and social experiences.
  3. It's important to consider the risks and benefits when choosing a drug, as different ones can impact your life in various ways.

The Class Tier List

1256 implied HN points • 22 Nov 24
🎭️ Culture Sociology Trends Identity Arts Aesthetics
  1. People judge class based on wealth and aesthetic taste. For example, some activities may be rich but seen as low-class in taste, while others might be poor yet viewed as classy.
  2. A survey was conducted to rank various items by class, but it was only a small snapshot of one specific culture. The responses were mostly from young American men.
  3. The context of class rankings can vary and lead to surprising results, illustrating that people's perceptions of class are influenced by trends and cultural views.

Good At Sex: Seduction Via Narrative Reinforcement (pt 7)

1188 implied HN points • 14 Feb 24
🏥 Health & Wellness Sexual Health Relationships Psychology Self-Improvement
  1. Seduction is seen as a collaborative activity where both parties want the same thing - to overcome barriers and enjoy sex together.
  2. People often seek to reinforce narratives about themselves, so being able to sell the right self-image to someone can be a powerful tool in seduction.
  3. Understanding and appealing to a person's core desires and self-conception can be more effective in seduction than just focusing on physical attractiveness or immediate desires.

Good At Sex: Antagonistic Seduction (pt 8)

823 implied HN points • 09 Mar 24
🎭️ Culture Sexuality Evolutionary Psychology
  1. Some women are interested in displays of power and dominance in sexual scenarios, such as forced sex or consensual nonconsent.
  2. There is a common misconception that all sex should be loving and gentle, but sexual preferences can be diverse and complex.
  3. Understanding the nuances of sexual dynamics, including the balance between consent and nonconsent, can help navigate different preferences without causing harm.

Good At Sex: Misjudging What Women Want (pt6)

810 implied HN points • 29 Jan 24
🏥 Health & Wellness Sexuality Gender differences Relationships
  1. In the realm of sex, men often overestimate what women want, leading to potential misunderstandings in sexual encounters.
  2. Men may exaggerate women's desires based on their own observations and experiences, creating a gap in understanding.
  3. Understanding the differences in sexual preferences between genders can help in bridging the gap and improving communication in intimate relationships.

How To Hire An Escort: An Overly Analytical Guide

702 implied HN points • 10 Jan 24
🏥 Health & Wellness
  1. The guide provides comprehensive information on hiring an escort, from finding one to ensuring safety and etiquette.
  2. It emphasizes the importance of price in determining the quality and safety of the escort experience.
  3. Tips and considerations are provided for a successful escort experience, including how to ensure the escort's enjoyment.

My Birthday Gangbang

15 HN points • 01 Mar 24
🎭️ Culture Sexuality Events Experience Organizing Survey
  1. Despite societal pressures and fears, the author faced their anxieties to explore sexual adventures and gangbang experiences.
  2. Organizing a large orgy event involved significant planning, including safety measures like STI testing and logistics like condom distribution.
  3. Men who attended the gangbang reported positive experiences, with some facing challenges in maintaining arousal due to the unusual setup.