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Slut-onomics: How the scarcity of sluts tears the social fabric apart

Wood From Eden • 32 HN points • 12 Feb 24
🎭️ Culture Sexuality
  1. The availability of casual sex has always been uneven among men, with only a minority having most access.
  2. Slut-shaming in the past may have helped some men downplay their conquests, reducing competition and maintaining peace.
  3. The shift from categorizing women as 'good' or 'bad' to grading them on a scale has intensified competition and made rejections more personal.

The Sex and the State 2024 Holiday Gift Guide

Sex and the State • 12 implied HN points • 28 Nov 24
🎭️ Culture Sexuality
  1. Acknowdging,聊天建议也可以通过订阅的方式来提升性教育的知识，这是非常合适的礼物选择。
  2. 关于性的话题需要去除羞耻感，帮助更多人学习和探讨性愉悦，这样会对每个人都有益。
  3. 提供一些实用的礼物建议，比如好用的厨房工具和养猫的系统，这些会让生活更方便。

Monogamy stans stay obsessed with sex

Sex and the State • 27 implied HN points • 19 Feb 24
🎭️ Culture Sexuality
  1. Monogamy stans may have an obsession with sex, as hinted by the post.
  2. The author felt jealousy towards the success of a bestselling author with an open marriage.
  3. Differences in societal representation and personal achievements can influence one's feelings and perceptions.

Autogynephilia and the Sexualization of Shame

Year Zero • 46 implied HN points • 12 May 23
🏥 Health & Wellness Sexuality
  1. Autogynephilia involves a separation of gender identity from sexual desire which can lead to repression and shame.
  2. Autogynephilia can be a coping mechanism for deep-rooted shame and self-loathing in individuals.
  3. Individuals struggling with autogynephilia may use sexual fantasies as a way to escape from underlying core shame and pain.

My Birthday Gangbang

Knowingless • 15 HN points • 01 Mar 24
🎭️ Culture Sexuality
  1. Despite societal pressures and fears, the author faced their anxieties to explore sexual adventures and gangbang experiences.
  2. Organizing a large orgy event involved significant planning, including safety measures like STI testing and logistics like condom distribution.
  3. Men who attended the gangbang reported positive experiences, with some facing challenges in maintaining arousal due to the unusual setup.
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Which orifice? What organs? Who cares?

Reactionary Feminist • 24 implied HN points • 23 Jun 23
🎭️ Culture Sexuality
  1. Andrea Long Chu's work challenges traditional views on gender and sexuality.
  2. Gender-critical feminists criticize Chu for dismissing the importance of female bodies in defining femaleness.
  3. Chu's writings explore the impact of societal shifts on female sexuality and reproductive autonomy.

The Longhousing of Sexiest Man Alive

The Carousel • 14 implied HN points • 20 Dec 23
🎭️ Culture Sexuality
  1. The concept of 'Sexiest Man Alive' has shifted to a more neutered and sexless portrayal of male celebrities.
  2. The Longhouse ideology influences societal beauty standards, promoting weakness over traditional masculinity.
  3. The evolving criteria for 'sexiness' may lead to a lack of real sexual attraction and potentially impact human reproduction over time.

Why Sex Scenes are Now Cringe

The Carousel • 23 implied HN points • 21 Feb 23
🎭️ Culture Sexuality
  1. Hollywood sex scenes are now being scrutinized for issues of consent and portrayal
  2. Actors like Henry Cavill and Penn Badgley are choosing to opt out of sex scenes for various reasons
  3. There is a shift in power dynamics between male actors and female showrunners in the industry

Loki, Gender, and Sexuality in Norse Society

Norse Mythology & Germanic Lore • 1 HN point • 22 Dec 23
🎭️ Culture Sexuality
  1. Loki in Norse mythology is often portrayed as a man who engages in behavior considered unmanly, particularly highlighted by the insult 'ergi'.
  2. Norse society had rigid gender roles and expectations, with certain actions, like being accused of 'ergi', leading to severe consequences.
  3. While Loki is known to shapeshift into a woman on occasion, the majority of his appearances and actions in the myths are as a man, and he is referenced with male pronouns predominantly.

Is Bisexuality a Political Statement?

Data Taboo • 5 implied HN points • 10 May 23
🇺🇸 U.S. Politics Sexuality
  1. A surge of young women have identified as bisexual post-2016 election but only have sex with men.
  2. Statistics suggest bisexual women truly are attracted to other women, but there are more men available in the dating pool.
  3. Liberal young women in college often identify as LGBT, creating a dating pool where gender ratios may impact partner preferences.

Unpacking The "Gen Z" Mental Health Crisis

The Missing Data Depot • 3 implied HN points • 24 Jul 23
🏥 Health & Wellness Sexuality
  1. Conservatism and participation in core institutions like marriage, church, and the military are linked to better mental health, but Gen Z is moving away from these beliefs and behaviors.
  2. There is a surge in media coverage and concern about mental health issues among young people, with Gen Z showing a significant decline in mental well-being compared to previous generations.
  3. Factors like gender, sexual orientation, church attendance, marital status, education, military service, and social media use play similar roles in mental health perceptions for both Gen Z and older generations.

Queer Identity's Online Spotlight Overcoming Society's Shadow

Dilemmas of Meaning • 3 implied HN points • 01 Jun 23
🎭️ Culture Sexuality
  1. Queer people have turned to online spaces for refuge and representation due to societal barriers and prejudice
  2. Social Cognitive Theory (SCT) explains how queer identities are constructed through modeling, enacted experience, and direct tuition
  3. Online spaces provide essential support for queer individuals in terms of sex-ed, identity exploration, and community building

Having Sex Protects Against Vitamin D Toxicity

Harnessing the Power of Nutrients • 19 implied HN points • 19 Oct 12
🏥 Health & Wellness Sexuality
  1. Balancing vitamin D with vitamins A and K2 may prevent soft tissue calcification caused by vitamin D toxicity.
  2. Studies on mice suggest that sex can protect against vitamin D toxicity by reducing lethality and toxicity levels.
  3. The exact amount of sex needed for this protective effect, whether pregnancy is necessary, and the effects of contraception are still unclear.

The Dark Labyrinth of Male Sexuality

A blog. • 0 implied HN points • 19 May 25
🎭️ Culture Sexuality
  1. Sex is often viewed as a positive experience between consenting adults, but this view does not match real-life feelings and expectations. Many people still feel confusion and shame about their sexuality.
  2. There is a different perspective called the sex-negative approach, which focuses on understanding the potential harm and negative aspects of sexuality. This can lead to a more realistic view of sexual experiences.
  3. Understanding the darker sides of male sexuality can help in navigating complex feelings and societal pressures. It's important to acknowledge both the positive and negative aspects for true sexual liberation.

Genderformers: Sex in Disguise (1 of 2)

martymac • 0 implied HN points • 10 Dec 23
🏥 Health & Wellness Sexuality
  1. Gender madness is driven by taboos around sex and sublimation of western sex taboos.
  2. Men and women bond differently due to hormonal differences, impacting behavior and relationships.
  3. Understanding sex complementarity can help navigate societal views on masculinity and femininity.

From Rights to Pride to OnlyFans

martymac • 0 implied HN points • 19 Mar 23
🎭️ Culture Sexuality
  1. Gay rights evolved from legal battles to encompass sexual identity and pride, influencing societal concepts of sexuality.
  2. The concept of 'gay' shifted from behaviors to internal desires, leading to external manifestations through events like Pride but not necessarily involving sexual actions.
  3. The evolution of sexual identity towards a subjective, internal experience has influenced trends like higher porn use and the concept of sexual identity without the physical act of sex.

Midlife Crisis? Start a Social Sex Revolution.

The Intersection • 0 implied HN points • 21 Mar 23
🏥 Health & Wellness Sexuality
  1. Preparing for a midlife crisis involves saving money to have the financial freedom to pursue new opportunities.
  2. Discovering your calling early in your career can help develop the conviction needed for a successful second act.
  3. Designing your own system, guided by your core values, can help overcome fear and lead to happiness in pursuing new ventures.

We're on a break

Sex and the State • 0 implied HN points • 19 Mar 24
⛪ Faith & Spirituality Sexuality
  1. The author is taking a break from writing to spend time with family, so readers can check out older posts in the meantime
  2. The posts recommended to read are about love, relationships, and men's issues related to porn
  3. The newsletter focuses on human connection, self-improvement through relationships, and destigmatizing sex

Installment 3 of The Masai Part I Is Now Up!

Harnessing the Power of Nutrients • 0 implied HN points • 12 Aug 11
🎭️ Culture Sexuality
  1. In Masai society, women have the power to challenge decisions and influence the council of elders.
  2. The Masai fertility ritual involves symbolic elements like anointment with ox fat, emphasizing the importance of fertility and childbearing in their culture.
  3. Gender roles in Masai society show a defined authority structure, but women still hold significant influence and power.

Installement 2 of “The Masai Part I: A Glimpse of Gender, Sexuality, and Spirituality in the Loita Masai” is now up!

Harnessing the Power of Nutrients • 0 implied HN points • 31 Jul 11
🎭️ Culture Sexuality
  1. The post discusses divisions of labor, ownership rights, and authority by age and sex in Masai society.
  2. It provides insight into the gender, sexuality, and spirituality aspects within the Loita Masai community.
  3. The content is part of a series that delves into different facets of Masai culture and way of life.

“The Masai: Introduction” and “A Glimpse of Gender, Sexuality, and Spirituality in the Loita Masai” Are Both Now Up and Working

Harnessing the Power of Nutrients • 0 implied HN points • 27 Jul 11
🎨 Art & Illustration Sexuality
  1. Recent blog posts on the Masai by Chris Masterjohn, PhD were temporarily down but are now fixed and available for reading.
  2. The posts cover topics like gender, sexuality, and spirituality in the Loita Masai.
  3. Readers can enjoy learning more about the Masai culture through the blog posts.

Digital consent in the 21st century

Theory Matters • 0 implied HN points • 25 Feb 25
🎭️ Culture Sexuality
  1. Sex and politics are deeply connected. They can be used as powerful tools for expression that reveal our vulnerabilities and shape social norms.
  2. The internet has changed how we consume and view sex and pornography, making it more accessible but also raising ethical concerns about consent and exploitation.
  3. Consent in sexual relationships should be clear and enthusiastic, moving beyond just a basic agreement, as this impacts both partners and the performers in pornography.