How to be friends with people who impress you 216 implied HN points • 20 Jun 23 🎭️ Culture Social Interaction Celebrity Human connection Self-care People are not always the same as their public image, accept differences Interacting normally and mutually with others is more welcoming than putting them on a pedestal It's okay to take breaks and have an opt-out when socializing becomes overwhelming
How to be a better guest 137 implied HN points • 03 May 23 🎭️ Culture Etiquette Social relationships Hospitality Parties Gift Giving Never ask what you can bring as a guest, instead consider bringing flowers or an after-dinner game. Engage with loners at a party and facilitate introductions to ensure everyone has a good time. Arrive at the right time for a party, generally two minutes later for each additional guest to alleviate pressure on the host.
How to become more extroverted 117 implied HN points • 05 Aug 23 🏥 Health & Wellness Mental health Self-Improvement Social relationships Personal Growth Emotional Well-being Copy behaviors of confident people to improve your social skills. Find new friends who energize you and share common interests. Reflect on your happiness and push boundaries to overcome social anxiety.
How to get more women at your events 58 implied HN points • 20 Jun 23 🎭️ Culture Gender Events Safety Inclusion Communication Don't signal desperation by offering discounts for women at events Screen attendees to exclude problematic individuals and create a safe environment Avoid objectifying women and adjust event language to be inclusive and welcoming
How to fix your hayfever without drugs 58 implied HN points • 24 Jun 23 🏥 Health & Wellness Self-care Mental health Holistic Healing Thinking positively and relaxing can help alleviate hayfever symptoms. Believing in the method's plausibility is key to its success. Acknowledging the power of the mind over physical ailments like hayfever can lead to symptom improvements.
How to throw fantastic parties 4 HN points • 27 Apr 23 🎭️ Culture Event Planning Hospitality Social Dynamics Invite guests who are more interesting than you to make the party engaging. Make introductions between guests to help facilitate connections and conversations. Be self-deprecating, diffuse rudeness smoothly, and ensure all guests have a good time by addressing their needs.
Coming soon 0 implied HN points • 26 Apr 23 📰 News Social media Elle has a Substack newsletter coming soon. The Substack link is ellegist.substack.com. The newsletter is by elle, with a profile at substack.com/@ellegist.