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A morning message

Patti Smith • 19458 implied HN points • 26 Sep 23
⛪ Faith & Spirituality Loss Comfort Journey
  1. The author shares thoughts and emotions on a chilly autumn morning.
  2. The author reminisces about a beloved companion, Cairo, who has passed away.
  3. The author will continue to write and travel, sharing personal reflections along the way.

The Roots That Held The Earth

Soaring Twenties • 100 implied HN points • 29 Jan 25
🎭️ Culture Identity Family Heritage Reflection Loss
  1. Loss can deeply affect our sense of identity and belonging. When we lose important people or places, we often feel lost and disconnected from ourselves.
  2. Finding true belonging is about giving part of ourselves to a place or people, not just seeking to possess. A genuine connection requires authenticity and commitment.
  3. In difficult times, seeking meaning can help us navigate our pain. When we try to understand our experiences, we can find a way to move forward instead of feeling hopeless.
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The Worst, Worst Week

Culture Study • 8643 implied HN points • 07 May 23
🏥 Health & Wellness Grief Loss Recovery
  1. The author's dog passed away, leading to deep sadness and grief.
  2. The author is also recovering from their first case of COVID, adding to the difficult week.
  3. The author is taking a break from the newsletter to heal and put themselves back together.

The Fragile Beauty of Trying, with Isabella Goldman

Trying In Public • 79 implied HN points • 12 Jul 24
🏥 Health & Wellness Creativity Loss Vulnerability Self-compassion Grief
  1. Creativity is a mysterious process that often results in something beyond capture, whether creating life or art.
  2. Loss and failure are parts of the creative process, and handling them can vary based on the medium one works in.
  3. Being vulnerable and sharing the journey of trying, even if it leads to painful outcomes, can create stronger connections and provide valuable lessons in forgiveness and self-discovery.

The Incredible Beauty of Unlikely Friendships

Brent and Michael are Going Places • 904 implied HN points • 20 Mar 23
🏥 Health & Wellness Friendships Loss Connection Growth Community
  1. Unlikely friendships can have a profound impact on our lives, even if they are brief.
  2. People are not always what they seem, and judging based on first impressions or stereotypes can be misleading.
  3. Building connections with others, especially in unlikely circumstances, can bring a unique and beautiful experience to life.

The Whole of the Moon

The Joyous Struggle • 651 implied HN points • 02 Nov 23
⛪ Faith & Spirituality Tribute Loss Family Mental health
  1. Mark's life, though marked by schizophrenia, was celebrated and remembered for his unique spirit and experiences.
  2. The relationship between Mark and his brother Jonathan was deep and influential, guiding Jonathan's growth and shaping his life.
  3. Despite the challenges Mark faced due to his illness, his family and friends, especially his mother, provided unwavering support and care throughout his life.

Bowie RIP

The Weekly Dish • 1483 implied HN points • 29 Aug 23
🎨 Art & Illustration Tribute Loss
  1. The author's beloved dog Bowie passed away suddenly from cardiac arrest.
  2. The author and their partner will be taking an extra week to mourn and grieve before returning to their planned activities.
  3. Losing Bowie has been extremely difficult for the author, and they find solace in the love and support they have received.

Mike Perry RIP

Sour Milk • 294 implied HN points • 21 Jan 24
🎭️ Culture Friendship Travel Life reflections Loss
  1. Mike Perry was a respected surfboard shaper, writer, and meteorologist who passed away after battling cancer
  2. Perry was remembered as a loyal friend who taught important life lessons by example
  3. He had a profound impact on those around him and left a lasting legacy in the surfing community

Ghost Lap

The Commonplace • 1042 implied HN points • 28 Feb 23
⚔ Fiction Short Story Memories Loss Grief Video Games
  1. The protagonist reflects on his father's life and premature death, feeling the weight of unfulfilled potential.
  2. Returning to his childhood home after facing job loss and relationship troubles, the protagonist grapples with feelings of failure and uncertainty about the future.
  3. Finding an old PlayStation console sparks memories of bonding with his father through a video game, eventually leading to a poignant realization about letting go of past victories.

Playing In The Dark

Weekly Wisdom • 198 implied HN points • 22 Mar 23
🎶 Music Memory Fatherhood Loss Appreciation
  1. Playing music in the dark can offer a sense of freedom and focus, away from visual distractions.
  2. Memorable moments shared through music can hold deep meaning and provide comfort during difficult times.
  3. Music can serve as a powerful connection between generations, expressing love and appreciation beyond words.

Godspeed, Olivia Newton-John

Disaffected Newsletter • 579 implied HN points • 08 Aug 22
🎭️ Culture Music Aging Memories Loss Nostalgia
  1. Losing famous figures can remind us of our own memories and experiences from the past. It's not just about their death but about the changes we've seen over time.
  2. Middle age can bring a mix of clarity and contentment, but it also comes with a feeling of loss as we realize how fleeting life can be.
  3. Seeing things from our childhood age and fade can lead to a deeper understanding of life's temporary nature and evoke feelings of mourning.

Embrace Life, Embrace Death ⌛

Soaring Twenties • 108 implied HN points • 15 Mar 24
⛪ Faith & Spirituality Philosophy Life lessons Loss Reflection Immortality
  1. Embrace life and live fully, for it's the fear of not living up to our potential that is truly daunting.
  2. Memento Mori, the idea of remembering our mortality, can be a powerful reminder to make the most of our time and not take life for granted.
  3. Take care of yourself and cherish your loved ones daily, for life is fragile and unpredictable. Don't wait to start living authentically.

Losing words

The Leftovers • 99 implied HN points • 22 Nov 22
📚 Literature Books Writing Loss Art Creativity
  1. The author reflects on the idea that sometimes writing is meant to be left behind, rather than preserved or shared.
  2. The text discusses Daniela Cascella's book 'Singed,' which delves into themes of loss in various forms.
  3. The narrative explores the notion of writing as a cathartic process, allowing the writer to let go and embrace the act of losing words.

Love, Loss, and Dad's Death's Bar Mitzvah

Ladyparts • 299 implied HN points • 08 Dec 21
⛪ Faith & Spirituality Love Loss Grief
  1. The post reflects on the author's experience of grief on the anniversary of their father's death, highlighting the intensity and impact of loss.
  2. The importance of allowing oneself to fully feel and express grief, especially on significant dates like anniversaries.
  3. The tradition of lighting candles as a way to commemorate loss and to acknowledge the ongoing pain of grief.

Ambiguous Loss

effectiviology • 2 HN points • 19 Mar 24
🏥 Health & Wellness Loss Coping Grief Techniques
  1. Ambiguous loss occurs when someone loses connection with a loved one in a way that feels unclear and lacks resolution.
  2. Ambiguous loss can happen when a person is physically absent or present but psychologically unavailable.
  3. To cope with ambiguous loss, it's helpful to acknowledge it, use 'both-and thinking,' and focus on what you can control.

Usted se tendió a tu lado

The Leftovers • 0 implied HN points • 17 Sep 21
📚 Literature Translation Fiction Loss
  1. Translation is always an approximation and a perfect translation is impossible. Something is always lost, no matter how skilled the translator is.
  2. The Spanish pronoun 'usted' is a formal second person pronoun, similar to 'you sir/madam', and has nuances that make it impossible to exactly translate into English.
  3. The story 'Usted se tendió a tu lado' by Julio Cortázar relies heavily on the unique use of the personal pronoun 'usted' in Spanish, creating an effect that is challenging to convey in English.

tiễn người ra cửa rồi

Thái | Hacker | Kỹ sư tin tặc • 0 implied HN points • 15 Jul 10
⛪ Faith & Spirituality Reflection Love Loss Desire Emotions
  1. Ignoring those who adore us and loving those who ignore us can lead to loneliness and heartache.
  2. Rejection can make one understand and sympathize with others facing unreciprocated love.
  3. Loss of a cherished moment or relationship due to misunderstanding or inability to appreciate true feelings can create an unpayable emotional debt.