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What I Was Doing In My Early 20s

Castalia • 239 implied HN points • 01 Jun 23
🎭️ Culture Memoir
  1. Being in your early 20s can feel aimless and isolating. It's tough when you see others enjoying life while you struggle to find your path.
  2. Experiences in isolation can lead to deep self-discovery. Sometimes, stepping away from societal expectations helps you understand your true voice.
  3. Discipline and growth often come after a challenging phase. You may feel pressure to achieve quickly, but taking time to explore yourself can pay off in the long run.

Cockroaches

The Leftovers • 159 implied HN points • 16 Oct 23
🎭️ Culture Memoir
  1. The author recalls childhood memories of cockroaches in Argentina, where they were a common presence and even seen as pets amongst kids due to a TV show.
  2. Cockroaches lost their charm for the author when a cholera epidemic hit in the early 90s, changing the perception of these insects.
  3. The post also includes five interesting facts about cockroaches that the author found online, highlighting their resilience and unique characteristics.

Watershed

The Recovering Academic • 158 implied HN points • 26 May 23
📚 Literature Memoir
  1. The author explores the concept of epiphany in his writing journey, drawing from his religious upbringing and personal experiences to convey authenticity in memoirs.
  2. The piece delves into the process of writing memoirs as a means of discovering and articulating personal truths through a blend of innocence and experience in storytelling.
  3. The narrative features a reflection on the significant impact of a dam on the Kootenai Falls, illustrating the complexity of human interaction with natural landmarks.
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Meander, Spiral, Explode

lifeboat • 157 implied HN points • 27 Sep 23
📚 Literature Memoir
  1. Writing doesn't always need a linear narrative arc; explore different structures like meanders and spirals.
  2. Finding patterns and modulations in writing can help with structuring, instead of just plotting timelines.
  3. Consider visualizing your writing as a river, tree, or collage of colors for a more artistic and patterned approach.

On building cathedrals of thought

storyvoyager • 10 implied HN points • 01 Jan 26
📚 Literature Memoir
  1. Our shared beliefs shape the world, so changing them is necessary to create a better future. This work must be collective and long-term, built by many people over generations like a cathedral of thought.
  2. Individual reflection and unique worldviews matter because a clear mind can challenge collective reality and imagine new possibilities. Expressing ideas as concise, poetic insights and stories helps synthesize facts into human meaning.
  3. Storytelling and archives preserve human memory and help future generations grieve, learn, and imagine alternatives after loss. Fiction can both document a broken world and hold hope that inspires reflection and change.

Richard

Sounds Good! • 78 implied HN points • 23 Jan 24
📚 Literature Memoir
  1. The author is working on a new poetry project named 'Richard', with old and new poems in the sequence.
  2. The author reminisces about past experiences and relationships, reflecting on themes of sacrifice, friendship, and personal growth.
  3. There is a focus on storytelling, memories, and personal reflection through a mix of poetry and prose.

Revisiting and expanded: Thanks again, JT

Eclecticism: Reflections on literature, writing and life • 11 implied HN points • 14 Dec 25
🚌 Education Memoir
  1. Teaching can be deeply rewarding and fulfilling, bringing joy from helping students grow both academically and personally.
  2. A single inspiring teacher can spark a love of a subject and even influence someone’s career choices.
  3. Small, consistent acts of care—like noticing a shy student or suggesting clubs—have big, lasting effects on students’ confidence and memories.

Chapter One

Dunnstack • 137 implied HN points • 09 May 23
📚 Literature Memoir
  1. The paperback of 'Burn Rate' is now available, despite the usual trend of books not making it to paperback
  2. The author shares a personal story about his matriarchal upbringing and family history
  3. The author's mother sacrificed her own dreams to support her family, highlighting the immigrant experience and familial expectations

"I ain't even liked it yet"

Sundman figures it out! • 137 implied HN points • 26 Jun 23
📚 Literature Memoir
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Writing as Psychotechnology (30/30)

psychotechnology • 15 implied HN points • 01 Dec 25
📚 Literature Memoir
  1. Daily publishing forces you to do emotional work and build resilience through repeated practice, and publishing a lot increases the chance that a few pieces will break out and grow your audience.
  2. Writing can be used as a psychotechnology: it helps you sharpen your mental models, integrate difficult parts of yourself, and amplify your ability to act in the world.
  3. Balance output with new input — sometimes you need to pause publishing to go on quests and gather material, and learning to hit publish anyway (plus side practices like performance or exercise) strengthens your craft.

Mad Wives

Men Yell at Me • 234 implied HN points • 13 Nov 24
🎭️ Culture Memoir
  1. In marriage, roles can be confusing. Sometimes women give a lot, and men take, leading to questions about consent and complicity.
  2. Anger can be a powerful force for change, but it's important to think about who it serves. If it only helps ourselves, it may not be truly revolutionary.
  3. Villains and victims often exist in shades of gray. The same person can embody both roles, making it hard to draw clear lines in relationships.

When I Got Knifed

Sundman figures it out! • 117 implied HN points • 25 Jul 23
📚 Literature Memoir
  1. The author shared a story about being confronted by a knife-wielding assailant and how he managed to defend himself.
  2. The author reflected on experiences during the dot-com era and how a particular website played a role in spreading rumors about failing companies.
  3. Personal anecdotes about travels, encounters, weightlifting, and book promotions were seamlessly woven into the storytelling.

Monthly Meanderings: July 2023

Caravanserai with Samantha Childress • 117 implied HN points • 31 Jul 23
🏝 Travel Memoir
  1. The author is pausing payments for the newsletter to recalibrate and find a better writing rhythm.
  2. The author struggles with the pressure of producing timely content due to the nature of their writing process.
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Good Luck

Nice Try • 79 implied HN points • 30 Nov 23
📚 Literature Memoir
  1. Life starts with a mix of hope and uncertainty, like when a baby is born and everyone says 'good luck.'
  2. Family members can offer both warmth and caution, showing how different perspectives on luck and superstition can shape our lives.
  3. Childhood is filled with imagination and innocence, where simple moments, like seeing a butterfly, bring joy and a sense of magic.

*Tell Us a Childhood Story*, Part 1

Bet On It • 120 implied HN points • 10 Feb 25
📚 Literature Memoir
  1. Memories from childhood can be really fun to share, especially the funny or mischievous stories from when we were kids. It's great to connect with our own kids by telling them about our past adventures.
  2. Writing about my childhood was a breeze because I have so many vivid memories. It felt exciting to dive into those stories and create something new like a book.
  3. I'm open to exploring new opportunities in writing, even if it's a challenge. I believe that persistence pays off, and I'm excited about the possibility of sharing my childhood stories with a wider audience.

My Year in Books - 2025

Tippets by Taps • 6 implied HN points • 01 Jan 26
📚 Literature Memoir
  1. Golf made a big comeback, with several books blending practical instruction and philosophy to change how one thinks about and plays the game. They emphasized presence, course management, and the mental side of performance more than chasing perfect mechanics.
  2. There was a conscious move to read less non-fiction while still keeping a varied list, and a clear desire for more fiction recommendations—especially more science fiction after a standout read. The reading plan for the year leaned toward balance and seeking new imaginative picks.
  3. The selections split between big-picture, geopolitical and technological subjects (like the strategic importance of semiconductors and different national engineering approaches) and inward-facing works on mindset, duty, and spiritual living. That mix highlights both external systems shaping the world and personal practices for living well.

The Lost Children of Scientology

Journal of Free Black Thought • 13 implied HN points • 16 Nov 25
📚 Literature Memoir
  1. The author shares memories of being raised in a difficult environment called The Baby Factory, where many infants suffered from neglect and poor conditions. It was a challenging start to life, surrounded by chaos and discomfort.
  2. Growing up within the Scientology movement, the author felt he was seen as property rather than as a person. The movement's strict rules meant that family ties were often severed, leaving children feeling isolated and dispensable.
  3. Despite the hardships, the author finds a sense of purpose in wanting to connect with his mother and the idea of helping others. This hope for adventure gave him a glimpse of a future beyond his difficult upbringing.

Dreaming About Waking

Desk Notes by Charles Schifano • 121 implied HN points • 31 Jan 25
📚 Literature Memoir
  1. Dreams can feel more real than waking life, leading us to question what reality truly is. Sometimes, the experiences we have in dreams seem more intense and immediate than our daily experiences.
  2. The stories we tell about our past shape how we see ourselves. When we write or talk about our memories, we change those memories and how we understand our lives.
  3. Our perceptions of reality can often be misleading. It's important to stay open to new ways of seeing things and not be locked into one view of life.

Gaze At My Navel

The Reclamation Era • 99 implied HN points • 28 Aug 23
📚 Literature Memoir
  1. It's easy to feel the need to apologize or add disclaimers when sharing personal stories, especially for women. This often comes from wanting to be liked and accepted.
  2. Embracing our own stories without insecurity is important. Everyone's experiences matter and women especially should feel empowered to share theirs without shame.
  3. Letting go of the need for approval can help us grow. It's okay if not everyone likes what we present; the focus should be on being true to ourselves.

Lincoln Green

Mister Slang • 78 implied HN points • 18 Jul 23
📚 Literature Memoir
  1. The author reflects on their childhood in Lincolnshire in the 1950s, sharing memories of the county's unique features and their experiences growing up there.
  2. Growing up as one of the few Jewish families in Lincoln, the author reminisces about the challenges and adventures of maintaining their religious customs in a predominantly non-Jewish community.
  3. Despite the passage of time, revisiting one's childhood home can evoke a mix of nostalgia and reality, with familiar places often transformed or lost.

Tad Friend on Fathers and Sons, Husbands and Wives, and Surviving Infidelity

Ladyparts • 279 implied HN points • 07 Jun 22
🎭️ Culture Memoir
  1. Tad Friend's memoir explores family relationships and the impact of infidelity on love and identity.
  2. The narrative delves into personal introspection, revealing deeper layers of self-discovery beyond the initial subject matter.
  3. The author's captivating storytelling style draws readers into a journey of emotional exploration and reflection on life's complexities.

True Fiction

Desk Notes by Charles Schifano • 437 implied HN points • 21 Jul 23
📚 Literature Memoir
  1. The line between fiction and non-fiction is becoming less significant.
  2. The way a story is told is more important than the actual facts in memoirs or literature.
  3. Writing is subjective, changing based on moods and perspectives, but it's the voice and sensibility that truly matters in storytelling.

How a Story Gets Written

The Fairest Writer • 119 implied HN points • 06 Jun 23
📚 Literature Memoir
  1. Being curious about your art can spark new ideas. It's important to explore different styles and inspiration to grow as a writer.
  2. Sometimes a story can come out really quickly, almost like a burst of energy. Other times, it takes a lot of time and changes to get it just right.
  3. Both quick and slow stories have value. The key is to keep exploring your creativity, no matter how long it takes.

*Tell Us a Childhood Story*, Part 2

Bet On It • 80 implied HN points • 11 Feb 25
📚 Literature Memoir
  1. Childhood stories can be strange and memorable. They often shape who we are later in life.
  2. Sharing personal stories helps connect with others and evokes emotions. It can create a sense of understanding and community.
  3. Reading or listening to childhood tales can inspire us to reflect on our own past experiences. They remind us of the lessons we've learned and the fun we've had.

The Sweet Spot

The Recovering Academic • 59 implied HN points • 31 Mar 23
📚 Literature Memoir
  1. The author's love for baseball and the connection with his father shines through the memoir. Baseball became a bonding activity between them and a way for the author to feel close to his father.
  2. The author's experience in baseball and the pursuit of finding the 'sweet spot' on the bat is paralleled with his spiritual journey. The 'sweet spot' represents more than just a physical connection with the game, but also a sense of purpose and truth.
  3. Baseball serves as a metaphor for the author's internal struggles and search for validation and redemption. The game becomes a canvas where he grapples with guilt, faith, and the pursuit of meaning.

The First Road Trip

The Reclamation Era • 59 implied HN points • 11 Sep 23
📚 Literature Memoir
  1. Taking a long car trip can be stressful but also a chance for special memories. It's all about managing the chaos and making the best of the journey.
  2. Family homes hold a lot of sentimental value, and saying goodbye can bring up deep feelings. It’s tough to let go of places that hold childhood memories.
  3. Being a mom means constantly trying to prove you're doing well, even when things get chaotic. It’s important to cherish moments with family, despite the challenges.

How sugaring feeds my soul

The Recovering Academic • 59 implied HN points • 17 Feb 23
📚 Literature Memoir
  1. Maple sugaring is not just a culinary tradition but a cultural practice that connects people to nature and history.
  2. The process of syruping serves as a way to mark the changing of seasons and fosters community through shared experiences like tapping trees with friends.
  3. Syruping holds the potential to create lasting memories and connections to a sense of place, offering a way to anchor personal identity in a rapidly changing world.

Five books Sam Altman recommends

A Bit Gamey • 6 implied HN points • 07 Dec 25
📚 Literature Memoir
  1. Reading deeply changes what a person can become by sharpening judgment, deepening empathy, and helping make sense of big forces like AI.
  2. A small set of books can act as an operating manual: find meaning, spot cognitive biases, build genuinely new things, believe in progress, and learn how to scale fast.
  3. Treat reading as a deliberate practice—give yourself time to read, think, and reflect so you can choose better work and make bolder, clearer decisions.

No Story Today

backstory • 339 implied HN points • 20 May 23
📚 Literature Memoir
  1. The author struggles with writing in the presence of wild animals in their writing space.
  2. Wildlife interruptions have affected the author's writing projects in various locations.
  3. A recent encounter with a pygmy shrew disrupts the author's writing plans, leading to no story for today.

These Dreams

Disaffected Newsletter • 199 implied HN points • 06 Jul 22
📚 Literature Memoir
  1. Dreams can be a reflection of unfinished business in our lives. They might show us fears or unresolved issues we need to face.
  2. Tornadoes and plane crashes can symbolize deep-seated anxieties. These events often haunt dreams and can relate to feelings of fear and helplessness.
  3. Acknowledging past trauma is important for healing. Recognizing and understanding what our dreams tell us can lead to a better understanding of ourselves.

Breadcrumbs Across the Midwest

The Reclamation Era • 59 implied HN points • 31 Jul 23
🏝 Travel Memoir
  1. The journey back to childhood places can help remind us of who we used to be. It's powerful to reflect on different versions of ourselves and what we once loved.
  2. Reconnecting with old friends and sharing memories can be healing. Those deep connections from our youth can still bring joy and support in adulthood.
  3. Embracing our past experiences, both good and bad, is important for personal growth. Sometimes we need to revisit those times to realize how much we've changed and appreciate our current selves.

Chronicle of a childless cat lady

Unreported Truths • 57 implied HN points • 18 Nov 24
🎭️ Culture Memoir
  1. Emily Witt shares her life experiences in her memoir, focusing on her struggles with drug use and her relationships, particularly with a man named Andrew. She aims to present a self-aware view but misses some key insights about her own behavior.
  2. Witt's desire to be perceived as 'cool' drives her lifestyle choices, including her preferences for parties and partners. This desire reflects a specific elite culture that seems disconnected from the reality of most people's lives.
  3. While Witt portrays herself as a fighter for social justice, she often fails to acknowledge the perspectives of those closest to her, such as Andrew. Her narrative emphasizes her own experiences while sidelining others, raising questions about authenticity and empathy.

Sociopath: A Book Review

Living Fossils • 18 implied HN points • 25 Jun 25
📚 Literature Memoir
  1. The book shares a gripping story about someone living with sociopathy, showing how they experience life without common feelings like fear and guilt. This unique perspective helps readers understand the challenges and confusions they face.
  2. Gagne, the author, describes how she knows the difference between right and wrong but often doesn't care about it. This detachment influences her behavior, showing a clear contrast between sociopathy and typical emotional responses.
  3. The memoir highlights how certain emotions, like love and anger, may still exist for sociopaths, while others, like empathy and guilt, are largely absent. This creates a different way of relating to people and makes them approach life in a more utilitarian way.

The Emperor

Daniel Pinchbeck’s Newsletter • 3 implied HN points • 10 Dec 25
📚 Literature Memoir
  1. A powerful ruler obsessively pursues physical and digital immortality through biotech, lavish investment, and ritualized technology.
  2. He is haunted by memory and longing, searching for the Empress and a lost identity while recalling ancient rites and origins. His wanderings show a fugitive from himself more than a triumphant sovereign.
  3. Power and spectacle are shown as hollow and commodified, where wealth, fetishism, and media shape a collapsing empire more concerned with preservation than meaning.

Following My Trails of Breadcrumbs

The Reclamation Era • 39 implied HN points • 27 Jun 23
📚 Literature Memoir
  1. The journey of writing a memoir is ongoing and personal. It involves revisiting places and memories that shape who we are.
  2. Nostalgia plays a big role in the writing process. Going back to old homes and memories helps clarify thoughts and feelings.
  3. The experience of retracing past steps can bring unexpected gifts, making the journey as meaningful as the final product.

The Old Man And The River

Desk Notes by Charles Schifano • 97 implied HN points • 13 Feb 24
📚 Literature Memoir
  1. The author reminisces about a childhood memory of encountering an old man on a riverboat, highlighting how certain details may get blurred over time but the essence of the memory remains vivid.
  2. The physical appearance and actions of the man in the memory are described in detail, showcasing how our recollections can hold onto specific traits and emotions more than factual accuracy.
  3. The author emphasizes the importance of the sensations and feelings evoked by a memory, suggesting that the emotional impact of a recollection often outweighs precise factual details.

Too many books

The Leftovers • 39 implied HN points • 12 Nov 22
📚 Literature Memoir
  1. The publishing industry often thrives on the thievery of our time and brain cells, with many books being published that may not bring value to humanity.
  2. Not every book is a noble object, and the world wouldn't lose much if a vast majority of books disappeared, leading to more trees and less ideological issues.
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If I Don't Write It Down, Will I Remember It?

The Reclamation Era • 19 implied HN points • 10 Nov 23
📚 Literature Memoir
  1. Writing down memories and thoughts can help preserve them better. This practice helps keep our experiences alive even as time passes.
  2. Childhood experiences shape who we are and influence our creative paths. It's important to acknowledge how these moments impact our lives.
  3. The bond between siblings is unique and plays a significant role in our storytelling. Sharing these stories can strengthen relationships and inspire creativity.