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Navigating Life's Path: A Guide to Meaningful Living

Wayne's Earth • 0 implied HN points • 19 Jan 24
🏥 Health & Wellness Values Relationships Resilience Joy Gratitude
  1. Define Your Values: Understanding your core values is fundamental for a meaningful life. They are like your personal North Star guiding your decisions.
  2. Pursue Joy and Fulfillment: Engage in activities that bring you joy and fulfillment. Choose pursuits that align with your passion, whether in career, hobbies, or volunteering.
  3. Build Strong Relationships: Just as rivers and lakes form vital networks, relationships with family, friends, and community are essential. Nurture these connections regularly as your support system.

Stoic Thought on Honesty: Living Truthfully Inside and Out

Wayne's Earth • 0 implied HN points • 14 Oct 23
📖 Philosophy Stoicism Self-reflection Relationships Transparency Truth
  1. Stoic philosophy emphasizes living in harmony with nature's rational order through honesty, guiding one to live authentically without pretense.
  2. Internal honesty, like self-reflection, serves as a compass for growth and understanding towards Stoics.
  3. Stoicism encourages dismantling false narratives by acknowledging faults, biases, and irrational beliefs through rigorous self-honesty.

Adam Smith on the Power of Being Lovely

Wayne's Earth • 0 implied HN points • 18 Dec 22
📖 Philosophy Ethics Connections Happiness Relationships Value
  1. Adam Smith emphasized the importance of creating positive relationships by being lovely, as it leads to happiness and fulfillment for both parties.
  2. Treating others with kindness and politeness, even without expecting immediate benefits, can result in improved relationships in the long run.
  3. Small gestures such as smiling at strangers or offering sincere compliments can have a significant impact in making someone feel valued and respected.
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Adam Smith on Loving Others

Wayne's Earth • 0 implied HN points • 18 Dec 22
⛪ Faith & Spirituality Philosopher Kindness Relationships Success Love
  1. Adam Smith emphasizes the benefits of being kind and considerate towards others, highlighting that acting lovingly can bring joy, satisfaction, and positive feedback from those around us.
  2. Adam Smith underlines the importance of showing kindness not only to those close to us but also to strangers as a way to build meaningful relationships and create connections with people we may never have met otherwise.
  3. Adam Smith points out that being loving towards others can lead to success, as showing care and generosity can help us achieve our own goals, create positive relationships, and open up new opportunities.
  4. Adam Smith's ideas on being lovely still hold true today, showing that demonstrating love towards others can lead to personal fulfillment, meaningful connections, and unexpected opportunities.

How Adam Smith’s Theory of Human Nature Can Help Us Be More “Lovely”

Wayne's Earth • 0 implied HN points • 18 Dec 22
📖 Philosophy Human nature Kindness Empathy Acceptance Relationships
  1. Adam Smith promoted the idea of being 'lovely' by showing kindness, generosity, humility, and empathy towards others.
  2. To be 'lovely' in our daily lives, we can get involved with our community, understand diverse perspectives, and be mindful of our actions to create positive relationships.
  3. Striving to be 'lovely' according to Adam Smith can lead to more positive relationships, understanding between different groups, and a harmonious society.

Direct Communication vs. Sugar-Coating: Why We Should Speak with Clarity and Honesty

Wayne's Earth • 0 implied HN points • 13 Dec 22
🏥 Health & Wellness Communication Honesty Relationships Trust Self-Improvement
  1. Sugar-coating our words can lead to misunderstandings and false expectations, which can have serious consequences.
  2. Direct communication helps in avoiding misinterpretations and building trust in relationships by providing clarity and honesty.
  3. Speaking directly doesn't mean being harsh; it allows for effective communication even in tense situations and fosters cooperation towards common goals.

Season 04 - Newsletter 01 —> Athletes, sports teams and turbulent times

Product Hustle Stack Newsletter • 0 implied HN points • 19 Feb 24
🎾 Sports Athletes Teams Relationships Career Advice Performance
  1. View yourself as an athlete on a team, not a family member, in the employer-employee relationship.
  2. Look beyond your current company to see what good product management looks like in other organizations.
  3. Build a portfolio of highlights to showcase growth and value, regardless of the circumstances or outlook.

The real 40 questions that lead to falling in love

First principles trivia • 0 implied HN points • 07 Jan 23
🏥 Health & Wellness Relationships Intimacy Personal Development
  1. The original set of questions designed to lead to falling in love contained 40 questions, not 36, and was intended to gradually increase intimacy and vulnerability
  2. The questions included sharing personal stories, expressing gratitude, discussing dreams and aspirations, and reflecting on deep emotional topics like regrets and treasured memories
  3. These questions can serve as a tool for couples to enhance their connection and create emotional closeness in a structured and meaningful way

We're on a break

Sex and the State • 0 implied HN points • 19 Mar 24
⛪ Faith & Spirituality Relationships Self-worth Sexuality
  1. The author is taking a break from writing to spend time with family, so readers can check out older posts in the meantime
  2. The posts recommended to read are about love, relationships, and men's issues related to porn
  3. The newsletter focuses on human connection, self-improvement through relationships, and destigmatizing sex

Superfluous Apologies

effectiviology • 0 implied HN points • 12 Mar 24
🏥 Health & Wellness Apologies Relationships Trust
  1. An apology is expressing regret for a mistake and seeking forgiveness to repair relationships.
  2. A superfluous apology expresses regret for something not the apologizer's fault, showing empathy and building trust.
  3. Using superfluous apologies can enhance relationships, but overusing them can make them seem insincere.

Love and Dating in Death Note

Unstabler Ontology • 0 implied HN points • 18 Mar 24
🎭️ Culture Anime Relationships Storytelling Psychology Entertainment
  1. In Death Note, love can influence strategic decisions, leading to obedience, sacrifice, and even betrayal.
  2. The show explores the intertwining of love and dating with strategic gameplay, showcasing dynamics like competition among lovers and secretive communication.
  3. Real love and dating concepts, such as trust, obedience, and shared fantasies, are depicted in a gamified way, providing insights into human relationships.

NO GOOD

Links I Would Gchat You If We Were Friends • 0 implied HN points • 11 Apr 16
🎭️ Culture Social Issues Technology Relationships Entertainment Media
  1. The internet can facilitate important discussions and activism, like The Guardian's anti-harassment project.
  2. Online mapmakers, with no formal training, are contributing valuable insights into conflicts in countries like Syria and Yemen.
  3. The dynamics of attractiveness in relationships can vary, with some trends being influenced by online dating apps.

*Be* the nerd you wish to see in the world

Links I Would Gchat You If We Were Friends • 0 implied HN points • 04 Jan 16
🎭️ Culture Internet culture Social Issues Gender History Relationships
  1. Your Facebook News Feed is created by computer scientists, data scientists, and behavioral researchers using some mystical methods.
  2. Dogspotting online is more complex with strict rules and competitive dog photography community.
  3. An app called 'Just Not Sorry' aims to help women avoid 'ineffective' language in emails, but it may inadvertently reinforce stereotypes about femininity.

Or something equally thrilling

Links I Would Gchat You If We Were Friends • 0 implied HN points • 13 Mar 15
🎭️ Culture Internet Art Society Media Relationships
  1. Pi Day occurs annually on March 14th; it's a fun celebration for math enthusiasts and those who enjoy discounted baked goods.
  2. 4chan's founder left due to the site's negative environment and financial reasons.
  3. The intersection of 'high' and 'low' culture is debated with the idea that all forms of culture contribute to art and creativity.

Spirit rush? More like SPIRIT CRUSH.

Links I Would Gchat You If We Were Friends • 0 implied HN points • 29 Aug 14
🎭️ Culture Internet Media Entertainment Social Issues Relationships
  1. Avoid checking work email on weekends to maintain a healthier work-life balance and boost productivity.
  2. Get insight into the experiences and perspectives of individuals in unique and often misunderstood professions, like being a popular porn star.
  3. Explore new and diverse forms of entertainment and media, such as watching Twitch and following online gaming tournaments. Find unexpected enjoyment beyond traditional TV shows.

#hagrid2016

Links I Would Gchat You If We Were Friends • 0 implied HN points • 10 Jul 14
🎭️ Culture TV Internet Social media Celebrities Relationships
  1. Democratic party set up a digital boot-camp for campaigners with a Harry Potter theme called Hogwarts for digital wizardry.
  2. A dad jokingly made Vine videos of his baby that went viral, leading to unexpected fame, worry, and paparazzi.
  3. Seeking a long-term partner on OkCupid with a high compatibility rating may not always lead to a reassuring outcome.

Selfies, an official public health threat

Links I Would Gchat You If We Were Friends • 0 implied HN points • 10 Feb 14
🎭️ Culture Media Social media Trends Relationships Art
  1. Amazon makes books cheap but may be cheapening the written word as intellectual and cultural currency.
  2. "Flappy Bird" ended, highlighting the pointlessness of human existence. Now there's "Flappy Doge," proving the same point even more brutally.
  3. Soul Mate in a Box is a safe, online-only relationship to avoid heartache. Modern Love editor discusses it.

The conclusive argument against dick pics

Links I Would Gchat You If We Were Friends • 0 implied HN points • 05 Feb 14
🎭️ Culture Internet Social media Pop culture Relationships
  1. Twin sisters reunited through Facebook after being adopted from South Korea and raised in different countries.
  2. The dark web has a mysterious new leader known as 'Dread Pirate Roberts 2.0,' covered in an Ars Technica interview.
  3. An article discusses people in East Baltimore too poor to engage in pop culture, likening their surroundings to 'The Wire.'

How to Build Trust Without Playing Golf

The Uncommon Executive • 0 implied HN points • 27 Feb 24
💼 Business Diversity Trust Building Relationships Leadership Professional development
  1. Minority aspiring executives can face biases that hinder building trust and need to try different approaches to connect with their colleagues.
  2. Building trust at work can be achieved by focusing on common professional goals and interests, rather than solely relying on social interactions.
  3. To strengthen relationships, support colleagues in various ways, such as noting their achievements, offering assistance, and connecting them with others.

The learning relationship

Meaningness • 0 implied HN points • 15 Jun 23
⛪ Faith & Spirituality Buddhism Courses Relationships Practices
  1. The article discusses reinventing Vajrayana Buddhism for the modern world by separating the functional and social roles of lamas, making the reinvention project feasible.
  2. There is a Zoom discussion titled 'Guru vs Learning Relationship' happening, which explores the importance of learning relationships and how they differ from traditional guru roles.
  3. Upcoming events include a course on the Charnel Ground in Vajrayana Buddhism and a five-week course on transforming relationships through Vajrayana practices.

Becoming vaster than ideology

Meaningness • 0 implied HN points • 12 Dec 21
📖 Philosophy Ideology Relationships Power Health
  1. The post discusses moving past narrow ideologies to develop more accurate and powerful relationships with various belief systems.
  2. It mentions the concept of being vaster than ideology and how it can help in stopping blind allegiance to religions, scientism, political ideologies, and psychological theories.
  3. By becoming vaster than ideology, individuals can work towards cultivating healthier and more nuanced perspectives on ideologies.

Tip of the Day: Give Yourself and Others Some Grace

Are You Okay? • 0 implied HN points • 17 Oct 22
🏥 Health & Wellness Mental health Self-care Stress management Relationships
  1. Acknowledging the universality of struggle can lead to self-compassion and improved relationships, benefiting our health.
  2. Healing from the pandemic's psychological toll involves facing uncomfortable truths about ourselves and normalizing feelings of despair.
  3. Embracing the practice of 'holding paradox' helps in reframing mindset, setting realistic goals, and fostering empathy towards ourselves and others.

Take a Break

Are You Okay? • 0 implied HN points • 06 Sep 21
🏥 Health & Wellness Mental health Physical health Self-care Mindfulness Relationships
  1. Taking breaks is essential for health and creativity. Downtime is important for recharging.
  2. Honest introspection is crucial for personal growth and relationships. Self-reflection helps in better understanding and connecting with others.
  3. Tips for finding calm include being kind to yourself, practicing mindfulness, spending time in nature, moving your body, and maintaining connections with loved ones.

Ted Lasso Returns To Teach Us About Leadership! ⚽️

PeopleStorming • 0 implied HN points • 28 Jun 21
🎭️ Culture Leadership TV Show Relationships Teamwork Communication
  1. Ted Lasso is a TV show that focuses on relationships, personal struggle, teamwork, career choices, and communication more than just football.
  2. Ted, a character in the show, exemplifies great leadership qualities despite not having expertise in football, showcasing the importance of diverse skills and behaviors in leadership.
  3. The show is a great source of leadership inspiration, with 10 principles believed to be embodied by Ted, making it enjoyable and insightful for viewers.

A better way to check in on your colleagues 👋

PeopleStorming • 0 implied HN points • 21 Apr 20
🏥 Health & Wellness Mental health Relationships Communication
  1. Different types of check-in questions are useful for different situations: fun & inconsequential, personal & connected, deep & valuable.
  2. Consider factors like group size, group familiarity, conversation duration, and context of relationship when choosing questions for check-ins.
  3. Choosing the right check-in question can help deepen connections and strengthen relationships with colleagues.

Entrepreneurs In Search For Support

Venture Prose • 0 implied HN points • 22 Jan 19
💼 Business Entrepreneurship Networking Relationships Support Growth
  1. Engage with smart, capable, and well-connected individuals for support as a founder. They unlock potential, tackle challenges, and offer valuable connections.
  2. Interact with like-minded people for deep discussions, specialists for specific help, and strategists for unique perspectives. Foster these relationships for mutual growth.
  3. Ensure relationships are built on honesty, regular interactions, and structured conversations. Act reliably, commit thoroughly, and maintain a positive attitude.

Reflections on Venture Capital

Venture Prose • 0 implied HN points • 14 Aug 18
💼 Business Venture Capital Relationships Investments Decision-making Entrepreneurship
  1. Building a lasting partnership in business, especially in entrepreneurship, can be challenging due to differing paths and potential tensions.
  2. Transparent and honest communication is crucial for overcoming differences in relationships, including in the VC-Founder dynamic.
  3. In Venture Capital, focusing on a common set of purpose, values, and principles, along with talent and merit, is essential for building a committed and accountable team for delivering performance.

How To Manage Finances When Moving In Together

Austin's Analects • 0 implied HN points • 11 Apr 23
💰 Finance Personal Finance Relationships
  1. Creating a shared budget is key: Budget for rent, utilities, groceries, etc. to understand expenses together.
  2. Open a joint checking account: Use it to cover shared expenses hassle-free without the need for splitting every bill.
  3. Set up automatic transfers and payments: Simplify managing finances by scheduling transfers and payments for shared expenses.