The hottest Relationships Substack posts right now

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The View from Rural Missouri by Jess Piper • 31690 implied HN points • 12 Feb 24
  1. The impact of political beliefs on personal relationships can be significant, even leading to estrangement and deep regrets.
  2. People's views and behaviors can drastically change, especially in response to political figures, causing distress and confusion for loved ones.
  3. The legacy a person leaves behind is shaped by their words and actions, emphasizing the importance of fostering positive connections and memories.
The Intrinsic Perspective • 5983 implied HN points • 05 Mar 24
  1. Every era has its unique cultural norms that influence our life decisions; understanding and counterbalancing these norms can help in making personal choices.
  2. Choosing the less common path or the one opposite to what culture pushes may lead to personal growth and success, even if it feels challenging at first.
  3. Maintaining a balance between love and career decisions often involves navigating societal biases and personal priorities, requiring thoughtful introspection and contrarian thinking.
Culture Study • 7244 implied HN points • 14 Feb 24
  1. Friendship used to be considered a vital part of life through history, becoming sidelined as marriage took priority in emotional connections.
  2. Modern ideals often emphasize a spouse also being a 'best friend', impacting how friendships are valued and maintained.
  3. Cultural norms and societal structures make it challenging to prioritize and nurture friendships over traditional family setups, but it's about understanding the possibilities and taking steps towards meaningful platonic connections.
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Ladyparts • 1837 implied HN points • 18 Apr 24
  1. Researchers found that in married couples where one did not feel supported by the spouse, stress hormone cortisol was present in their saliva
  2. Feeling supported, seen, heard, and loved by your spouse can help reduce chronic stress
  3. The impact of lack of spousal support on mental health can lead individuals to seek help from professionals like psychiatrists
Ask Polly • 6230 implied HN points • 22 Jan 24
  1. Cherish your dreams and desires proudly and see your horizons expand.
  2. Recognize that finding the right partner may involve accepting imperfections and making compromises.
  3. Embrace your inner strength and individuality, and believe in your ability to thrive and be loved, with or without a partner.
Freddie deBoer • 2350 implied HN points • 08 Mar 24
  1. The book 'Love in the Time of Incarceration' explores relationships with inmates and challenges stereotypes about prison love.
  2. Online communities for women with incarcerated loved ones provide support and understanding, forming a unique sisterhood.
  3. The book delves into the complexities of incarcerated relationships, showing how love can thrive in challenging circumstances.
Trevor Klee’s Newsletter • 2910 implied HN points • 20 Feb 24
  1. As people grow older, they tend to spend less time with their parents and siblings, shifting towards spending more time with friends, kids, and spouse.
  2. Due to limited time spent with family, individuals may feel like inverse strangers, knowing intimate details yet unable to rely on each other for everyday support.
  3. Memories and interactions within a family become fragmented snapshots over time, creating a sense of distance and unfamiliarity among family members.
Opaque Hourglass • 259 implied HN points • 19 May 24
  1. The post talks about a unique and interesting meet-cute scenario involving a dagger and a paintbrush.
  2. The story emphasizes the unexpected and oddly poetic nature of the encounter in the narrative.
  3. It highlights the idea of shared fate or destiny, where the protagonists unknowingly select a brush and blade attached to a single handle from a barrel.
astrology for writers • 2515 implied HN points • 04 Feb 24
  1. Honesty in writing is crucial for crafting a compelling narrative and connecting with readers.
  2. Sharing personal stories and experiences can empower others to make positive changes in their lives.
  3. Being honest with oneself can lead to self-awareness, growth, and the ability to make necessary changes.
Common Sense with Bari Weiss • 2207 implied HN points • 14 Feb 24
  1. There is a growing political divide between young men veering right and women leaning left, complicating dating and relationships.
  2. Consider ditching dating apps and try more traditional methods like asking for setups from friends or striking conversations in real life.
  3. Getting married can lead to a happier, more prosperous, and more meaningful life, despite common myths about relationships and career choices.
Rob Henderson's Newsletter • 2121 implied HN points • 14 Feb 24
  1. Sociometric status, like respect and admiration from peers, can influence well-being more than socioeconomic status, even for introverted individuals
  2. The family structure is noted as a hindrance to central control of social processes in historical Marxist literature. Engels initially included undermining family bonds in the Communist Manifesto draft
  3. Women in their twenties using Tinder are more likely to swipe right for a man with a master's degree compared to one with a bachelor's degree
Persuasion • 2692 implied HN points • 26 Jan 24
  1. Family estrangement is becoming more common in the United States, with societal shifts and individual empowerment contributing to the trend.
  2. The impact of estrangement on both parents and adult children can lead to deep sadness, embarrassment, and longing for familial connection.
  3. While family estrangement may seem like a socially endorsed choice, it carries a heavy emotional toll, spreading through generations and leaving individuals feeling lonely and anchorless.
Parents with Inconvenient Truths about Trans (PITT) • 2279 implied HN points • 02 Feb 24
  1. A conversation between a father and daughter in heaven reflects on past struggles with gender identity
  2. The father expresses regret for not protecting the daughter better and struggles with forgiving those who enabled gender confusion
  3. The daughter acknowledges the impact of her choices on her father, illuminating the challenges of understanding and coping with changing identities
The Bluestocking • 2063 implied HN points • 19 Jan 24
  1. Yale's elite secret societies like Skull and Bones have become more diverse in recent years
  2. The concept of polyamorous relationships involves shared calendars and mutual understanding
  3. Various articles and stories about different topics like British monarchy, JK Rowling, and Trumpism are shared in the post
The Vajenda • 7979 implied HN points • 09 May 23
  1. It's important to recognize and address anger and frustration, especially when facing inequality in relationships.
  2. Blaming menopause for relationship issues absolves men of accountability and perpetuates harmful stereotypes.
  3. Prioritize self-care and know when it's crucial to stand up against mistreatment in relationships.
Airplane Mode with Liz Plank • 1867 implied HN points • 11 Jan 24
  1. Men's behavior in relationships is not always as simple as 'If he wanted to, he would.'
  2. Slogans like 'If he wanted to, he would' may have underlying anti-feminist implications and oversimplify modern dating dynamics.
  3. In today's dating scene, understanding and compassion for both genders can help avoid misunderstandings and improve relationships.
Richard Hanania's Newsletter • 1560 implied HN points • 23 Jan 24
  1. Political polarization does not significantly impact young people's ability to form relationships across ideological lines.
  2. Claims that it's harder for conservative men to date liberal women due to political differences may not be accurate in all situations.
  3. People often misunderstand the dynamics of forming relationships based on political beliefs.
Knowingless • 1188 implied HN points • 14 Feb 24
  1. Seduction is seen as a collaborative activity where both parties want the same thing - to overcome barriers and enjoy sex together.
  2. People often seek to reinforce narratives about themselves, so being able to sell the right self-image to someone can be a powerful tool in seduction.
  3. Understanding and appealing to a person's core desires and self-conception can be more effective in seduction than just focusing on physical attractiveness or immediate desires.