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Better late than never. . .

The Reclamation Era • 59 implied HN points • 12 Oct 22
🎭️ Culture Parenting Self-care Creativity Personal Growth Writing
  1. It's okay to take your time when starting something new, like writing. Commit to it, even if it feels hard at first.
  2. Sometimes, life gets busy and it's hard to carve out time for yourself. Finding moments for small pleasures can make a big difference.
  3. Asking for help can feel tricky, but it's important to lighten your load and take breaks when you need them. Everyone needs support, even moms!

Highlights from Natural Selections in 2024

Natural Selections • 4 implied HN points • 31 Dec 24
🏥 Health & Wellness Nutrition Mental health Science Parenting Education Politics
  1. Motherhood is a powerful experience that many view negatively, but it can actually be exhilarating and fulfilling. It's important to embrace the joy and significance it brings.
  2. Big Food and Big Pharma are under scrutiny for promoting unhealthy products and quick-fix solutions. People should be cautious and learn to think critically about their dietary choices and health.
  3. Science and education should be reclaimed from those who misuse them for their agendas. It's important to practice skepticism and independent thinking in a world filled with misinformation.

Iron Lotus

Transmissions from the floor • 27 implied HN points • 28 Oct 23
🎭️ Culture History Education Psychology Parenting
  1. The historical practice of foot binding and bonsai kitten-ing show how physical constraints can shape living things.
  2. Wilhelm Reich's work on character analysis highlights different coping mechanisms rooted in childhood traumas.
  3. Educational and parenting norms, influenced by historical practices, play a significant role in shaping individuals in society.

Demise of the Pac-12, Campus Spending, and DeSantis at Yale

The Future of Education • 19 implied HN points • 14 Sep 23
🚌 Education Higher Ed Innovation Schools Parenting
  1. Colleges are facing financial challenges as federal funding decreases and there's pressure to bring in more revenue, even impacting athletic programs like the Pac-12.
  2. Many colleges are criticized for excessive spending that doesn't align with providing value to students, contributing to the overall cost crisis in higher education.
  3. It's important to rethink incentives and challenge the idea that spending more equates to delivering a better education at colleges.
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My Last Normal Day

Just Enough to Get Me in Trouble • 18 implied HN points • 15 Mar 24
🏥 Health & Wellness Parenting Community Daily Life Challenges Resilience
  1. The author reflects on their last normal day before their daughter was born, finding a moment of peace and simplicity in the midst of upcoming challenges
  2. The story delves into the evolving challenges of parenting a child with cerebral palsy, highlighting the unique struggles and emotional impact on everyday life
  3. The post explores the concept of 'normalcy' and how each individual's perception of normal is shaped by their experiences and circumstances

Baby Amnesia

DruGroup • 59 implied HN points • 19 Oct 21
😂 Humor Parenting Childbirth Life lessons Human behavior Comedy
  1. Baby amnesia is the idea that parents forget the hard parts of having a baby so they are willing to have more. This helps keep the human race growing.
  2. Many women go through painful and physically tough experiences during pregnancy and childbirth, yet they often choose to have more children. This shows how powerful baby amnesia can be.
  3. After giving birth, the feelings of joy and relief can make parents forget all the difficulties they just faced, highlighting the amazing but challenging journey of bringing new life into the world.

The summer book

Austin Kleon • 59 implied HN points • 18 Jun 21
🎭️ Culture Books Art Music Parenting Media
  1. Reading is fun and you can enjoy multiple books at the same time. It's okay to skim through and see what interests you!
  2. Brian Eno has started his own radio station, which is a cool way to discover new music. It has a lot of unreleased tracks to explore.
  3. Creating art and doing projects with your kids can be a great bonding experience. It can also spark creativity in both you and your children.

When the mind’s eye is blind

Austin Kleon • 59 implied HN points • 11 Jun 21
🎭️ Culture Art Literature Music Podcasts Comedy Parenting
  1. Some people can't create pictures in their minds. This means their imagination works differently, which can be surprising.
  2. Taking better notes can help improve writing skills. Using methods like smart notes is a good way to organize thoughts.
  3. Creative activities, like making collages or watching fun movies, can be a great way to relax and enjoy time with friends. It's all about finding what makes you happy.

Infant Screen Use Leads to Reduced Cognitive Skills at Age 9

Jakob Nielsen on UX • 15 implied HN points • 07 Aug 23
🏥 Health & Wellness Child development Research Studies Cognitive skills Screen Time Parenting
  1. Infant screen use at age 1 can lead to reduced cognitive skills at ages 4 and 9.
  2. Research shows that extended screen time in infancy can have long-term negative effects on cognitive abilities.
  3. Studies suggest limiting screen time for infants and encouraging more physical play for healthy cognitive development.

Can Marriage Be Saved?

In My Tribe • 9 HN points • 02 Mar 24
🏥 Health & Wellness Marriage Fertility Parenting Tradition Psychology
  1. Being able to make and keep commitments is essential in a successful marriage, and conscientiousness can be developed through rewards, punishments, and exercises.
  2. Appreciating tradition, including religious rituals, can give significance to your marriage and family, making the journey more fulfilling.
  3. Agreeing on family size, having a stable neighborhood, and positive peer pressure towards marriage and children can all contribute to a strong and lasting marriage.

How to Curate Your Own Midlife Crisis

The Reclamation Era • 2 HN points • 04 Mar 24
🏥 Health & Wellness Mental health Life Changes Personal Growth Self-discovery Parenting
  1. Midlife can feel like a time of big questions about who we really are. It's a moment to reflect on our lives and make changes if we need to.
  2. Going through difficult times, like health issues or family challenges, can lead to personal growth. Embracing these challenges can help us find new paths and passions.
  3. Taking time for self-discovery is important. Looking deep inside ourselves and exploring our feelings can lead to better understanding and make us feel more fulfilled.

Every time someone says “Please think of the children”, fertility sinks by a millimeter

Wood From Eden • 5 HN points • 26 Feb 24
🎭️ Culture Society Parenting Economics Beliefs Social Issues
  1. Fertility declines when people emphasize 'Please think of the children', impacting how many children are born.
  2. The focus on raising children is splitting into two camps: Economy, redirecting money to parents, and Culture, where having children is seen as part of a meaningful life.
  3. Increasing the financial support for parents may not be effective in addressing declining birth rates - cultural beliefs and societal costs may be more impactful.

Elementary Schoolers are taking Algebra I

Kids Who Love Math • 3 HN points • 13 Mar 24
🚌 Education Math Teaching Learning Parenting
  1. Elementary schoolers are taking high school level Algebra I, which is surprising because it's not common and not widely discussed.
  2. The Baader-Meinhof phenomenon explains how we notice things more once we become aware of them, like kids excelling in advanced math.
  3. The Roger Bannister Effect shows how breaking through perceived limits can inspire others to achieve new possibilities, such as young children excelling in higher-level math.

The Long Game 156: Testosterone, Parenting, Own it Mentality, Pushing the Urgency

The Long Game by Mehdi Yacoubi • 6 implied HN points • 12 Jul 23
🏥 Health & Wellness Parenting Wellness Better Thinking Brain Food
  1. Testosterone levels can be impacted by factors like sunlight, stress, diet, sleep, and environment.
  2. Parenting is a mix of joy and challenges; it's okay to acknowledge the difficulties alongside the rewarding moments.
  3. Having an 'Own It Mentality' means taking responsibility, following through on commitments, and communicating effectively in both personal and professional life.

PSA (Public Self-Admonishment)

Building the Builders • 7 implied HN points • 16 Mar 23
🏥 Health & Wellness Parenting
  1. The author is taking a break from creating content to focus on spending quality time with their infant son.
  2. The author acknowledges the struggle of balancing work and parenting responsibilities.
  3. Self-reflection and admitting the need to change behavior patterns are important for personal growth.

The Long Game 155: Mindbody Syndromes, Travel, The Mindset of Arnold, Modern Dating

The Long Game by Mehdi Yacoubi • 5 implied HN points • 03 Jul 23
🏥 Health & Wellness Parenting Physical Fitness
  1. Explore the concept of mindbody syndromes and psychosomatic conditions that can manifest as chronic pain.
  2. Consider the thought-provoking perspective on travel and the potential narrow mindset it can create.
  3. Learn from the extreme mindset of Arnold Schwarzenegger, focusing on determination and drive for success.

The Coming of Enki V

Confections & Reputations • 0 implied HN points • 25 May 23
⚔ Fiction Science fiction AI Parenting
  1. Chloe's behavior at school is proving challenging due to her intelligence and frustrations.
  2. The school is facing issues with translation technology affecting communication among adults and students.
  3. Ms. Sterne suggests spending quality time with Chloe and limiting the use of technology to improve their relationship.

Wrapping Up My 2023 Reading Journey Of 106 Books

Harmony • 0 implied HN points • 17 Jan 24
📚 Literature Philosophy Management Leadership Parenting Psychology
  1. In 2023, the author read 106 books over nine months, reflecting on them and sharing their top picks and statistics.
  2. The top 3 books that stood out were about family relationships, leadership and management, and challenging common work beliefs.
  3. The author plans to read 10 or more books in 2024, reread favorites from 2023, and include at least one paperback book.

Three Books from Another Time

The False Consensus Effect • 0 implied HN points • 17 Oct 21
📚 Literature Poetry Parenting
  1. Discovering the joy of reading changed the author's life trajectory, leading to a pursuit of literature and self-expression through writing and painting.
  2. The author learned to embrace self-publishing and the democratization of free expression, avoiding the pressures of traditional publishing.
  3. Reflecting on love, family, and creativity, the author emphasizes the importance of personal growth, supporting children, and finding wonder in everyday moments.

The Oswego River School

The False Consensus Effect • 0 implied HN points • 04 Dec 20
🎨 Art & Illustration Creativity Personal Development Reflection Parenting Life events
  1. Struggling with mediocrity and financial challenges as an artist can be a tough reality to confront.
  2. Popularity and success in different fields like music and entertainment don't always align with true talent or impact.
  3. Balancing personal passions with practical career choices can lead to conflicts and uncertainties, especially in the creative industry.

GRANTED: Good listening and bad PowerPoint

Granted • 0 implied HN points • 01 Feb 20
🚌 Education Listening Parenting Psychology Podcasts
  1. Good listening involves more than just talking less; it includes asking questions and showing genuine interest in others.
  2. Avoid using words on PowerPoint slides and saying them out loud to enhance learning and avoid cognitive overload.
  3. Success should not be measured solely by career achievements but also by the impact we have on others' lives and the relationships we cultivate.

GRANTED: The two kinds of respect employees want and why you should bet on older entrepreneurs

Granted • 0 implied HN points • 15 Jul 18
💼 Business Entrepreneurship Management Workplace Parenting
  1. Employees want two kinds of respect: owed respect, which is about being included and recognized as a human being, and earned respect, which is about being valued for contributions
  2. Betting on older entrepreneurs can be more beneficial, as 40-year-olds are more likely to found successful startups compared to 25-year-olds
  3. The evolution of self-esteem in a career involves transitioning from feeling unimportant to pursuing work that is important, which leads to increased productivity and impact

Maybe don't?

Links I Would Gchat You If We Were Friends • 0 implied HN points • 08 Oct 15
🕹 Technology Internet Social media Online Content Parenting Community
  1. Wikipedia was initially designed to be easily editable by anyone, but now it's infamous for its strict editing policies.
  2. Mixing Facebook with parenting discussions creates a judgmental online space filled with personal ideologies.
  3. Many online platforms aim to create a consolidated space to show users a wide range of content, like Twitter Moments and Reddit's Upvoted.