Richard Hanania's Newsletter • 5291 implied HN points • 09 Mar 26
- Heterosexual attraction often depends on complementarity: men typically prioritize youth and physical attractiveness while women more often prioritize status, resources, or power.
- Pushing heterosexuals to adopt a lesbian-style model of romance that minimizes power differences and emphasizes compatibility only — and stigmatizing age gaps, workplace dating, or transactional aspects — can reduce pairing and harm family formation.
- We should be realistic and nonjudgmental about different adult relationship types, acknowledge how dating apps and changing social norms reshape mating markets, and avoid selectively condemning common transactional dynamics.