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Agile Dating - A Less Painful Way to Date

Cozy Philosophy • 14 HN points • 24 May 24
🏥 Health & Wellness Self-Improvement
  1. Modern dating can be confusing and stressful due to limited information and time, leading to self-doubt and anxiety.
  2. Approaching new relationships with Agile Dating principles helps navigate uncertainties with clarity, empathy, and continuous improvement.
  3. Agile Dating involves treating relationships as experiments with co-creators, radical transparency, empathy, and regular check-ins to decide on next steps.

Overcoming fear — One coffee at a time

10x your mind • 79 implied HN points • 27 Jul 23
🏥 Health & Wellness Self-Improvement
  1. Fear can be overcome gradually, one step at a time, just like meeting up for a coffee.
  2. Identify your fears specifically, measure their impact on your life goals, and focus on resolving the ones that truly hinder your growth.
  3. Take small steps to combat your fears, reflect on your progress, and keep moving forward in overcoming them.

Free Agent

Finding Joy • 78 implied HN points • 01 Jul 23
🏥 Health & Wellness Self-Improvement
  1. Freedom comes with responsibility - owning your choices and actions is key to creating the life you want.
  2. Avoid seeking instructions from others out of fear - taking radical ownership is challenging but necessary.
  3. Embrace agency and take control of your life - you have the power to shape your future and influence your circumstances.
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The virtue of indifference to outcome

Strategy Notes • 78 implied HN points • 29 Mar 23
📖 Philosophy Self-Improvement
  1. Having a sense of indifference to outcomes in competitions and challenges is important for strategists.
  2. Although outcomes matter, it's beneficial to approach challenges with indifference in the heart and mind.
  3. Strategists should cultivate a sense of indifference to the outcome of any given challenge for long-term success.

Q1 check in

Nonlinear • 78 implied HN points • 09 Apr 23
🏥 Health & Wellness Self-Improvement
  1. Prioritize more travel and time with close friends in Q2 2023.
  2. Focus on more reading and consistent writing while stopping energy drainers at school.
  3. Embrace 'real work' over 'fake work' and start working on bucket list goals like running a marathon.

Self-coercion

Rocket Philosophy by Ian • 78 implied HN points • 24 Jun 23
🏥 Health & Wellness Self-Improvement
  1. Self-coercion as a motivator can lead to short-term gains but long-term misery.
  2. The path to a disciplined lifestyle can be based on being in touch with one's needs.
  3. Developing a mindset that focuses on intrinsic motivation and understanding one's needs can lead to meaningful and fulfilling discipline.

What the Law of Attraction has to offer Type A's

The Leadership Lab • 78 implied HN points • 24 Sep 23
🏥 Health & Wellness Self-Improvement
  1. Belief in things happening without direct involvement can be beneficial for Type A personalities, promoting trust and allowing for more enjoyable journeys.
  2. High performers often have an unwavering belief in achieving their goals, which boosts resilience and positivity in difficult times.
  3. Balancing fundamental knowledge with experimentation is key for optimal learning, as relying solely on hacks or fundamentals can lead to stagnation.

Why We Fail to Change

The Leadership Lab • 78 implied HN points • 16 Apr 23
💼 Business Self-Improvement
  1. Behavior change fails when we target outcomes that do not truly align with our desires. Adjust goals if they do not feel right.
  2. Change can be hindered when more immediate needs take precedence. Focus on addressing foundational needs first before pursuing higher aspirations.
  3. Uncertainty can impede behavior change, even when all other elements seem aligned. Find and believe in a reliable process to facilitate change.

Everything I Know About Business I Stole from the San Francisco 49’ers

Michael’s Newsletter • 78 implied HN points • 21 Mar 23
💼 Business Self-Improvement
  1. Athletes and entrepreneurs are similar, as they both need to play to their strengths, bounce back from losses, and work for results that may take time to show.
  2. Focus on processes and habits in business rather than just on outcomes like growth rates and revenue.
  3. Challenging assumptions, trusting gut instincts, and being resourceful are key for entrepreneurs to succeed, just like Bill Walsh did with the San Francisco 49'ers.

A journal of becoming

Pav writes • 78 implied HN points • 30 Mar 23
🎨 Art & Illustration Self-Improvement
  1. Focus on an organic creative process to create and publish more easily and frequently.
  2. Recognize and counter high-brow biases by approaching creativity with love and care.
  3. Counter hierarchical and negativity biases by doing everything with love and attention.

Human in an AI Age: Grace

The Future Does Not Fit In The Containers Of The Past • 36 implied HN points • 20 Jul 25
🎭️ Culture Self-Improvement
  1. Grace is a unique human quality that combines dignity, humility, and generosity. It helps us connect with others in an increasingly AI-driven world.
  2. Dignity means treating everyone with respect, and understanding that we all have potential and challenges. It's something AI may struggle to grasp.
  3. Humility is about keeping perspective and recognizing that success often involves luck and circumstances beyond our control. AI may not comprehend this human experience.

Behaviors That Attract People

Prawfeed Newsletter • 4 implied HN points • 06 Jan 26
🏥 Health & Wellness Self-Improvement
  1. Be genuine and present — share real smiles, be yourself, and show quiet confidence so people find you approachable and trustworthy.
  2. Focus on others by listening beyond words, holding eye contact, asking good questions, and praising their accomplishments to make them feel seen.
  3. Show kindness and openness — express sincere appreciation, offer help without expectation, and stay open-minded to invite connection.

SuperHuman: How To Manage Your Time, Attention and Energy Daily For Growth.

Day One • 738 implied HN points • 01 Sep 20
🏥 Health & Wellness Self-Improvement
  1. Controlling your time is crucial for success. It's the one resource we have a lot of but can't make more of. Time management sets apart the top achievers from the rest.
  2. Identify what's draining your time. Social media is a major time thief. Focus on tasks that truly impact your life, and learn to make social media work for you, not against you.
  3. Use technology wisely. Apps can help with time management, but a solid strategy is essential for success. Choose apps that align with your goals and priorities.

Gullible, me? No way! 🤷🏻‍♀️— Anchoring bias

10x your mind • 199 implied HN points • 09 Jun 22
🏥 Health & Wellness Self-Improvement
  1. Anchors influence our decision-making more than we realize, affecting things like budgeting, salary setting, and party planning.
  2. The anchoring bias can lead us to make decisions based on irrelevant or absurd information, impacting negotiation outcomes and everyday choices.
  3. To counter the anchoring bias, it's beneficial to make the first offer in negotiations, delay important decisions to avoid impulse buys, and use anchors to set higher personal standards for growth.

Some Problems Go Away

The Elbow • 39 implied HN points • 16 Jan 24
🏥 Health & Wellness Self-Improvement
  1. Delaying action on some problems can be beneficial, as they may resolve themselves or become easier to solve later.
  2. Identify which problems can be self-resolving or more efficient with a delay to save time and effort.
  3. Use a 'parking lot' list to track tasks for future review, adding and removing items as needed.

Getting Sick On Our Vacation

Spilled Coffee • 40 implied HN points • 25 Jun 25
🏥 Health & Wellness Self-Improvement
  1. Getting sick made me think about how I manage my time. It reminded me that time is valuable and we need to prioritize what really matters.
  2. We can easily get busy with nonessential things and forget to invest time in what truly matters. It's important to recognize what we should focus on more and what we can let go of.
  3. Being sick helped clear my focus on time management and how I spend my days. Even tough experiences can have a silver lining that makes us rethink our priorities.

Two People At The Gym

The Voyage • 39 implied HN points • 08 Jan 24
🏥 Health & Wellness Self-Improvement
  1. The effort and focus you put into your goals make a significant difference in the results you achieve.
  2. Simply going through the motions without dedication will not lead to significant improvement.
  3. Focused effort is key; bring energy and intention to what you do to see better outcomes.

Why Sucking At Writing Is The First Step To Being Good At It

Kristina God's Online Writing Club • 179 implied HN points • 25 Oct 22
📚 Literature Self-Improvement
  1. It's normal to not be great at something when you start. Embracing that feeling can actually help you improve.
  2. Sucking at writing can be a positive experience. It helps develop grit and can make writing more enjoyable.
  3. Instead of worrying about what others think, focus on enjoying the writing process. Everyone starts somewhere, and having fun matters!

New Month, New Quarter

Day One • 778 implied HN points • 01 Apr 20
🏥 Health & Wellness Self-Improvement
  1. Welcome to a new month and a new quarter, where there will be changes in the newsletter and a shift to a weekly schedule on Substack.
  2. Achieving success isn't just about putting in 10,000 hours but rather focusing on taking action and letting it consume you for mastery in a skill.
  3. Having a million ideas is great, but taking action is what truly matters in achieving your goals.

Inconsiderate Yogi

Situation Normal • 112 implied HN points • 27 Oct 24
🎭️ Culture Self-Improvement
  1. It's important to have personal codes of respect in shared spaces, like returning shopping carts and being on time for yoga classes. Small actions can make a big difference in everyone's experience.
  2. Distractions can come from others, but often our own minds are the biggest distractions. The real challenge in yoga is to focus on being present and mindful despite these distractions.
  3. Wandering thoughts during practice can be seen as a normal part of the experience. Returning to focus is what truly matters in learning to be present.

‘Our boys didn’t die in vain’ syndrome

10x your mind • 99 implied HN points • 08 Dec 22
🏥 Health & Wellness Self-Improvement
  1. In various aspects of life, people tend to continue with actions or projects even when it is clear that they are not yielding positive results. This mentality of persisting to prove that initial efforts were not in vain can be detrimental and should be avoided.
  2. Admitting mistakes and making necessary changes is crucial for personal and professional growth. It is essential to recognize when it's time to pivot, reframe problems, or let go of unproductive situations.
  3. It is never too late to make positive changes, whether in work or personal life. Recognizing when to quit something toxic or unproductive is empowering and can lead to better outcomes in the long run.

The Gentle Art of Swedish Death Cleaning

Think Future • 19 implied HN points • 28 Mar 24
🏥 Health & Wellness Self-Improvement
  1. Swedish Death Cleaning is a practice of decluttering before you die to make things easier for loved ones
  2. Thinking about what items are truly sentimental can help in decluttering and passing down meaningful belongings
  3. Preparing for your next phase of life involves decluttering, setting goals, and clearing the decks for new experiences