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Are you truly happy?

10x your mind • 59 implied HN points • 27 Oct 22
🏥 Health & Wellness Happiness Personal Development Relationships Emotional Well-being Family
  1. Finding happiness is not just about engaging work, but also about enjoying life, finding satisfaction, and having a sense of purpose
  2. The three macros of happiness are enjoyment, satisfaction, and purpose - strive to balance these for true happiness
  3. To foster long-term happiness, focus on nurturing relationships, whether with a spouse or close friends, and redefine success beyond money and fame

Clever driver

Situation Normal • 86 implied HN points • 09 Apr 23
🎭️ Culture Humor Travel Business Family
  1. The narrator opted for a Lyft ride instead of asking their mom for a lift to the airport.
  2. The Lyft driver turned a car ride into a business opportunity to sell his car with high mileage.
  3. The conversation highlights the creative business mindset of the Lyft driver named Clever.

1963 revisited with French dressing

A Zoetic Message • 19 implied HN points • 10 Dec 23
🏝 Travel Cultural experience International travel Family Adventure
  1. The story reflects on a family's journey to France in 1963 with unique experiences and cultural connections.
  2. Living on an Air Force base in France in the 60s provided a diverse and vibrant community for American airmen and their families.
  3. The significance of travel, family experiences, and historical context shape a personal narrative with insights on culture and values.

CATHEDRAL | Chapter One - Four Years Out

Castles in the Sky • 24 implied HN points • 08 Mar 24
📚 Literature Fiction Family Space Emotions Relationships
  1. The protagonist and their family face a life-changing decision of joining an interstellar mission aboard the Ark spaceship.
  2. The family's emotional journey showcases love, gratitude, and tough choices as they prepare to leave Earth behind.
  3. The story highlights themes of sacrifice, family bonds, and the pursuit of dreams in the face of monumental change.

Reading, Watching 05.14

Unpopular Front • 60 implied HN points • 14 May 23
💾 History Holocaust European Union Immigration Family
  1. The author reflects on the process of restoring German citizenship and the emotional journey it took them on.
  2. Learning about a relative who was killed in Auschwitz led to a deeper connection with family history and an appreciation for the importance of antifascist politics.
  3. Becoming a citizen of the European Union symbolizes a rejection of Nazi laws, a reconnection with European roots, and a commitment to the cosmopolitan project of the EU.

Let's Talk About the Seasonal Target Birds

The Reclamation Era • 19 implied HN points • 30 Oct 23
🎭️ Culture Holidays Traditions Family Decor Nostalgia
  1. Collecting seasonal birds from Target can become a fun and obsessive hobby. It brings joy to many people during holidays like Christmas and Halloween.
  2. There are different categories for these decorative birds, such as Merry, Whimsy, and Rustic, allowing collectors to classify them creatively. People even sort themselves into bird types like a fun personality quiz.
  3. Finding and completing the collection of these birds can be challenging, with some sold out quickly and others listed on resale sites for much higher prices. It creates a thrill in the hunt for the perfect bird.

Guest Post: When Reactionary Feminism Ain't It

Reactionary Feminist • 17 implied HN points • 13 Mar 24
🎭️ Culture Feminism Gender Society Family Politics
  1. Feminist policies are not universally applicable and need to consider local, cultural, and material contexts.
  2. Luxury beliefs in feminism can vary greatly across different societal contexts and personal experiences.
  3. Some women may benefit from traditional feminist values like independence and career focus, while others may prioritize family and marriage due to different societal pressures.

Small Circles

Cathedral Effect • 19 implied HN points • 02 Jun 23
📚 Literature Fiction Family Relationships Life Reflection
  1. Yano's relationship with his daughter Dette is complicated and he struggles to connect with her.
  2. Yano reminisces about his past, particularly his marriage and life before the divorce.
  3. Yano forms a new bond with a fellow gambler, Chen, learning about his tragic past and finding connection through shared experiences.

Crise de foie

Splattern • 19 implied HN points • 30 Aug 23
🎭️ Culture Family Food Tradition Personal Growth Storytelling
  1. Celebrating Tally's birthday included a delicious and rich dinner, making it easy to break food rules. The dinner featured fresh ingredients, and the indulgence left the writer feeling unwell afterward.
  2. Kayla, Tally's mom, expressed her love and care, making the writer feel welcomed and supported. Her kindness and family connection provided emotional comfort.
  3. During the sauna conversations, Tally and Orion discussed the idea of desire and escaping from pain. They recognized that facing and feeling their pain is important for personal growth.

a dream with my grandparents

Splattern • 19 implied HN points • 19 Aug 23
📖 Philosophy Existentialism Family Mortality Dreams Values
  1. Our loved ones can have a strong influence on our choices, even in dreams. They might push us to reflect on how we spend our time and what really matters.
  2. Wanting things doesn't always lead to happiness. Sometimes it's better to let go of desires and find freedom in accepting life as it is.
  3. We need to think for ourselves and listen closely to others to find our truth. Balancing the old support from family with new independence is a complex journey.

Fathers & daughters

Kvetch • 60 implied HN points • 12 Mar 23
🎭️ Culture Family Movies Gender Literature Parenting
  1. Daughters change you - fathers of daughters are less likely to interrupt, more likely to divorce, and may receive less investment than sons.
  2. The feminine - a father's love for his daughter is pure and appreciates the feminine qualities without lust.
  3. Disney and other cartoons - Disney often portrays wayward daughters and bildungsroman sons, emphasizing the special bond between fathers and daughters in various films.

Family Day Bagels

The Analog Family • 39 implied HN points • 22 Feb 23
🍲 Food & Drink Cooking Baking Family Community Social Events
  1. Cooking together is a great way to spend time with friends and family. It brings people closer and gives everyone a good time.
  2. Making food from scratch, like bagels, can brighten up a dark season. It's fun and feels rewarding to create something delicious.
  3. Hosting a food-making party can lift everyone's spirits. Sharing good food and experiences creates lovely memories for all.

Elliot Ackerman on His New Novel, HALCYON, Where Death is a Thing of the Past

The Octavian Report • 41 implied HN points • 02 Jun 23
📚 Literature Fiction History Family Conflict Memory
  1. The novel explores the concept of reconciling the past and the impact of entertainment on our understanding of history.
  2. The story delves into the theme of compromise and its relevance in societal conflicts and personal relationships.
  3. It discusses the power of storytelling in shaping our perception of events and the importance of creating shared memories for reconciliation.

Thanksgiving Quiz 2024

What's Important? • 4 implied HN points • 27 Nov 24
🎭️ Culture Holidays Traditions Trivia Family
  1. The Thanksgiving Quiz has 20 questions, and people can participate as teams or individuals. It's a fun way to test knowledge during the holiday season.
  2. Winners of the quiz will be recognized in the next article, but there's no real prize aside from the shoutout. It's all about joining in the fun and competition.
  3. The quiz covers a wide range of topics, from movies and geography to sports and history, making it interesting for everyone. It's a cool way to learn new things while enjoying Thanksgiving.

The Missing Aunties

Reactionary Feminist • 27 implied HN points • 09 Jul 23
🎭️ Culture Relationships Marriage Gender Family Community
  1. In the past, 'aunties' played a role in matchmaking and family formation, which seems more successful than modern dating methods.
  2. The decline of the 'auntie' role in society may have led to challenges in relationship formation and marriage survival stories.
  3. Efforts are being made to recreate an 'aunty-like' network for matchmaking and support in relationships, recognizing the need for social coordination.

Guest Post: The Mother’s Mother’s Tale

Reactionary Feminist • 10 implied HN points • 06 Mar 24
🎭️ Culture Heritage Motherhood Family Literature Identity
  1. The story highlights the importance of understanding one's heritage and the difficult choices mothers sometimes have to make for their children's well-being.
  2. It portrays the struggles and determination of a mother facing societal pressures and personal challenges during her journey of becoming a parent.
  3. The tale emphasizes the power of a mother's love, resilience, and willingness to fight against convention to do what she believes is best for her child.

Family Systems in the Digital Age

The Digital Anthropologist • 19 implied HN points • 17 Feb 23
🎭️ Culture Family Technology Social media Gender Multiculturalism
  1. Family systems around the world vary and are shaped by culture, geography, and environment.
  2. Information technologies like the internet and social media are impacting family structures by enabling exposure to different cultures and family systems.
  3. Changes in family dynamics are influenced by factors like income gaps, industrial demands, and interactions through online channels.

Sabbaticalish

Just Enough to Get Me in Trouble • 25 implied HN points • 15 Apr 23
🏥 Health & Wellness Self-care Work-life balance Personal Growth Mental health Family
  1. Many individuals are taking sabbaticals for various reasons such as burnout, career changes, or personal growth.
  2. Modern sabbaticals often involve unpaid leave and freelance work, allowing individuals to work remotely from anywhere.
  3. Transitioning to a sabbatical or taking time off work can lead to unexpected emotional challenges and a reevaluation of personal identity and work-life balance.

Life is hectic

Midwest Humble • 6 implied HN points • 23 Feb 24
🏥 Health & Wellness Grief Caregiving Family Life Changes
  1. Life can be unexpected and challenging, with milestones like having a baby and dealing with family health issues happening simultaneously.
  2. In difficult times, developing strong support systems, delegating tasks, and allowing others to lead can be crucial.
  3. Grief can come in unexpected moments, but there is also room for growth and new beginnings amidst the challenges of life.

My Father

Natural Selections • 17 implied HN points • 04 Apr 23
🎭️ Culture Family Memoir Food Travel Traditions
  1. The author reflects on her father's life, memories, and impact after his passing.
  2. The father was a strong and adventurous person, eager to teach his children but kept many of his thoughts to himself.
  3. He had a love for nature, mathematics, food, and life, leaving a lasting impression on his family.

Class Houses

The False Consensus Effect • 19 implied HN points • 22 Jan 21
🎭️ Culture Social Issues Family Housing Self-reflection Art
  1. The author reflects on the concept of class and wealth, highlighting the contrast between different social classes and the impact on individuals' lives.
  2. Owning and maintaining a house can symbolize various aspects of life, from struggles and financial burdens to personal identity and the pursuit of a home filled with memories.
  3. Time is viewed as true wealth, emphasizing the importance of how individuals spend and value their time, regardless of social class or material possessions.

Locked and Wedded

Some Unpleasant Arithmetic • 4 implied HN points • 14 Feb 24
🎭️ Culture Marriage Gender Inequality Family Society
  1. Valentine's Day can spark arguments about marriage rates and fertility, especially concerning the decline in marriage rates due to changing expectations and financial disparities in relationships.
  2. Factors like higher education levels in women, financial independence, and changing societal norms are contributing to lower marriage rates and different relationship dynamics.
  3. Cultural influences, economic factors, and policy changes are impacting fertility rates and family structures, highlighting the need for more affordable childcare, housing, and supportive policies for families.

Ritualizing The Study of Math

Kids Who Love Math • 2 HN points • 20 Feb 24
🚌 Education Math Learning Family Support
  1. Establishing a routine can help in getting prepared for learning, like dedicating a specific 'Math Time' with all necessary materials ready.
  2. Focusing on the process of getting ready for math is more important than merely sticking to a rigid routine.
  3. Incorporating physical elements or sensory cues can enhance the readiness for learning math, such as having a designated space, an exercise, a specific music, or a scent.

Algorithm, Heirloom

Tigerfeathers! • 3 implied HN points • 01 Nov 23
🎭️ Culture Art & Illustration Literature Fiction Family
  1. Hari's brother Prakash became an online sensation with over a million subscribers by showcasing the city and everyday life on his YouTube channel.
  2. Prakash left his YouTube channel credentials to Hari before passing away, leaving him with the responsibility of deciding the fate of his brother's digital legacy.
  3. Hari is faced with the dilemma of whether to continue Prakash's online presence to honor his memory or to let it fade away, highlighting the complexities of dealing with a loved one's digital inheritance.