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I’m not letting the fascists have sex

Sex and the State • 36 implied HN points • 03 Jan 25
🎭️ Culture Feminism
  1. There's a tension between wanting to control women's bodies and celebrating their sexuality. It's a push and pull that reflects deep cultural conflicts.
  2. Some people celebrate women's sexual appeal while also promoting control over it, which shows a contradiction in their beliefs.
  3. Leftist debates about sexuality are often unnecessary and created, not fundamental issues, highlighting the complexities in social attitudes towards sex.

What Is a PAWG(Blog)?

Many Such Cases • 219 implied HN points • 02 Jun 21
🎭️ Culture Feminism
  1. The term 'PAWG' refers to a specific body type that is attractive to many, especially in porn. It's about being confident in your body and owning the label.
  2. This newsletter will explore culture through the lens of what it means to be a PAWG. It will discuss famous PAWGs and also share personal reflections.
  3. Identifying as a PAWG can be seen as both fun and a reclamation of a term often used in a sexual context. It’s not just about the body type but also a state of mind.

Happy Valentine's Day. Have some stats on sex

Sex and the State • 29 implied HN points • 14 Feb 25
🎭️ Culture Feminism
  1. The ongoing debate in feminism is about whether sex is morally neutral, impacting how people view sex work and gender issues. It's crucial to consider different perspectives in these discussions.
  2. The author's focus has shifted over time, now exploring masculinity and gender while still connecting this to broader societal issues like class and policy analysis.
  3. Despite feeling frustrated about repetitive arguments over the years, the author sees value in persistence and humor while discussing important topics in society.

No, incels, women are not “too shallow”

Sex and the State • 32 implied HN points • 09 Jan 25
🎭️ Culture Feminism
  1. Women value different traits than looks when choosing partners. They often prioritize status over physical appearance.
  2. The idea that women are too shallow for ugly men is not true. Most women don't typically have casual sex with anyone, regardless of looks.
  3. Improving social skills and personality can lead to better relationships. Many men focus too much on looks instead of what really matters in attracting partners.

What am I afraid of at work?

Sex and the State • 29 implied HN points • 31 Jan 25
🎭️ Culture Feminism
  1. Many feminist writings are often repetitive and less engaging. It's common to feel this way about similar genres, such as libertarian or academic writing.
  2. Examining your work through Attachment Theory can reveal deeper insights about your relationship to it. Personal reflection can help uncover self-deceiving thoughts.
  3. It's important to engage with other writers in your niche. This can improve your own work and provide new perspectives.
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Why women enforce the “must want sex all the time” masculinity norm

Sex and the State • 29 implied HN points • 08 Jan 25
🎭️ Culture Feminism
  1. Women play a role in supporting the idea that men should always want sex. This belief can put pressure on both genders.
  2. The expectation for men to be sexually driven can lead to feelings of inadequacy if they don't meet these standards. It can affect their confidence and relationships.
  3. Challenging these norms could free both men and women to express their true desires without societal pressure. This could lead to healthier relationships and personal happiness.

Us feminists really did kill marriage

Sex and the State • 30 implied HN points • 12 Dec 24
🇺🇸 U.S. Politics Feminism
  1. Marriage rates are going down in many countries, and it's important to understand why this is happening. Some people think it's due to modern influences, but the reasons are more complex.
  2. Conservatives sometimes blame feminists for this decline, and while they might have a point, it's important to understand the full picture. Feminists often criticize marriage and family structures as outdated or oppressive.
  3. Some feminists actually support the idea of abolishing marriage altogether. This has led to different views on relationships and family, impacting how society sees them today.

Sex and agency

Kvetch • 123 implied HN points • 10 Jun 23
🎭️ Culture Feminism
  1. The book 'The Case Against the Sexual Revolution' by Louise Perry critiques the liberal emphasis on 'consent' and 'freedom' in sexual relationships.
  2. Hook-up culture is seen as anti-feminisation, driving women into commitment-less relationships.
  3. Perry advocates for a revaluation of traditional relationships like marriage and highlights the importance of female agency in modern dating culture.

"A Thousand Reflections of My Own Hands in a Dark Mirror"

Apposition • 19 implied HN points • 01 Apr 23
📚 Literature Feminism
  1. Katherine Mansfield's stories focus on capturing moods and character depths rather than plot
  2. Mansfield's stories in 'In a German Pension' depict women longing for security despite facing disillusionment with men
  3. The satirical tone and complex characters in Mansfield's stories reveal subtle hints of psychic instability and a preference for implication over action

BLAME WOMEN

The Carousel • 99 implied HN points • 16 Sep 23
🎭️ Culture Feminism
  1. The Sexual Revolution debate failed to address core questions and historical context
  2. Issues around consent and rape in the post-Sexual Revolution culture are highlighted
  3. Challenges faced in society related to women's roles and demands are discussed

Rediscovering the Goddess

Polymathic Being • 65 implied HN points • 28 Jan 24
⛪ Faith & Spirituality Feminism
  1. The current feminist movement often overlooks the importance of embracing the feminine aspect.
  2. Society tends to value masculine traits over feminine qualities, leading to a devaluation of the feminine divine.
  3. It is essential to reclaim and appreciate the unique power and contributions of the feminine, rather than imposing masculine standards on women.

I Saw Taylor Swift and Tori Amos in One Week, And I Have Some Thoughts.

The Reclamation Era • 19 implied HN points • 21 Aug 23
🎶 Music Feminism
  1. Attending concerts can have a huge emotional impact, offering a sense of renewal and connection, especially when shared with loved ones. Going to the Taylor Swift concert was a transformative experience for a mother and her daughters.
  2. Music can deeply influence our lives and relationships, helping us feel understood during tough times. The connection between a fan's experience of one artist can be just as meaningful as another's, regardless of mainstream popularity.
  3. Both Taylor Swift and Tori Amos are important artists who have made significant contributions to music in their own ways. It's essential to appreciate and respect different musical journeys and not dismiss what someone else loves.

Radical feminism is not the most feminist kind of feminism

Sex and the State • 26 implied HN points • 27 Nov 24
🎭️ Culture Feminism
  1. Radical feminism is not considered the most feminist approach. There are different types of feminism, and not all are the same.
  2. The term 'feminism' generally refers to the movement against sexism. It's important to clarify what feminism really means.
  3. Many people have misunderstandings about feminism, which can often lead to confusion. It's crucial to learn and discuss the true intentions and ideas behind feminist movements.

Barbie (2023)

Kvetch • 79 implied HN points • 01 Oct 23
🎭️ Culture Feminism
  1. Barbie represents the idea that women can be anything
  2. The movie critiques traditional gender roles in a satirical way
  3. The film explores themes of growing up and societal expectations through Barbie and Ken's characters

A shockingly ignorant timeline

Sex and the State • 23 implied HN points • 06 Nov 24
🇺🇸 U.S. Politics Feminism
  1. People often ignore important issues, like what is happening in Russia. It's important to stay informed, even if it's uncomfortable.
  2. There’s a rise in anti-feminist ideas, like the 'tradwife' trend, which can be harmful. These views don't really support women's rights.
  3. Understanding these social trends helps us see the bigger picture. It’s crucial to think critically about what we see and believe.

Why I buy the male victimhood narrative

Sex and the State • 21 implied HN points • 22 Nov 24
🎭️ Culture Feminism
  1. Some people think that men can also be victims in society. This idea challenges how we usually think about gender roles.
  2. Believing in male victimhood can spark discussions about fairness and equality. It shows that men can face issues too, just like women.
  3. Talk about male victimhood can be divisive, but it's important to understand different perspectives. Listening to everyone's experiences creates a better conversation.

Maiden, Mother, Bitch

The Reclamation Era • 19 implied HN points • 17 Jun 23
🎭️ Culture Feminism
  1. Aging can be challenging in a culture that values youth and beauty. It's important to embrace the changes that come with growing older.
  2. The journey through motherhood brings different emotions and challenges at each stage. It's okay to feel frustrated or annoyed sometimes.
  3. Self-reflection can lead to personal growth and gratitude. Learning to appreciate where you are in life can bring unexpected rewards.

The baby bust and the gender gap

Unreported Truths • 49 implied HN points • 30 Jan 24
🌍 World Politics Feminism
  1. Young women in rich countries are becoming more liberal and less interested in having children.
  2. Liberal political attitudes are linked to lower fertility rates.
  3. The convergence of the gender gap and baby bust may lead to challenges in marriage and childbearing.

Fear makes men stupid and anti-feminist

Sex and the State • 19 implied HN points • 04 Dec 24
🎭️ Culture Feminism
  1. Fear is a major factor that drives sexism, more than hate. It affects how people see and react to each other.
  2. Some individuals may struggle with feelings of fear towards women, which can coexist with their beliefs in feminism.
  3. Understanding the role of fear in gender dynamics can help address and reduce sexist attitudes in society.

Too many of you care too much about sex

Sex and the State • 19 implied HN points • 18 Nov 24
🎭️ Culture Feminism
  1. Many people focus too much on the topic of sex, which can lead to unnecessary stress. It's important to recognize that there are more aspects to life than just sex.
  2. The discussion around sex often gets tied to societal issues, but it's crucial to separate personal experiences from broader problems. Balancing both can help bring clarity.
  3. There’s a reminder that enjoying life and personal freedoms can be more fulfilling than getting caught up in the debates about sex and gender. Finding joy in everyday life is important.

Ireland says NO to abolishing mothers

Reactionary Feminist • 33 implied HN points • 09 Mar 24
🌍 World Politics Feminism
  1. The Irish people rejected a proposal to remove explicit mention of mothers in the constitution during a recent vote.
  2. There is a growing resistance against the push for absolute gender sameness and the erasure of women's sexed nature.
  3. The women's movement is evolving to address new blind spots and emphasize the distinctiveness of mothers and the importance of women's lived realities.

Slut-onomics: How the scarcity of sluts tears the social fabric apart

Wood From Eden • 32 HN points • 12 Feb 24
🎭️ Culture Feminism
  1. The availability of casual sex has always been uneven among men, with only a minority having most access.
  2. Slut-shaming in the past may have helped some men downplay their conquests, reducing competition and maintaining peace.
  3. The shift from categorizing women as 'good' or 'bad' to grading them on a scale has intensified competition and made rejections more personal.

What Conservatives Missed In Barbie

Marginally Compelling • 41 implied HN points • 21 Aug 23
🎭️ Culture Feminism
  1. The Barbie movie is a subversive satire of corporate feminism and the gender culture war.
  2. The film showcases a deep appreciation for both women and men, while highlighting their differences.
  3. The movie surprises viewers with its allegorical and comic elements, challenging traditional roles of nurturing and motherhood.

Sexists fear women

Sex and the State • 9 implied HN points • 11 Dec 24
🇺🇸 U.S. Politics Feminism
  1. Many sexists are driven by fear, not hate. This fear can make people act irrationally and selfishly.
  2. Younger, lower-status men tend to be the most sexist. They often feel threatened by women's advancement.
  3. The most sexist individuals may experience the biggest loss due to feminism, showing that their fear is linked to their own status.

Guest Post: When Reactionary Feminism Ain't It

Reactionary Feminist • 17 implied HN points • 13 Mar 24
🎭️ Culture Feminism
  1. Feminist policies are not universally applicable and need to consider local, cultural, and material contexts.
  2. Luxury beliefs in feminism can vary greatly across different societal contexts and personal experiences.
  3. Some women may benefit from traditional feminist values like independence and career focus, while others may prioritize family and marriage due to different societal pressures.

Which orifice? What organs? Who cares?

Reactionary Feminist • 24 implied HN points • 23 Jun 23
🎭️ Culture Feminism
  1. Andrea Long Chu's work challenges traditional views on gender and sexuality.
  2. Gender-critical feminists criticize Chu for dismissing the importance of female bodies in defining femaleness.
  3. Chu's writings explore the impact of societal shifts on female sexuality and reproductive autonomy.

Kill The Mother

Reactionary Feminist • 26 implied HN points • 17 Mar 23
🎭️ Culture Feminism
  1. The article discusses the concept of 'killing the mother' as a psychoanalytic fantasy related to Oedipal complex.
  2. There is a trend of intense hostility towards women, especially mothers, in contemporary culture.
  3. Expressions of rage and fantasies of annihilating the mother are evident in various cultural aspects, leading to questions about the origins and implications of this phenomenon.

Barbie's Beauty Standards

Reactionary Feminist • 21 implied HN points • 14 Jul 23
🎭️ Culture Feminism
  1. The Barbie movie explores adult themes like body image and feminism, questioning artificial beauty standards
  2. The concept of economic sex persists despite advancements in technology and biotech interventions
  3. Barbie feminism raises questions about duality, reproduction, and the societal pressure to conform to certain beauty standards

AA’s Big Patriarchy Problem

The Flawed Yogi Report • 19 implied HN points • 15 Jul 21
🏥 Health Politics Feminism
  1. AA has a significant patriarchy problem that it refuses to address, with outdated literature and a lack of inclusivity for women, queer, and trans individuals.
  2. Many women in AA experience retraumatization due to the organization's failure to prioritize their needs and voices, which can hinder their recovery process.
  3. Despite calls for change and revisions to make AA more inclusive, the governing body continues to dismiss the importance of addressing gender biases and implementing necessary updates.

The Fundie Baby Voice

The View from Rural Missouri by Jess Piper • 1 HN point • 08 Mar 24
🇺🇸 U.S. Politics Feminism
  1. The 'fundie baby voice' is a soft, high-pitched, breathy tone often used by some women in Fundamentalist communities to show submission and sweetness.
  2. This voice can be habitual for some women or used to hide secrets, but it doesn't always indicate malice; some just follow learned behavior.
  3. When powerful figures speak with the 'fundie baby voice', it can signal a mix of condescension and submission to maintain proximity and favor with those in power.

Kill The Mother part 2: Babies to Order

Reactionary Feminist • 18 implied HN points • 31 Mar 23
🎭️ Culture Feminism
  1. The Law Commission is proposing changes to surrogacy laws that shift focus from natural motherhood to legal parenthood.
  2. There is concern that legal changes may prioritize commercial interests over the natural bond between a mother and her newborn baby.
  3. There is a call to re-examine the influence of NGOs and ensure that technological advancements align with human nature and flourishing.

Easy Mode

The Glinner Update • 2 HN points • 02 May 23
🎭️ Culture Feminism
  1. Striped thigh-highs that transwomen wear have a nickname - programming socks.
  2. Transitioning programmers can have anti-intuitive attributes towards women's status in tech jobs.
  3. Opposing self-ID is justified self-interest for women to defend rights based on biological sex.

It Is Literally Impossible To Be A Movie

Skunk Ledger • 4 HN points • 29 Jan 24
🎭️ Culture Feminism
  1. The movie Barbie Movie creates an intriguing narrative using internal and external premises.
  2. The Barbie Movie cleverly addresses social issues like feminism, diversity, and corporate influence in a satirical way.
  3. The film challenges the complexities of making a movie that must navigate various societal expectations and demands.

The Big Lookback: Christina Stead

And It Don't Stop • 0 implied HN points • 01 Mar 23
📚 Literature Feminism
  1. Christina Stead's novel The Man Who Loved Children is praised for its unique voices and detailed character development
  2. Stead's writing style is described as unorthodox and crafted with a mix of satire and naturalism
  3. Stead, an Australian novelist, was known for her eccentric, unedited prose which explored intolerable situations and characters