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Book Club: Some notes on the strange beauty of energy infrastructure

The Newsletter of (Not Quite) Everything • 530 implied HN points • 27 Jan 24
🎭️ Culture Literature Environment Nature Parenting
  1. Coal mining has a deep history and emotional attachment for many, even as we transition to renewable energy sources.
  2. Renewable energy like wind power is seen as an obvious and compelling solution for energy needs.
  3. Industrial infrastructure, even when old or decommissioned, can evoke a sense of nostalgia and admiration for human achievement.

Are kids compatible with running a business?

Kenny’s Sub • 239 implied HN points • 28 Apr 24
💼 Business Entrepreneurship Work-life balance Parenting Freelancing
  1. Running a business while parenting is tough. It can be hard to find time to focus on work when taking care of kids.
  2. It's important to balance motherhood and work. Many moms need to realize they can't do everything at once, and that's okay.
  3. Challenges will always arise in both motherhood and entrepreneurship. Learning to adapt and stay resilient is key to managing those tough times.
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The One Who Knows

The Reclamation Era • 19 implied HN points • 29 Aug 24
🎭️ Culture Art Storytelling Community Creativity Parenting
  1. A new Substack newsletter, 'Word to Your Mother,' is being created to support local women in the arts, offering opportunities for storytelling and performances.
  2. There’s a call for auditions for a local show and a writing workshop for those interested in sharing their stories.
  3. The author reflects on her feelings as her child goes to college, sharing a personal lullaby that holds special meaning during this transition.

The Alternative Universe Offered to Children

Bodies get in the way... • 452 implied HN points • 27 Jan 24
🏥 Health & Wellness Children's Health Mental health Parenting Medical Ethics
  1. Children do not have the ability to fully understand complex issues like changing their sex or identifying as transgender.
  2. Socially transitioning children and giving them puberty blockers can have harmful physical and psychological effects.
  3. It is important for adults to safeguard children from any harm, whether it be from predatory behavior or from misguided beliefs about gender identity.

How I Make Room for the Year

Castles in the Sky • 13 implied HN points • 17 Jan 25
🎭️ Culture Parenting Nostalgia Home Family Personal Growth
  1. Clearing out clutter can help create more space and positive energy in your life. It’s important to take time to remove unnecessary things, both physically and mentally.
  2. Planning for the future is good, but it helps to be flexible and accept that things might get messy. Life often doesn't go exactly as we plan, and that's okay.
  3. Connecting with memories and family stories can provide comfort and perspective. Reflecting on past experiences can inspire how we approach our future.

The Week In Recommendations 10.18.23

Rich Text • 746 implied HN points • 18 Oct 23
🎭️ Culture Literature Fashion Podcasts Parenting
  1. Claire and Emma share their book recommendations, including favorites like 'Love Your Life' and 'The Custom Of The Country.'
  2. Emma finds solace in newsletters and essays that address social issues, advocating for involvement in keeping others safe.
  3. Claire and Emma discuss their recent TV and podcast interests, from 'Love Is Blind' to 'Heavyweight' and 'Bachelor In Retrospect.'

Will You Turn Off Your Phone for 24 Hours?

The Analog Family • 319 implied HN points • 28 Feb 24
🎭️ Culture Lifestyle Social norms Parenting Mental health
  1. Global Day of Unplugging encourages people to turn off their phones for 24 hours. It helps us realize how much we rely on our devices.
  2. Unplugging can improve our relationships, especially with kids who crave attention from parents. By disconnecting, we can reconnect better with each other.
  3. Taking a break from screens can lead to a fun and refreshing experience. It might inspire us to make unplugging a regular habit.

Crossplay Mailbag: "Is Nintendo's Awful Online Setup Actually Great For Kids?"

Crossplay • 746 implied HN points • 02 Jun 23
🕹 Technology Gaming Online Services Parenting Video Games
  1. Kids may easily switch between different games and videos, affecting their level of commitment to a particular game
  2. Parents appreciate the strict controls of Nintendo's online setup for kids playing multiplayer games
  3. Introducing games to children can be influenced by personal values and the desire to guide the child's exposure in a positive way

13 years ago, I accidentally created a chaotic holiday tradition

Men Yell at Me • 192 implied HN points • 15 Dec 24
🎭️ Culture Tradition Celebration Family Holidays Parenting
  1. The author originally planned to keep Christmas simple and fun without stressful traditions. They wanted to avoid feeling overwhelmed like their mom did in the past.
  2. They cherish Christmas for its lights, decorations, and family time, remembering their childhood tradition of Christmas Eve pizza.
  3. The author aimed to create enjoyable traditions for their kids, starting with a reusable advent calendar filled with candies to avoid holiday stress.

But What About the Men?

The Reclamation Era • 119 implied HN points • 20 May 24
🎭️ Culture Feminism Gender Issues Parenting Men's Health Social Dynamics
  1. Women should support each other and lift each other up, as this creates a stronger community. It's important to celebrate women's achievements and encourage solidarity among them.
  2. Men also deserve to pursue happiness and personal growth. Just like women, men should have the opportunity to work on themselves and strive for a fulfilling life.
  3. Being a feminist doesn't mean hating men. It involves advocating for women's rights while also recognizing the importance of good men who contribute positively to society.

Links to Consider, 11/6/2024

In My Tribe • 258 implied HN points • 06 Nov 24
🎭️ Culture Parenting Technology Conflict History Art
  1. Artificial intelligence can help humans communicate better with computers, but using it to interact with fake people may not achieve much. We still need to be careful in how we approach these technologies.
  2. Conflicts usually have deeper issues behind them, such as need for respect or control. Understanding this can help resolve disputes more effectively.
  3. Being a 'good enough' parent is more about feeling confident and calm. It's okay to have a relaxed view of parenting rather than striving for perfection.

The Art of Family Dinner

The Analog Family • 439 implied HN points • 01 Dec 23
🍲 Food & Drink Family Meals Nutrition Parenting Culinary Arts Social Dynamics
  1. Eating dinner as a family every day helps everyone feel closer and improves kids' happiness and confidence. It creates a special time to connect after a busy day.
  2. No devices and a shared start to the meal, like a gratitude game, encourage better conversations. This makes everyone feel valued and helps kids practice sharing their thoughts.
  3. Family dinners teach kids important skills like patience and manners. It also encourages them to try new foods by seeing their parents enjoy them.

How to Get Kids Reading More Books

The Analog Family • 319 implied HN points • 10 Jan 24
🚌 Education Reading Literacy Child development Parenting Books
  1. Kids are reading less because of distractions like smartphones and a focus on analytical approaches in school. It's important for them to enjoy reading whole books to gain emotional connections and confidence.
  2. Setting up an environment full of books helps encourage reading. Having books available everywhere can make reading more appealing to kids.
  3. Parents should model reading habits. When kids see their parents reading, they may be more inclined to pick up a book themselves and find enjoyment in it.

Can parents save math?

The Bell Ringer • 159 implied HN points • 05 Apr 24
🚌 Education STEM Parenting Learning Assessment Equity
  1. More math education can help get more students into STEM fields. Parents believe that improving math is a fair way to provide opportunities.
  2. A group of parents in California is advocating for better math programs in schools. They think this will help kids who want to succeed in science and technology.
  3. Investing in math education is seen as important for the future. Parents want to ensure all students have the chance to excel in these subjects.

Friday Q&A: dismissed by doctors; ADHD vs. inattention; vaccines before visiting baby; & osteoporosis meds

Are You Okay? • 519 implied HN points • 23 Jun 23
🏥 Health & Wellness Wellness Mental health Parenting
  1. Medical tests may not always show the full extent of a person's suffering. It's important to communicate to your doctor how your symptoms impact your daily life.
  2. Distinguishing between normal inattention and ADHD can be tricky. Look for consistent patterns of behavior and consider seeking professional advice if unsure.
  3. Advocating for yourself and ensuring your story is heard in medical settings is crucial. Ask questions, seek clarity, and don't hesitate to communicate your concerns.

Anxieties about kids and screen time, train vs. submarine movies, crime-novel recommendations, and other questions

Read Max • 1080 implied HN points • 25 Aug 23
🎭️ Culture Literature Film Tech Parenting
  1. The writer discusses concerns about raising kids with technology, highlighting the importance of setting boundaries and modeling healthy behaviors.
  2. Submarine movies and train movies are compared, with a humorous take on cinematic transportation in films.
  3. The intersection of AI, writing, and labor is explored, emphasizing the social aspect of writing and the potential impacts of AI on the craft.

A Game About Bad Dates Is Also About Parents and Children Trying (And Failing) to Understand Each Other

Crossplay • 294 implied HN points • 11 Jan 24
🎨 Art & Illustration Video Games Parenting Immigration Personal experiences
  1. Game 'Thirsty Suitors' explores parents and children connecting through gaming.
  2. The game reflects the creator's personal experiences with parenting his own kids and caring for his parents.
  3. As a game developer, juggling parenting and work life balance is a challenge.

Childhood Roundup #2

Don't Worry About the Vase • 1568 implied HN points • 11 Apr 23
🚌 Education Parenting School Learning Admissions
  1. Child care is becoming more regulated and expensive, making it challenging for parents to afford quality child care.
  2. Parents are facing challenges in allowing their children to play and be independent due to strict regulations and societal fears.
  3. The education system is facing criticisms for ineffective techniques, pushing unnecessary pressure on students, and focusing more on signaling than actual education.

Fathers and Sons (Part One)

The Recovering Academic • 277 implied HN points • 09 Jan 24
📚 Literature Memoir Fatherhood Masculinity Parenting High School
  1. The author reflects on the unique challenges and responsibilities of raising a son, highlighting the lack of stories and guidance on fatherhood from the men in his family and the need to redefine masculinity for his own children.
  2. The author shares a personal memory of a conversation about fatherhood that left a lasting impact, underscoring the importance of acknowledging and understanding the emotional depth of fatherhood.
  3. The author describes a moment of internal conflict between traditional models of fatherhood and the nurturing guidance he believes his children need, emphasizing the importance of evolving and adapting as a parent.

Thank you grocery store man

Disaffected Newsletter • 1019 implied HN points • 28 Feb 23
🚌 Education Public Schools Teaching Methods Parenting Mathematics
  1. People enjoy simple, friendly interactions, like sharing a tote bag at the grocery store, which can brighten their day.
  2. Many young people struggle with basic skills, such as math, due to a lack of foundational education.
  3. The current teaching environment focuses more on social issues than on essential subjects like math and history, leaving students unprepared for real-life challenges.

Do Ten Times as Much

Bet On It • 1132 implied HN points • 13 Jun 23
🚌 Education Learning Effort Parenting Achievement Goals
  1. Success often requires ten times more effort than what is considered normal.
  2. Quality practice matters, but putting in ten times the effort is crucial for fluency in skills or knowledge.
  3. Prioritize your goals and focus on a few, putting in ten times more effort to increase your chances of success.

And the Mominees Are...

Momspreading • 216 implied HN points • 23 Jan 24
🎭️ Culture Film Podcasts Art Literature Parenting
  1. 2023 was highlighted as the year of movie moms with fascinating portrayals in films.
  2. Different movies showcased diverse and complex mother characters, ranging from divisive to delightful to horrifying.
  3. Variety of emotions and elements like guilt, forgiveness, and growth were depicted in the films, providing a unique perspective on motherhood.

Why has Fertility Plummeted? Insights from Hong Kong

The Great Gender Divergence • 196 implied HN points • 04 Feb 24
🏥 Health & Wellness Fertility Parenting Research
  1. Conservatives blame over-educated women, progressives highlight women's burdens for declining fertility.
  2. Men's desire for children is decreasing due to endless opportunities for entertainment and heavy expectations in parenting.
  3. In ultra competitive East Asia like Hong Kong, one child is increasingly viewed as sufficient due to the educational arms race.

When You Finally See Yourself Clearly

The Reclamation Era • 159 implied HN points • 26 Feb 24
🏥 Health & Wellness Mental health Neurodiversity Self-care Personal Development Parenting
  1. Understanding ADHD can lead to a big sense of clarity about oneself. Realizing how it affects life helps to make sense of past struggles.
  2. Being open about one's experiences with ADHD can feel overwhelming but is often met with appreciation from others. It’s important to share personal truths without worrying too much about others' opinions.
  3. Learning to embrace neurodiversity helps create more self-compassion. With better tools and understanding, it’s easier to live life fully and acknowledge one's unique thought patterns.

Story Thirty-Seven

Stories From The Rail • 219 implied HN points • 06 Jan 24
🏥 Health & Wellness Mental health Therapy Parenting Trauma Personal Growth
  1. Eulogies can be a way to cope with OCD and suicidal ideation, helping in the battle with intrusive thoughts and fears.
  2. Mental health challenges like OCD and suicidal ideation are medical conditions that require understanding, support, and proper treatment.
  3. Parenting and focusing on loved ones can ground and provide strength in battling against compulsions and intrusive thoughts.

All That Glitters is Not Gold…

Bodies get in the way... • 334 implied HN points • 07 Jun 23
🏥 Health & Wellness Parenting Breastfeeding Mental health
  1. Breastfeeding is a natural process that women are inherently capable of, without the need for men to lactate.
  2. Support from men, partners, and wider society is crucial for women to successfully breastfeed their babies.
  3. Artificially producing breast milk in labs or promoting men to breastfeed can harm the mother-baby dyad and ignore the physiological expectations of breastfeeding.

No thank you!

Austin Kleon • 1358 implied HN points • 17 Jun 22
🎭️ Culture Literature Film Art Music Parenting
  1. Sharing is valuable, whether it's insights, recommendations, or personal experiences. It's a way to connect with others.
  2. Books about writing can really help improve your skills and understanding of the craft. Some classic titles are must-reads for any aspiring writer.
  3. Watching great films or exploring new art can inspire creativity. There's always something to learn or enjoy in different forms of media.