Knowingless • 6185 implied HN points • 29 Jan 26
- Status is what other people think you can give them, and it shows in small behaviors like who interrupts, who takes up space, and who laughs more or less. Narcissism can be understood as a mismatch where someone’s inner sense of rank is higher than their actual social power.
- Many common gender differences — men interrupting more, women asking questions and being more reactive — line up with low-vs-high status signals, suggesting female psychology may more often default to low-status social strategies even when women gain power.
- Looking at gender through a status lens helps explain tensions when women move into powerful roles: cultural and biological histories created habits of low-status signaling, and both sexes use high- and low-status tactics depending on context.