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Do you need advice on a difficult person?

Disaffected Newsletter • 179 implied HN points • 04 Aug 22
🏥 Health & Wellness Mental health Self-help Wellness Tips Interpersonal Skills
  1. Some people in your life may have difficult personalities, like Cluster B disorders. These people can act hurtful or confusing, even if they seem friendly at times.
  2. It's important to recognize these behaviors and understand that they require a different way to handle them than usual.
  3. There are strategies available to protect yourself from these difficult individuals, and seeking advice can be helpful.

Scalability Applies Beyond Tech

Kartick’s Blog • 17 implied HN points • 24 Oct 24
🕹 Technology Software User Experience Public Services Health Interpersonal Skills
  1. Scalability isn't just for tech; it also applies to user experience. Good UX can cater to different user needs without confusion, like how WhatsApp offers various ways to communicate.
  2. Public services also need to be scalable for everyone, regardless of income. Services should meet diverse needs rather than just providing a one-size-fits-all solution.
  3. Even our personal traits, like politeness, should be scalable. It's important to adjust our behavior based on the situation and context, finding a balance between being too polite and too rude.

Top 5 Skills to Have in The Age of AI

The Renaissance Man • 1 HN point • 24 Jul 24
🚌 Education Skills Development Lifelong learning Critical Thinking Interpersonal Skills
  1. Empathy is key. It's important to understand how others feel and think, even if you don’t agree with them.
  2. Critical thinking helps you form your own opinions. Don't just accept things as truth; question what you hear and think deeply about it.
  3. Curiosity drives innovation. Asking the right questions can lead to new ideas and better understanding of the world.

Reading the Room

Perspectives • 10 implied HN points • 11 Apr 23
💼 Business Interpersonal Skills Career development Communication Emotional Intelligence Professional Growth
  1. Reading the room is a crucial interpersonal skill that helps you understand what others are saying and contribute meaningfully.
  2. Learning to read the room is a skill that can be developed through practice and self-awareness.
  3. To become a better communicator and collaborator, try placing yourself in others' shoes, understanding their motivations, reflecting on your biases, and learning their language.

Crucial Conversations

Books Unbound • 0 implied HN points • 03 Aug 24
🚌 Education Communication Skills Conflict resolution Interpersonal Skills Professional development
  1. It's really important to speak up during tough conversations. Staying silent can lead to big problems, both at work and in personal relationships.
  2. Don't get stuck thinking you have to choose between being honest and keeping relationships. You can be both honest and kind at the same time.
  3. Letting everyone share their thoughts makes conversations better. When everyone feels safe to talk, it leads to smarter decisions and stronger connections.
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Summary of How To Deal With Assertive People

Kartick’s Blog • 0 implied HN points • 17 Nov 24
💼 Business Negotiation Communication Leadership Interpersonal Skills Professional development
  1. Listening and understanding assertive people can help them feel respected, even if they don't get their way. This can lead to more positive outcomes in discussions.
  2. Being nice doesn't mean being weak; nice negotiators can be firm and get what they want while maintaining kindness.
  3. Instead of trying to control the conversation, let the other person share their thoughts. Asking 'How?' instead of 'Why?' can keep the dialogue constructive and helpful.