The hottest Self-Improvement Substack posts right now

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André Casal's Substack 19 implied HN points 05 Aug 24
  1. Mastery cycles help you learn skills quickly by breaking the process into steps: try, review, and improve. This keeps you organized and focused on growth.
  2. The Dunning-Kruger effect shows that people often think they're smarter than they are at first. Overcoming challenges makes you more aware of how much there is to learn.
  3. Reflection and planning are just as important as doing the work. Taking time to think about what you've done helps you get better and avoid falling into bad habits.
Mindful Modeler 399 implied HN points 15 Aug 23
  1. Consider advice that resonates with you and ignore what doesn't align with your values.
  2. Question general advice that may not be specific to your unique situation and priorities.
  3. Understand that advice is often based on the experiences and biases of the person giving it, so weigh it against your own goals.
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Shades of Greaves 393 implied HN points 15 Mar 23
  1. The author reflects on their five-year writing journey, from initial rejections to significant career milestones, showing that progress in writing takes time and perseverance.
  2. They compare their first and most recent submissions to McSweeney's, highlighting improvements in storytelling and satire techniques over the years.
  3. Through self-critique and analysis, the author demonstrates the importance of continuously learning and evolving as a writer, emphasizing that growth and skill development in writing occur over years and decades.
Both Are True 152 implied HN points 12 Aug 25
  1. There are three types of feedback: appreciation, coaching, and evaluation. Knowing the difference helps you understand how to use feedback effectively.
  2. Many people confuse appreciation for evaluation, especially when they lack clear evaluations of their work. This can lead to unnecessary anxiety about others' opinions.
  3. Creating a list of personal guidelines for evaluating work can help you focus on what matters and improve your writing process.
Venture Prose 379 implied HN points 25 Jun 23
  1. Kindness should be a default currency when engaging with people, not something to reserve only for special situations.
  2. Expressing kindness can help to quickly determine if someone is trustworthy or not.
  3. Kindness is a valuable attribute that triggers positive responses, builds trust, and fosters happiness.
Tranquil Thoughts 59 implied HN points 01 Jun 24
  1. Defaults are the choices you make without really thinking, like how you introduce yourself or what you watch on TV. It's good to be aware of them.
  2. Choosing the right defaults can save you time and help you build better habits. For example, listening to podcasts can improve your language skills.
  3. You have the power to change your defaults so they work for you instead of against you. Think about how to make your daily choices support your goals.
Hot Takes 373 implied HN points 27 Jul 23
  1. Becoming an active participant in various projects and discussions is beneficial and fulfilling.
  2. Choosing to engage actively rather than passively can lead to personal growth and meaningful contributions.
  3. Participating in collaborative efforts, like Wikipedia, can have a significant positive impact and allows for collective creativity.
The Future Does Not Fit In The Containers Of The Past 49 implied HN points 16 Nov 25
  1. Focus on making the best choice you can at any moment. It's more important to act now rather than dwell on past mistakes.
  2. Try to leave every interaction, place, or task better than you found it. Helping others and improving your surroundings can make you feel good too.
  3. Aim to be better than your past self every day. Small daily habits can lead to big improvements over time.
Granted 519 implied HN points 31 Dec 22
  1. Certainty is not a sign of credibility; it's better to learn from thoughtful individuals than smooth talkers.
  2. Being kind to yourself involves learning from mistakes, not beating yourself up.
  3. Collaborating with constructive critics can be more beneficial than attacking them.
Many One Percents 353 implied HN points 16 Apr 23
  1. Make decisions for your health based on personal needs, like supplementing with vitamins and taking cold showers.
  2. Engage in deeper conversations using tools like '36 questions in love' to connect with others on a more meaningful level.
  3. Consider joining courses or workshops to enhance your skills and knowledge, like a 30-day blogging course to improve writing habits.
The Shift With Sam Baker 279 implied HN points 24 Nov 23
  1. The post discusses various interesting reads and experiences, like a New Yorker piece by Zadie Smith, aging on your terms by Anita Bhagwandas, and learning to ride a motorcycle at 50.
  2. There's a piece on surviving sibling rivalry as an adult, overcoming shame tied to perfectionism, and the rise of selfishness among the super-rich.
  3. The content is for paid subscribers, emphasizing the support needed to access more exclusive material.
The Breaking Point 459 implied HN points 05 Sep 23
  1. Confidence is important in business but crossing into arrogance can lead to mistakes.
  2. Being confident means knowing your strengths and weaknesses, while being humble.
  3. Regular self-evaluation is essential to maintain a healthy perspective in business.
Castalia 499 implied HN points 18 May 23
  1. Switching from drinking to not drinking can change your life. It might seem tough at first, but it can lead to feeling better overall.
  2. Noticing how alcohol and caffeine affect your moods and energy levels is important. Quitting them can give you a clearer view of yourself.
  3. Sobriety opens up a chance to see other habits, like phone use or gaming, as potential addictions. Learning to be okay with free time without substances can help you discover a different way to live.
Maybe Baby 1713 implied HN points 10 Sep 23
  1. Sometimes being worse off can motivate action more than just being mildly off
  2. Region-Beta Paradox: Moving from a medium-bad situation to a worse one can lead to quicker healing or recovery
  3. In matters of indecision, taking action is often better than staying in the middle
Knowingless 1188 implied HN points 14 Feb 24
  1. Seduction is seen as a collaborative activity where both parties want the same thing - to overcome barriers and enjoy sex together.
  2. People often seek to reinforce narratives about themselves, so being able to sell the right self-image to someone can be a powerful tool in seduction.
  3. Understanding and appealing to a person's core desires and self-conception can be more effective in seduction than just focusing on physical attractiveness or immediate desires.
normality’s Substack 17 HN points 27 Jul 24
  1. The Eristics Test is a unique personality quiz that helps you understand your emotions and archetype based on your responses. It asks you 16 sharp questions designed to tap into your feelings.
  2. This test categorizes emotions into six basic types and combines them to form complex emotions, resulting in nine distinct personality archetypes. Each archetype highlights different emotional strengths and responses.
  3. Taking the test may help you discover and address inner conflicts or traits you weren't aware of, potentially leading to personal growth and positive change.
De Pony Sum 294 implied HN points 19 Sep 23
  1. The concept of perfect self-improvement cupboards is explored, where individuals step in to be improved in different ways.
  2. Different versions of the cupboards were created to address issues like changing preferences and ensuring consent at each stage of improvement.
  3. Ultimately, a MetaUltimate cupboard was designed, allowing individuals to go through their preferred self-improvement process, raising questions about what the perfect self-improvement process truly is.
Venture Prose 359 implied HN points 26 Feb 23
  1. Entrepreneurs need a variety of support and feedback from different types of people in their circle, including friends, family, collaborators, and external contacts.
  2. Effective communication with one's circle involves sharing, confiding, and receiving feedback authentically and purposefully.
  3. Being aware of biases in interactions and being open to feedback and self-reflection can help entrepreneurs navigate their relationships and improve their decision-making.
Val's Pals 137 implied HN points 09 Feb 24
  1. Jealousy often stems from insecurity, and it's important to remember that the people we envy are also just humans with their own insecurities.
  2. Interacting with those we're jealous of can reveal that our perceptions are not always accurate, and they may even seek advice from us despite our feelings.
  3. Taking concrete steps to confront and navigate jealousy, such as interacting with those we envy and addressing our insecurities, can help us tame this complex emotion.
Sex and the State 32 implied HN points 27 Nov 25
  1. Fear, criticism, and anger can make you push people away by assuming rejection and finding reasons not to connect before giving anyone a chance.
  2. Publicly calling people out often backfires, so it’s usually more effective to offer constructive help, ask questions, and open a dialogue when you want others to improve.
  3. Practicing likability—finding common ground, giving compliments, and showing vulnerability—is exhausting but it builds habit and slowly reduces loneliness.
TheSequence 154 implied HN points 27 Jun 25
  1. The Darwin Gödel Machine (DGM) is a new kind of AI that can change its own code to improve. It combines two ideas: self-modifying machines and evolving through trial and error.
  2. Instead of needing complicated proofs for changes, DGM tests its code edits under real-world conditions. This helps it learn quickly and safely from what works.
  3. DGM has shown significant improvement in coding benchmarks, outperforming humans and traditional methods. This means it can continually get better at coding and solving problems.
Venture Prose 399 implied HN points 02 Jan 23
  1. Optimism is important for entrepreneurs, but clarity of vision helps avoid delusion.
  2. Balancing learning from others with making unique decisions is key for success.
  3. Balancing velocity and excellence is crucial - don't be too fast or too slow, aim for a blend of speed and quality.
Poczwardowski Notes 177 implied HN points 13 Dec 23
  1. Playing chess is not about intelligence but about practice and a systematic approach to learning.
  2. Chess is a game of skill and strategy, with no luck involved. It's a battle of brains where the better prepared player usually wins.
  3. Overcoming fear of judgment can lead to valuable experiences. Trying new things, like learning chess, can be rewarding and fun.
Tech and Tea 131 implied HN points 07 Jul 25
  1. Balance coaching helps people change their perspective when they're feeling lost or stuck. It encourages exploring new ways of thinking about a situation to regain agency.
  2. Shifting mindsets can be very powerful, like moving from a fixed mindset to a growth mindset. This means believing you can improve with effort rather than thinking you're just good or bad at something.
  3. Common mindset shifts include going from feeling like a victim to feeling more in control. Being curious and compassionate towards yourself can help in tough times.
Granted 399 implied HN points 30 Nov 22
  1. Learning isn't complete just by acquiring knowledge, but by consistently applying it to evolve and improve.
  2. Closing the gap between awareness and action is the ultimate test of growth.
  3. Reject the illusion of continuity for wiser choices; emotional labor is as important as physical and cognitive labor; consider reimagining work methods from hunter-gatherer societies.
The Rubesletter by Matt Ruby (of Vooza) | Sent every Tuesday 926 implied HN points 13 Feb 24
  1. Many of life's greatest experiences involve initially overcoming discomfort and pain, leading to growth and transcendence.
  2. Recognize and reframe feelings of discomfort to gauge if something productive might be happening on the other side.
  3. Differentiate between productive, growth-inducing discomfort and unnecessary fear that may hold you back from personal development.
The Leadership Lab 137 implied HN points 16 Jan 24
  1. Avoiding emotions or ways of being can lead to those exact things manifesting in a stronger way in our lives.
  2. Reactive patterns often stem from avoiding certain emotions we don't want to feel, leading to unconscious behavior.
  3. Freedom and personal growth come from allowing ourselves to feel and be vulnerable, even if it is uncomfortable.
Finding Joy 235 implied HN points 25 Feb 23
  1. Criticism is ineffective and counterproductive for self-improvement
  2. Self-compassion includes recognizing stress, being supportive, and acknowledging mistakes
  3. Replace self-criticism with self-compassion to unlock your potential