The hottest Life choices Substack posts right now

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Who did you expect to be?

Disaffected Newsletter • 1418 implied HN points • 09 Sep 23
🎭️ Culture Identity Self-reflection Personal Growth Life choices
  1. Many people find they are different from who they thought they would be when they grew up. It's common to reflect on this as we age.
  2. Mornings can bring a fresh perspective and clarity about our lives and choices. Sometimes, thoughts come to us clearly before we get distracted.
  3. It can be surprising to realize we might have become the person we would have previously judged or disliked. This can lead to interesting self-reflection.

You’re Wasting Your Life

antoniomelonio • 126 implied HN points • 09 Nov 24
📖 Philosophy Existentialism Absurdism Humanism Self-reflection Life choices
  1. Life is short, and every day spent in a job that feels meaningless brings us closer to the end. We should value our time and seek out what truly matters to us.
  2. We have the potential to explore and create amazing things, but often find ourselves stuck in mundane tasks. It's important to remember that we can break free from this cycle and pursue our passions.
  3. Living a fulfilling life means making conscious choices, even in small ways. Instead of just existing, we should strive to truly live, embrace our creativity, and rebel against the ordinary.
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The courage to be “ordinary”

Building the Builders • 5 implied HN points • 30 Dec 24
🎭️ Culture Personal Development Work Life Life choices Career Paths
  1. It's okay to choose a typical career path and still live a fulfilled life. Many people find joy in ordinary jobs, and that can be just as ambitious as being an entrepreneur.
  2. Setting personal goals based on what you truly want can make your journey special, even if those goals seem ordinary to others. It's about appreciating the work and finding meaning in it.
  3. Taking breaks and exploring different paths can help you discover what you really want to do in life. Sometimes stepping back can lead to better clarity and fulfillment in your career.

Least Destructive, Most Productive

Advice you don't need • 59 implied HN points • 02 Mar 24
🎭️ Culture Personal Growth Relationships Self-help Life choices Emotional Well-being
  1. Every ending comes with a bit of damage. When we leave a job or relationship, it can hurt, and things often don't go as planned.
  2. Staying unhappy costs us more in the long run. If we avoid making a change out of fear, we might end up in a worse situation.
  3. It's important to find a way to transition that feels right for us. We should aim to minimize hurt while still taking care of ourselves.

Crowd Sourcing a Path Not Really

The False Consensus Effect • 39 implied HN points • 04 Dec 22
🎨 Art & Illustration Painting Creativity Entrepreneurship Life choices Dreams
  1. The author reflects on the challenges and temptations of going into business, balancing personal passions with financial pressures.
  2. The text discusses the idea of finding a balance between pursuing dreams, like owning a restaurant, and maintaining a sense of joy and fulfillment.
  3. There is an exploration of the impact of business on personal relationships and the potential loss of creativity and freedom when solely driven by profit.

Acceptance

We're Gonna Get Those Bastards • 7 implied HN points • 22 Dec 24
📖 Philosophy Acceptance Self-Improvement Happiness Life choices Mental health
  1. It's important to accept things we cannot change, like other people's beliefs, because trying to change them can lead to frustration. Just accept people as they are.
  2. We can only control our own happiness and responses to situations, not the world or others around us. Focusing on ourselves may bring more fulfillment.
  3. Small changes in life are more manageable and effective than trying to achieve big changes. Embracing acceptance can help us deal with challenges better.

Will I regret this decision when I die?

Tech Ramblings • 0 implied HN points • 29 Jan 23
📖 Philosophy Existentialism Decision-making Life choices Risk-taking Personal Growth
  1. Most decisions in life are simple and don't have significant consequences. It's okay to make mistakes on these easy choices.
  2. A small percentage of decisions are really important and can change your life. These are the choices that we should think about carefully.
  3. To live a fulfilling life, it's better to take risks and reduce regrets. Choosing what excites you is key to avoiding a life full of 'what ifs.'