Both Are True

Both Are True, by Alex Dobrenko, juxtaposes humor with vulnerability in essays addressing addiction, parenting, technology, societal pressures, and the quest for meaning. It explores personal growth, the importance of authenticity, and the impact of art, while debating modern concerns like the digital obsession and consumerism.

Addiction Parenting Technology and Society Personal Growth Consumerism Creative Work Mental Health Digital Platforms Personal Identity Social Media

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if have nothing, then how give anything? (help wanted)

310 implied HN points • 08 Feb 24

When you feel like you have nothing left to give, consider giving yourself away.
Let go of the belief that you need to keep giving more to feel enough.
Take time for yourself and don't be afraid to set boundaries when others ask for more.

What does your stupid art even do for the world?

580 implied HN points • 03 Aug 23

🎨 Art & Illustration Creativity Inspiration Self-reflection Grief Parenting

The impact of creative work on others is important, but it's not the only thing that matters.
Becoming less self-absorbed naturally comes with age and experiences, like fatherhood.
Finding moments of pure joy and forgetting yourself can be powerful and meaningful.

The masks we wear (rom com, act three)

236 implied HN points • 12 Mar 24

🎭️ Culture Relationships Self-reflection Love Personal Growth

The story shares a humorous yet heartfelt exploration of relationships through the lens of weird situations and masks, highlighting the importance of active choice and acceptance in love.
The use of the term 'wowies' symbolizes fear of the unknown and transition in relationships, becoming a way to navigate difficult conversations or express deep emotions.
Despite the surreal experiences, the story emphasizes finding joy and gratitude in the journey of building a life and a family together, even amidst unexpected challenges.

how our nice morning went to shit

503 implied HN points • 05 Sep 23

😂 Humor Comedy Satire Personal experiences

Sometimes our plans go awry in the most unexpected ways.
It's important to embrace honesty and accept that we all have flaws.
The mundane aspects of life may hold deeper truths that we often overlook.

I posted 300+ Threads in 3 days

531 implied HN points • 10 Jul 23

🎭️ Culture Social media Content creation Digital Platforms Technology impact Online behavior

The author posted over 300 threads in 3 days on Threads app, narrating the experience and reflecting on the impact.
Threads can be a platform for sharing thoughts and experiences, but the author also highlighted its distractions and questioned the significance.
The text encourages reflecting on the meaning and impact of digital platforms like Threads, urging readers to consider their choices and values.

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the essay formerly known as romcom (act two)

198 implied HN points • 07 Mar 24

🎭️ Culture Relationships Personal Growth Self-reflection Entertainment

In a relationship, communication and effort matter - like ending things with other people for the one you care about.
Long distance relationships can be tough but manageable with support and commitment.
Self-criticism can be damaging in a relationship, learning to let go and accept differences is important for personal growth and peace.

i refuse to talk to you w those stupid ass ski goggles on your face

549 implied HN points • 08 Jun 23

😂 Humor Satire Comedy Parody Sarcasm

Be cautious of new technology that may make things worse instead of better.
Sometimes what is pitched as revolutionary or life-changing may actually not be.
Simple human interactions without technology can be valuable and memorable.

After 10 years of writing, here's everything I know

503 implied HN points • 23 May 23

📚 Literature Craft Business Writing

Buying a new notebook won't make you write more.
You have many half-written notebooks at home.
Expensive notebooks aren't necessary for writing.

what do i do with my life?

2 HN points • 27 Feb 24

🏥 Health & Wellness Personal Growth Career development Self-discovery Life Advice Mindfulness

It's okay to feel unsure about your life path and make changes to find your true calling. Sometimes trying different things can help you narrow down your options.
Life is not a straightforward journey and it's normal to face challenges and uncertainties along the way. Embrace the chaotic nature of life and be open to exploration.
Seek advice and guidance from people in fields you are interested in to gain insights and clarity about your career path. It's okay to ask for help and learn from others' experiences.