Freddie deBoer • 6095 implied HN points • 04 Feb 26
- Some people instinctively hunt for exploitation or victimhood even when the people involved say the relationship was consensual and positive.
- Social media can amplify niche complaints into wide moral panics, expanding issues like age-gap scrutiny beyond romance into friendship and collaboration.
- We should ask why the demand for victims persists and who benefits from labeling healthy relationships as abusive, since that impulse influences the direction of progressive norms.