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Voices for Children - a rally at NZ's Parliament grounds on 31st Oct.

A B’Old Woman • 239 implied HN points • 30 Oct 23
🇺🇸 U.S. Politics Gender Issues
  1. There is a rally happening at New Zealand's Parliament on October 31st, focused on children's issues.
  2. Organized by a Māori women's group, this event will feature strong voices speaking on current gender topics affecting kids.
  3. Activities and policies regarding youth, like a secret program in Christchurch, are being highlighted as concerns during the rally.

Everybody hates Andrew Tate

Of Boys and Men • 286 implied HN points • 01 Mar 25
🇺🇸 U.S. Politics Gender Issues
  1. Andrew Tate is widely criticized for his controversial views on gender roles, often referring to women in derogatory terms.
  2. Even conservative figures, like Ron DeSantis and Ben Shapiro, are speaking out against Tate, showing a rare unity in disapproval across the political spectrum.
  3. Despite some minor support from fringe groups, the general consensus is that most people do not want Andrew Tate in the U.S. due to his alleged criminal background.

Willful ignorance of the male suicide crisis

Of Boys and Men • 495 implied HN points • 10 Oct 24
🏥 Health Politics Gender Issues
  1. Many reports on suicide focus too much on girls, giving the impression that they are at a higher risk, which is misleading. In fact, most suicides among teenagers involve boys.
  2. The media often discusses the feelings of sadness and suicidal thoughts in girls but fails to provide clear statistics on the actual suicide rates by gender. This can create confusion about who is really most at risk.
  3. It's essential to acknowledge the growing suicide crisis among young men and include accurate data in discussions to better address mental health issues for everyone. We need to talk about both boys and girls honestly.

How two vegan men peaked me into being a committed women’s rights ‘bigot’.

A B’Old Woman • 559 implied HN points • 28 Jan 23
🎭️ Culture Gender Issues
  1. Defending women's spaces can lead to unexpected backlash from friends. It's surprising how quickly opinions can change over important issues.
  2. There’s a personal journey in understanding feminism, which can be triggered by seeing unfairness in women's rights. Reflecting on past struggles can inspire a deeper commitment to activism.
  3. Sometimes, conflicts reveal true friendships and values. Ending toxic friendships can lead to personal growth and stronger connections with like-minded people.
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Ministry of Health NZ discards the word 'women' in favour of inclusive language, but men are still ‘men’.

A B’Old Woman • 399 implied HN points • 03 May 23
🇺🇸 U.S. Politics Gender Issues
  1. New Zealand's Ministry of Health is using terms like 'pregnant people' instead of 'women', which some people find confusing. Despite this change, they still refer to men as 'men'.
  2. The Plain Language Act was created for clear communication, but many feel that using terms like 'pregnant people' does not meet this goal. People want clear language that everyone can understand.
  3. There are concerns that some people in government, especially those focused on academic language, may not understand everyday people's needs. This leads to communication that doesn’t always make sense to the general public.

My Brain Is Fried — Let’s Do A Quick Singal-Minded Exclusive Ask Me Anything RIGHT NOW

Singal-Minded • 359 implied HN points • 19 Dec 24
🇺🇸 U.S. Politics Gender Issues
  1. The author is working on two important pieces of writing related to youth gender medicine, which are coming soon.
  2. There's a concern about misinformation spreading in this field, especially regarding a response to a review on youth gender medicine.
  3. Despite feeling overwhelmed, the author is open to answering questions for a short time through an Ask Me Anything session.

Ukraine's Women

Diane Francis • 1159 implied HN points • 08 Mar 22
🇺🇸 U.S. Politics Gender Issues
  1. Ukrainian women are showing incredible resilience during tough times. They are stepping up to help their communities and families.
  2. Many women in Ukraine are taking active roles, even making weapons to defend themselves. Their bravery is truly inspiring.
  3. It's important to celebrate the strength and contributions of women, especially on occasions like International Women’s Day. They play a crucial role in society.

munchausen by medical board

bad cattitude • 279 implied HN points • 28 Jan 25
🇺🇸 U.S. Politics Gender Issues
  1. There is concern that children are being pushed into identifying as a different gender without proper evaluation, which can cause lasting harm. Many believe that this trend is influenced by society rather than individual feelings.
  2. Medical professionals are often required to affirm a child's gender identity without considering other underlying issues. This can prevent a comprehensive understanding of the child's mental health needs.
  3. Critics argue that the medical approach to gender transition for young people can be harmful. They suggest that the focus should be on providing support and understanding rather than medical intervention.

Police horses punched in the gut by trans activists

A B’Old Woman • 419 implied HN points • 19 Mar 23
🇺🇸 U.S. Politics Gender Issues
  1. During a rally in Melbourne, some activists attacked police horses, which is alarming and shows a dangerous level of violence.
  2. The rally is centered around giving women the chance to speak, but there are tensions between different activist groups that complicate the situation.
  3. Media coverage often sparks controversy, with claims being made against rally leaders that may not reflect the reality of their actions or intentions.

Changes in the Demand for College

In My Tribe • 394 implied HN points • 18 Oct 24
🚌 Education Gender Issues
  1. More women are going to college, but many young men feel it's not a masculine environment. This creates a gap where some boys are looking for other paths instead.
  2. There's a belief that too many people are attending college, especially those who may not need a degree for their career goals. It might be better for those individuals to seek alternative options.
  3. The way colleges handle dating and social interactions may be discouraging relationships, leading some to think less about the college experience as a place to meet partners.

Why is it so easy to hate women?

Men Yell at Me • 315 implied HN points • 23 Dec 24
🎭️ Culture Gender Issues
  1. People often jump at the chance to criticize women in the public eye, sometimes without understanding the full story. This shows a pattern where women are easily targeted and attacked.
  2. In the case of Blake Lively, many turned against her based on manipulated narratives that distorted her character. This highlights how quickly public opinion can sway against women.
  3. Not all women have the same resources to defend themselves against these attacks, which makes it harder for some to fight back when they are wrongly criticized.

Real Women NZ's first livestream

A B’Old Woman • 359 implied HN points • 12 Apr 23
🇺🇸 U.S. Politics Gender Issues
  1. Real Women NZ recently launched its first weekly livestream to discuss issues affecting women, especially in relation to trans ideology. This provides a platform for women to share their experiences openly.
  2. The group was formed after a violent incident earlier this year during a women's rally in Auckland, sparking a need for more safe spaces for women to express their views.
  3. Upcoming plans include creating a YouTube channel and possibly a website to reach a wider audience, ensuring that women can connect and continue these important discussions, even if they are banned from other platforms.

It's a bit hellish for women at Hell's Gate in Rotorua, NZ.

A B’Old Woman • 399 implied HN points • 05 Mar 23
🇺🇸 U.S. Politics Gender Issues
  1. A social rule used to keep men out of women's spaces created a safe environment for women. This changed when some men started claiming to be women and accessing these spaces.
  2. Some women are misled into believing that men entering women’s changing rooms are genuinely women, which makes it uncomfortable for those who truly identify as female.
  3. Rallies are planned for women to express their concerns and demand to be heard on this issue, highlighting the importance of women’s rights and spaces.

Mankeeping? No, it's gender defending

Sex and the State • 85 implied HN points • 30 Jul 25
🇺🇸 U.S. Politics Gender Issues
  1. The concept of 'mankeeping' shows how loneliness impacts men more than women, and it's often women who feel the burden of this loneliness.
  2. Media coverage on male loneliness sometimes shifts focus away from men's needs, emphasizing how it affects their partners instead, which misses the main issue.
  3. There seems to be a bias in how these topics are reported, often reinforcing existing social norms rather than challenging them for more meaningful change.

Rolling the DEI

Heterodox STEM • 234 implied HN points • 09 Feb 25
🇺🇸 U.S. Politics Gender Issues
  1. Bias is present in academia and is often not unconscious. Many feel that men struggle to gain recognition in this environment.
  2. Data suggests that award processes in universities may not truly reflect merit and can be influenced by gender and diversity initiatives.
  3. The academic focus on diversity and inclusion sometimes leads to a lack of male representation in awards, raising questions about the fairness of these systems.

Of Fuckboys and Men-Children

Castalia • 299 implied HN points • 13 May 23
🎭️ Culture Gender Issues
  1. Many young men struggle with growing up and often exhibit childish behavior, like pursuing unrealistic dreams instead of stable jobs. This immaturity can frustrate the people around them.
  2. Men in their 20s often feel a loss of status as they transition from high school or college to the workforce. This can lead to desperate actions, such as trying to date many women to regain a sense of worth.
  3. While their behavior may seem immature, these so-called 'men-children' often have big dreams. They may take risks, willing to fail to find their place, which is seen as a part of their journey into adulthood.

Is it weight loss? Or is it patriarchy?

Men Yell at Me • 237 implied HN points • 09 Feb 25
🎭️ Culture Gender Issues
  1. Weight loss can bring up deeper issues about gender roles and self-worth. Many women feel pressured to conform to beauty standards, impacting their relationships.
  2. The pressures around weight loss create feelings of rage in women who don’t feel empowered in their own lives. Social expectations often dictate how women perceive their rights and needs.
  3. Thin privilege is a real concept, highlighting how society favors certain body types. Achieving thinner bodies often leads people to feel they can ask for more in their personal lives.

DRAFT NOTES on "Grab 'Em by the Pussy" for January 20, 2025

Brad DeLong's Grasping Reality • 246 implied HN points • 20 Jan 25
🇺🇸 U.S. Politics Gender Issues
  1. Right-wing young men should realize that bravado and aggression won't help them succeed. Instead, they need emotional intelligence and collaboration skills.
  2. Emulating wealthy individuals who use rude language can lead to serious consequences. It’s essential for young men to understand that being viewed negatively can limit their future connections.
  3. Focusing solely on making money without considering social goals can create shallow relationships. Real success involves more than just financial gain; it's about building genuine connections.

Sexism is not why boys suck at school

Sex and the State • 101 implied HN points • 02 Jul 25
🚌 Education Gender Issues
  1. Boys perform worse in school not mainly because of sexism, but rather due to societal pressures and expectations around masculinity. Many boys think focusing on school is not 'manly' and this affects their effort and engagement.
  2. The environment at home plays a big role in how boys do in school. Boys tend to do better in stable, low-stress homes, and they struggle more in difficult situations compared to girls.
  3. Having more female teachers doesn't hurt boys' performance; instead, boys often feel they can't connect with them because they associate success in school with femininity. This shows that changing how we view education could help boys succeed.

Links to Consider, 10/31/2024

In My Tribe • 318 implied HN points • 31 Oct 24
🇺🇸 U.S. Politics Gender Issues
  1. There are concerns about universities becoming less helpful and more like madrassas, which could harm scientific progress. Some people think we need to seriously rethink how universities operate.
  2. A new app called SocialAI lets users interact with AI-generated comments, creating a fake social network experience. This raises concerns about loneliness and real connections in our increasingly digital lives.
  3. Many men today feel that dating is harder and that their identities are being criticized. Surveys show that while people support gender equality, some men are feeling unwanted and frustrated.

Memo to Dems: Don't blame sexism

Of Boys and Men • 274 implied HN points • 15 Nov 24
🇺🇸 U.S. Politics Gender Issues
  1. Democrats should not blame sexism for their election loss. If they do, they might miss understanding the real issues voters care about.
  2. Young men are facing many challenges, but they don't feel that the left is addressing their concerns. This can make them lean towards the right.
  3. Helping boys and men can also benefit women and girls. It's important for both sides to recognize each other's struggles and work together.

The 'Posie Parker' madness of New Zealand’s mainstream media in just seven days.

A B’Old Woman • 259 implied HN points • 24 Apr 23
🇺🇸 U.S. Politics Gender Issues
  1. The mainstream media in New Zealand intensely covered Kellie-Jay Keen, also known as Posie Parker, with 158 news items in one week, mostly negative.
  2. Media coverage may have fueled violence against her and others at a rally, showing a lack of professionalism and a rush to judgment.
  3. After the rally, the media's tone changed slightly, but they initially downplayed the violence that occurred, reflecting inconsistent reporting.

Message to all women: “your boundaries are now defunct”

A B’Old Woman • 419 implied HN points • 07 Nov 22
🎭️ Culture Gender Issues
  1. Women are feeling their boundaries are being ignored, especially regarding safe spaces like toilets. There's concern that their right to privacy is being compromised.
  2. Policies are shifting to prioritize inclusivity for transgender and non-binary people, but this can sometimes overlook the needs and safety of women. The dialogue often places the needs of men before women's.
  3. Many believe that separate spaces for women, like women-only toilets, are important for their dignity and safety. There's a push for workplaces to recognize and respect these boundaries.

Trans-Reality

Disaffected Newsletter • 399 implied HN points • 18 Dec 22
🇺🇸 U.S. Politics Gender Issues
  1. A person known for stealing women's underwear has faced serious consequences from the Department of Energy.
  2. The first transgender Navy SEAL has changed their mind and is publicly expressing regret about supporting transgender issues.
  3. A platform called Patreon has significantly reduced funding for a content creator, prompting a call for listener support.

Stop it.

Disaffected Newsletter • 539 implied HN points • 05 Aug 22
🇺🇸 U.S. Politics Gender Issues
  1. The idea of creating more spaces for gender nonconforming individuals is seen as unnecessary. There’s a belief that society should not have to accommodate what some may consider delusions about gender.
  2. The push for inclusivity in spaces, like bathrooms or sports teams, is criticized for being costly and emotionally draining for others. It suggests that these efforts are not true kindness but rather complicity in a harmful agenda.
  3. There’s a strong opinion that accommodating these demands is a step toward losing personal boundaries and safety. The idea is that such actions are not for genuine concern but rather a means of exerting control over societal norms.

Mad Wives

Men Yell at Me • 234 implied HN points • 13 Nov 24
🎭️ Culture Gender Issues
  1. In marriage, roles can be confusing. Sometimes women give a lot, and men take, leading to questions about consent and complicity.
  2. Anger can be a powerful force for change, but it's important to think about who it serves. If it only helps ourselves, it may not be truly revolutionary.
  3. Villains and victims often exist in shades of gray. The same person can embody both roles, making it hard to draw clear lines in relationships.

Daft Spunk

Heterodox STEM • 206 implied HN points • 03 Nov 24
🇺🇸 U.S. Politics Gender Issues
  1. Many men are avoiding university because they feel outnumbered by women and see fewer opportunities for relationships. This trend reflects a change in the gender dynamics at schools.
  2. The university environment is increasingly seen as accommodating to women while being less appealing to men. This might lead men to pursue different paths for their careers.
  3. There are concerns about how the current educational focus on diversity and inclusion is affecting the overall representation of men in universities, possibly impacting future relationships and social dynamics.

Have women ever considered what keeps men from doing better?

Sex and the State • 70 implied HN points • 12 Jun 25
🇺🇸 U.S. Politics Gender Issues
  1. Men often feel pressured to conform to traditional masculinity, which can limit their emotional expression. This fear of being vulnerable can lead to negative behaviors.
  2. Both men and women are affected by strict gender roles that can hinder their growth and well-being. Just like women face consequences for breaking norms, men do too.
  3. Changing how men behave requires creating safer spaces for them to express themselves. Blaming men without understanding the risks they face isn't helpful.

Let Women Speak in New Zealand.

A B’Old Woman • 219 implied HN points • 10 Mar 23
🇺🇸 U.S. Politics Gender Issues
  1. Working together on one clear issue can lead to big achievements. It's important to focus on what unites us, even when we have different beliefs.
  2. It's okay to have positions we won't compromise on, but we can still find common ground with others. Open dialogue can help build respect and understanding.
  3. Conversations around important topics like women's rights should be honest and straightforward. It's essential to protect our bodies and ensure a good future for our children.

01/27/24 - I’m very worried that all the Chinese babies adopted by America are no longer alive!

Moly’s Substack • 58 implied HN points • 28 Jan 24
🌍 World Politics Gender Issues
  1. Immigration may not always lead to happiness and stability in a foreign land; think carefully about choices.
  2. Equality in marriages means different standards for who people choose to marry.
  3. Concerns exist about the safety and well-being of Chinese babies adopted by America, raising questions about adoption policies.

WTF, Conservative Men?

Ladyparts • 419 implied HN points • 03 May 22
🎭️ Culture Gender Issues
  1. Dismantling of Roe v. Wade was fueled by misogyny and racism, disproportionately affecting poor Black women.
  2. Small interactions can highlight broader societal issues, like the presence of racism and sexism in unexpected places.
  3. Instances of bullying and belittling behavior are used to establish hierarchy and power dynamics within social groups.

What the Florida "Anti-LGBT" Laws Actually Do

Handwaving Freakoutery • 622 implied HN points • 12 Jun 23
🇺🇸 U.S. Politics Gender Issues
  1. The Florida laws have minimal impact on adults and gay men/lesbians, focusing more on transgender minors and gender-segregated spaces.
  2. Media portrayal of these laws as 'anti-LGBT' lacks accuracy and may lead to misconceptions.
  3. Public opinion on the measures outlined in the laws shows varying levels of support, indicating a disconnect between media perceptions and public views.

New Zealand’s year of gender ideology in 2022

A B’Old Woman • 239 implied HN points • 05 Jan 23
🇺🇸 U.S. Politics Gender Issues
  1. In 2022, New Zealand adopted laws related to gender identity, including the Conversion Practices Prohibition Legislation, which makes it illegal to change or suppress someone's gender identity or sexual orientation.
  2. There were significant debates and actions around gender identity in public spaces and schools, with many parents expressing concerns about the influence of gender ideology on children's education.
  3. Organizations and individuals pushed back against perceived gender ideology in sports, education, and healthcare, leading to a complex conversation about the rights of transgender individuals and the protection of women and children.

What I read in June

CIEO • 98 implied HN points • 30 Jun 23
📚 Literature Gender Issues
  1. Kathleen Stock's book emphasizes the importance of linguistic precision when discussing sex and gender.
  2. Brendan O'Neill's essays critique progressive opinions as contempt for the public and class snobbery.
  3. Sean Parker's book on stammering highlights practical strategies for stress-free communication.

New Zealand’s 2023 Census is a dog (no disrespect to dogs)

A B’Old Woman • 179 implied HN points • 23 Feb 23
🇺🇸 U.S. Politics Gender Issues
  1. The 2023 Census in New Zealand will focus more on gender than biological sex, aiming to collect data on people's self-identified genders.
  2. Statistics NZ is prioritizing responses about gender and will interpret any unclear answers in favor of a gender identity, even if the participant does not explicitly answer the question about sex.
  3. The approach taken by Stats NZ has raised concerns about clarity and the conflation of biological sex and gender identity, potentially creating confusion and social division.

Having kids is expensive. That’s not why no one is having them.

Sex and the State • 39 implied HN points • 16 Jul 25
🇺🇸 U.S. Politics Gender Issues
  1. People often think the high cost of raising kids is why many aren't having them. But studies show that while costs are high, they're not the main reason for falling birth rates.
  2. Interestingly, families with lower incomes tend to have more children. This goes against the idea that only wealthy families can afford kids. Fertility rates are actually lower among wealthier households.
  3. Many people simply don't want kids right now, and this shift in preference is complicated. Understanding why people choose to have fewer or no children is key to addressing the issue of declining birth rates.