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Disaffected Newsletter 519 implied HN points 20 Jun 23
  1. A therapist discusses Nevada's focus on 'affirmation only' gender ideology and offers advice on finding a non-activist therapist.
  2. People are starting to resist extreme gender policies in schools, highlighted by principals criticizing students for not supporting LGBTQ events.
  3. There is controversy over schools providing inappropriate materials in libraries, as some believe it harms children despite claims of promoting diversity.
Splattern 19 implied HN points 27 Jul 24
  1. Sexual violence is a huge problem that happens in many places, including war zones and homes. It's important to understand how and why it occurs to effectively respond to it.
  2. Rape is often used as a weapon of war, showing a disturbing connection between violence and control over populations. This problem goes beyond geography and also affects peaceful countries.
  3. Everyone can help combat sexual violence by speaking out, supporting victims, and teaching respect. Men have a crucial role in changing the conversation around women's rights and fighting against these issues.
A B’Old Woman 499 implied HN points 10 May 23
  1. Some people believe that if anyone can identify as a woman, it could also include children. This raises concerns about how society defines gender.
  2. There are fears that if children are allowed to identify as women, it could create safety issues, especially in spaces meant for women and girls.
  3. Without a clear definition of what being a woman means, there’s anxiety about where boundaries will be drawn and how this may affect children and society.
Sex and the State 32 implied HN points 11 Nov 24
  1. The New York Times published an essay arguing against traditional masculinity, suggesting positive masculinity doesn't fix deeper issues faced by boys. It points out that boys feel immense pressure to act a certain way.
  2. The essay claims we need to rethink and possibly eliminate the concept of masculinity altogether to address the real problems men and boys face.
  3. Some conservative media criticized the essay as part of a supposed 'war on masculinity,' but the author found value in it despite suggesting a slight change.
A B’Old Woman 539 implied HN points 31 Mar 23
  1. A man who encouraged violence against women received a major award in New Zealand. This has raised concerns about the values being celebrated in society.
  2. Media and activists seemed to spread negativity towards a women's rally, which led to violent confrontations. Many believe this hostility shut down healthy discussions.
  3. The award recipient's identity is also controversial, as he identifies as a trans person but did not always present that way. This situation has sparked debate about gender identity and recognition.
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Sex and the State 19 implied HN points 04 Dec 24
  1. Fear is a major factor that drives sexism, more than hate. It affects how people see and react to each other.
  2. Some individuals may struggle with feelings of fear towards women, which can coexist with their beliefs in feminism.
  3. Understanding the role of fear in gender dynamics can help address and reduce sexist attitudes in society.
A B’Old Woman 299 implied HN points 04 Aug 23
  1. The Human Rights Commission in New Zealand added a disclaimer to their FAQ page. This disclaimer states that the guidance there is not legal advice and might not be the final word on any topic.
  2. The HRC suggests that service providers cannot refuse men who identify as women access to women’s spaces. However, this advice could lead to confusion, as the law allows for single-sex services in some cases.
  3. Service providers still have the option to decide their own policies regarding who can enter women’s spaces. They may want to seek more thorough legal advice to clarify their options.
A B’Old Woman 439 implied HN points 26 Apr 23
  1. An article in the NZ Herald challenges the use of puberty blockers, marking a shift in the media's approach to the topic. It highlights that previous articles may have had misleading information.
  2. Research and reviews from multiple countries, including New Zealand, question the safety and efficacy of puberty blockers for children. Some findings suggest serious health risks and a lack of improvement in mental health.
  3. There's concern about the increasing rates of puberty blocker prescriptions in New Zealand, as procedures and guidelines are becoming more accessible to children without extensive evaluations.
A B’Old Woman 239 implied HN points 30 Oct 23
  1. There is a rally happening at New Zealand's Parliament on October 31st, focused on children's issues.
  2. Organized by a Māori women's group, this event will feature strong voices speaking on current gender topics affecting kids.
  3. Activities and policies regarding youth, like a secret program in Christchurch, are being highlighted as concerns during the rally.
Sex and the State 21 implied HN points 22 Nov 24
  1. Some people think that men can also be victims in society. This idea challenges how we usually think about gender roles.
  2. Believing in male victimhood can spark discussions about fairness and equality. It shows that men can face issues too, just like women.
  3. Talk about male victimhood can be divisive, but it's important to understand different perspectives. Listening to everyone's experiences creates a better conversation.
A B’Old Woman 559 implied HN points 28 Jan 23
  1. Defending women's spaces can lead to unexpected backlash from friends. It's surprising how quickly opinions can change over important issues.
  2. There’s a personal journey in understanding feminism, which can be triggered by seeing unfairness in women's rights. Reflecting on past struggles can inspire a deeper commitment to activism.
  3. Sometimes, conflicts reveal true friendships and values. Ending toxic friendships can lead to personal growth and stronger connections with like-minded people.
A B’Old Woman 399 implied HN points 03 May 23
  1. New Zealand's Ministry of Health is using terms like 'pregnant people' instead of 'women', which some people find confusing. Despite this change, they still refer to men as 'men'.
  2. The Plain Language Act was created for clear communication, but many feel that using terms like 'pregnant people' does not meet this goal. People want clear language that everyone can understand.
  3. There are concerns that some people in government, especially those focused on academic language, may not understand everyday people's needs. This leads to communication that doesn’t always make sense to the general public.
Handwaving Freakoutery 622 implied HN points 12 Jun 23
  1. The Florida laws have minimal impact on adults and gay men/lesbians, focusing more on transgender minors and gender-segregated spaces.
  2. Media portrayal of these laws as 'anti-LGBT' lacks accuracy and may lead to misconceptions.
  3. Public opinion on the measures outlined in the laws shows varying levels of support, indicating a disconnect between media perceptions and public views.
Sex and the State 18 implied HN points 25 Nov 24
  1. It's important to care about boys and men because they face challenges that need attention. Recognizing these challenges can help improve their well-being.
  2. Supporting boys and men can lead to better outcomes for society as a whole. When they thrive, everyone benefits.
  3. Having open discussions about the needs and struggles of boys and men encourages understanding and can lead to positive changes. Communication is key.
Diane Francis 1159 implied HN points 08 Mar 22
  1. Ukrainian women are showing incredible resilience during tough times. They are stepping up to help their communities and families.
  2. Many women in Ukraine are taking active roles, even making weapons to defend themselves. Their bravery is truly inspiring.
  3. It's important to celebrate the strength and contributions of women, especially on occasions like International Women’s Day. They play a crucial role in society.
A B’Old Woman 419 implied HN points 19 Mar 23
  1. During a rally in Melbourne, some activists attacked police horses, which is alarming and shows a dangerous level of violence.
  2. The rally is centered around giving women the chance to speak, but there are tensions between different activist groups that complicate the situation.
  3. Media coverage often sparks controversy, with claims being made against rally leaders that may not reflect the reality of their actions or intentions.
A B’Old Woman 359 implied HN points 12 Apr 23
  1. Real Women NZ recently launched its first weekly livestream to discuss issues affecting women, especially in relation to trans ideology. This provides a platform for women to share their experiences openly.
  2. The group was formed after a violent incident earlier this year during a women's rally in Auckland, sparking a need for more safe spaces for women to express their views.
  3. Upcoming plans include creating a YouTube channel and possibly a website to reach a wider audience, ensuring that women can connect and continue these important discussions, even if they are banned from other platforms.
A B’Old Woman 399 implied HN points 05 Mar 23
  1. A social rule used to keep men out of women's spaces created a safe environment for women. This changed when some men started claiming to be women and accessing these spaces.
  2. Some women are misled into believing that men entering women’s changing rooms are genuinely women, which makes it uncomfortable for those who truly identify as female.
  3. Rallies are planned for women to express their concerns and demand to be heard on this issue, highlighting the importance of women’s rights and spaces.
Castalia 299 implied HN points 13 May 23
  1. Many young men struggle with growing up and often exhibit childish behavior, like pursuing unrealistic dreams instead of stable jobs. This immaturity can frustrate the people around them.
  2. Men in their 20s often feel a loss of status as they transition from high school or college to the workforce. This can lead to desperate actions, such as trying to date many women to regain a sense of worth.
  3. While their behavior may seem immature, these so-called 'men-children' often have big dreams. They may take risks, willing to fail to find their place, which is seen as a part of their journey into adulthood.
I Might Be Wrong 16 implied HN points 27 Nov 24
  1. The idea that women are better at long-distance swimming is not really true. Many facts show that on average, men have physical advantages in many sports, including swimming.
  2. Some people are denying these physical differences and the argument has become pretty heated. It's important to recognize that biology plays a role in physical abilities.
  3. Recent discussions, including those involving public figures, highlight how these topics can become controversial and misunderstood. Understanding science and biology is crucial in these debates.
Sex and the State 9 implied HN points 11 Dec 24
  1. Many sexists are driven by fear, not hate. This fear can make people act irrationally and selfishly.
  2. Younger, lower-status men tend to be the most sexist. They often feel threatened by women's advancement.
  3. The most sexist individuals may experience the biggest loss due to feminism, showing that their fear is linked to their own status.
A B’Old Woman 259 implied HN points 24 Apr 23
  1. The mainstream media in New Zealand intensely covered Kellie-Jay Keen, also known as Posie Parker, with 158 news items in one week, mostly negative.
  2. Media coverage may have fueled violence against her and others at a rally, showing a lack of professionalism and a rush to judgment.
  3. After the rally, the media's tone changed slightly, but they initially downplayed the violence that occurred, reflecting inconsistent reporting.
A B’Old Woman 419 implied HN points 07 Nov 22
  1. Women are feeling their boundaries are being ignored, especially regarding safe spaces like toilets. There's concern that their right to privacy is being compromised.
  2. Policies are shifting to prioritize inclusivity for transgender and non-binary people, but this can sometimes overlook the needs and safety of women. The dialogue often places the needs of men before women's.
  3. Many believe that separate spaces for women, like women-only toilets, are important for their dignity and safety. There's a push for workplaces to recognize and respect these boundaries.
Disaffected Newsletter 399 implied HN points 18 Dec 22
  1. A person known for stealing women's underwear has faced serious consequences from the Department of Energy.
  2. The first transgender Navy SEAL has changed their mind and is publicly expressing regret about supporting transgender issues.
  3. A platform called Patreon has significantly reduced funding for a content creator, prompting a call for listener support.
Disaffected Newsletter 539 implied HN points 05 Aug 22
  1. The idea of creating more spaces for gender nonconforming individuals is seen as unnecessary. There’s a belief that society should not have to accommodate what some may consider delusions about gender.
  2. The push for inclusivity in spaces, like bathrooms or sports teams, is criticized for being costly and emotionally draining for others. It suggests that these efforts are not true kindness but rather complicity in a harmful agenda.
  3. There’s a strong opinion that accommodating these demands is a step toward losing personal boundaries and safety. The idea is that such actions are not for genuine concern but rather a means of exerting control over societal norms.
Some Unpleasant Arithmetic 26 implied HN points 09 Jan 25
  1. Dating and relationships are changing, with fewer people getting married and starting families. This is partly due to the pressures of a modern economy and changing social norms.
  2. Women are increasingly entering the workforce and seeking partners who can match their ambitions, while many men are struggling to meet these expectations. This has led to more women opting for single motherhood.
  3. Economic factors, like housing costs and childcare expenses, heavily influence people's decisions about having families. Many people want financial stability before committing to marriage and children.
A B’Old Woman 219 implied HN points 10 Mar 23
  1. Working together on one clear issue can lead to big achievements. It's important to focus on what unites us, even when we have different beliefs.
  2. It's okay to have positions we won't compromise on, but we can still find common ground with others. Open dialogue can help build respect and understanding.
  3. Conversations around important topics like women's rights should be honest and straightforward. It's essential to protect our bodies and ensure a good future for our children.
Moly’s Substack 58 implied HN points 28 Jan 24
  1. Immigration may not always lead to happiness and stability in a foreign land; think carefully about choices.
  2. Equality in marriages means different standards for who people choose to marry.
  3. Concerns exist about the safety and well-being of Chinese babies adopted by America, raising questions about adoption policies.
Ladyparts 419 implied HN points 03 May 22
  1. Dismantling of Roe v. Wade was fueled by misogyny and racism, disproportionately affecting poor Black women.
  2. Small interactions can highlight broader societal issues, like the presence of racism and sexism in unexpected places.
  3. Instances of bullying and belittling behavior are used to establish hierarchy and power dynamics within social groups.
Natural Selections 18 implied HN points 28 Jan 25
  1. Definitions of sex should clarify that females are those who produce eggs and males produce sperm. It's about biology, not ideology.
  2. The recent executive order emphasizes 'immutable' biological sex, arguing against perspectives that suggest sex is not binary.
  3. Critics misunderstand the order, thinking it could legally declare everyone as female, which isn't true or scientifically accurate.
A B’Old Woman 239 implied HN points 05 Jan 23
  1. In 2022, New Zealand adopted laws related to gender identity, including the Conversion Practices Prohibition Legislation, which makes it illegal to change or suppress someone's gender identity or sexual orientation.
  2. There were significant debates and actions around gender identity in public spaces and schools, with many parents expressing concerns about the influence of gender ideology on children's education.
  3. Organizations and individuals pushed back against perceived gender ideology in sports, education, and healthcare, leading to a complex conversation about the rights of transgender individuals and the protection of women and children.
CIEO 98 implied HN points 30 Jun 23
  1. Kathleen Stock's book emphasizes the importance of linguistic precision when discussing sex and gender.
  2. Brendan O'Neill's essays critique progressive opinions as contempt for the public and class snobbery.
  3. Sean Parker's book on stammering highlights practical strategies for stress-free communication.
Sex and the State 13 implied HN points 21 Oct 24
  1. Many people don't understand abuse very well. This ignorance leads to feelings of shame and can make it harder for victims to speak out.
  2. There's a common assumption that victims of sexual assault are women and perpetrators are men, which can limit our understanding of who can be affected by abuse.
  3. Blaming victims is dangerous and often comes from a place of fear. It's important to support victims instead of shaming them.
A B’Old Woman 179 implied HN points 23 Feb 23
  1. The 2023 Census in New Zealand will focus more on gender than biological sex, aiming to collect data on people's self-identified genders.
  2. Statistics NZ is prioritizing responses about gender and will interpret any unclear answers in favor of a gender identity, even if the participant does not explicitly answer the question about sex.
  3. The approach taken by Stats NZ has raised concerns about clarity and the conflation of biological sex and gender identity, potentially creating confusion and social division.
A B’Old Woman 219 implied HN points 12 Nov 22
  1. The New Zealand Midwifery Council has decided to stop using the words 'mother' and 'woman' in their guidelines. This change raises concerns since these terms are central to midwifery.
  2. Most people giving birth identify as women, so removing these words could make midwifery less clear and less welcoming for many parents.
  3. The council has invited public feedback on this decision, but it seems odd that they didn’t consult the women and mothers most affected by these changes beforehand.
A B’Old Woman 199 implied HN points 15 Dec 22
  1. Using the word 'prick' is traditionally aimed at men, and it raises questions about assumptions made about gender. The author humorously suggests that if someone might not present as male, should we be cautious about our language?
  2. The idea of needing to inspect someone's genitals to determine their gender is highlighted as absurd. Many believe we can recognize gender based on social cues and experiences.
  3. There’s a conflict in how society views gender and language, especially when it comes to terms that might seem offensive or outdated. The piece stresses that understanding gender requires more than just looking at physical traits.