The hottest Human Interaction Substack posts right now

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Trevor Klee’s Newsletter 1641 implied HN points 01 Feb 25
  1. People can have different perceptions of a person based on their size. For example, a large person might be considered intimidating, even if they are friendly.
  2. This awareness of how others view them can be a burden and a blessing for someone who is large. They may adjust their behavior to avoid scaring people.
  3. If someone who is usually small suddenly became large, they might act differently, feeling more confident in using their size. However, that could lead to negative consequences if they don't understand the responsibilities that come with it.
Some Unpleasant Arithmetic 9 implied HN points 29 May 25
  1. AI friends are becoming popular, but they might not help loneliness. Many people are feeling isolated, and relying on robots for companionship could be harmful.
  2. Loneliness is a serious health issue and affects many people, leading to problems like depression and lower well-being. It's becoming clear that social connections play a big role in our health.
  3. Strong social ties are important for economic success. Having friends can help in finding jobs and building career networks, showing that friendships have real value beyond just companionship.
Desk Notes by Charles Schifano 133 implied HN points 13 Dec 24
  1. Rudeness in daily interactions can lead to interesting conversations about empathy and kindness. When someone behaves poorly, it often sparks curiosity about their reasons and intentions.
  2. Technological progress is clear, but it's important to consider whether we've become more thoughtful and caring as a society. Just knowing more doesn't always mean we are better to each other.
  3. Our understanding of the past can change with new information. Life is about continually learning and revisiting what we thought we knew, which helps shape our connections with others.
Bite code! 1590 implied HN points 06 Mar 24
  1. Creating software has become easier due to resources and tools available, but it still requires dedication, time, and energy.
  2. Writing software demands perseverance and continuous learning, akin to mastering a musical instrument or a sport.
  3. Working on software involves dealing with humans, extracting requirements, navigating social dynamics, and recognizing the importance of human interaction in the development process.
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Disaffected Newsletter 1358 implied HN points 03 May 23
  1. People often experience rudeness instead of kindness in customer service today. Many have become used to being ignored or treated poorly, which can affect how they respond to friendly interactions.
  2. Cultural changes play a big role in how people interact with each other, especially in stores. Different groups can show very different attitudes, leading to frustration and misunderstandings.
  3. Observing these changes in everyday interactions is important. Recognizing the decline in human connection helps encourage better communication and kindness in our daily lives.
Internal exile 54 implied HN points 06 Dec 24
  1. There's a nostalgic site that shares old YouTube videos with random iPhone names, showing a rawness that feels different from today's polished social media. These videos come from a time when people didn't expect wide attention, making them feel more authentic.
  2. Having relationships with AI chatbots is often compared to addictive games, where they aim to keep users engaged just like slot machines. It's essential to recognize that these relationships may not fulfill real emotional needs like human connections do.
  3. Many people confuse consuming entertainment products like chatbots with actual relationships. It's important to understand that enjoying a product doesn’t replace the value of genuine human interaction and connection.
Maybe Baby 1734 implied HN points 12 Feb 23
  1. Making socializing cool again has many benefits for individuals and communities.
  2. Antisocial tendencies are often culturally enabled rather than intrinsic, and resisting the pull of social avoidance can lead to personal growth.
  3. Engaging in genuine conversations, practicing prosocial behavior, and challenging antisocial norms can have a positive impact on society.
Desk Notes by Charles Schifano 364 implied HN points 26 Jan 24
  1. In our modern world, there is a trend of continuous judging and assessing everything we interact with.
  2. Having difficult conversations directly with individuals can be more effective than immediately seeking higher authorities.
  3. The desire for a 'real leader' can create anxiety in various aspects of life, including politics and daily interactions.
As If We Were Staying 3 implied HN points 02 Feb 25
  1. Using AI can be a helpful tool for deep conversations, but it shouldn't replace real human interactions. It's important to find a balance so we don’t lose the richness of personal relationships.
  2. AI can optimize energy usage and processes, but there's a risk it might outgrow our control. We need to think carefully about how we integrate AI into our lives to ensure it's used for good.
  3. A good approach may be to develop a symbiotic relationship with AI. This means leveraging its strengths while still valuing the unique qualities humans bring to interactions and decision-making.
The Leftovers 199 implied HN points 15 Aug 23
  1. Consider unfriending or unfollowing deceased individuals on social media as a healthy way to cope with death and keep a distance from it.
  2. When writing about someone's death online, it often turns into an opportunity for self-centered displays, termed as 'mebituaries,' especially common among authors.
  3. In today's digital age, the concept of being forgotten after death has transformed drastically, with the algorithm immortalizing individuals and sometimes hindering the right to be truly forgotten.
Soaring Twenties 146 implied HN points 19 Feb 24
  1. The story 'The Man in Korea' revolves around a dramatic encounter in North Korea resulting from a skydiving mishap.
  2. The protagonist faces a perilous situation when mistaken for a spy, leading to a tense and tragic conclusion.
  3. The narrative showcases themes of misunderstanding, communication barriers, and the consequences of trespassing in a highly sensitive area.
Diane Francis 479 implied HN points 21 Oct 21
  1. America has always been a lively place, but people's bad behavior is growing. Technology is playing a big role in changing how we interact with each other.
  2. People are losing their patience and face-to-face conversations because of devices. Instead of talking to each other, many prefer sending messages.
  3. Email can make communication feel more aggressive. It lets people quickly share harsh comments without thinking about the impact they have.
⭐️Bob’s Newsletter 39 implied HN points 10 Apr 23
  1. Technology can help redefine what it means to be human and how time is best spent.
  2. We should consider allowing machines to handle tasks they excel at, while humans focus on emotional intelligence, creativity, problem-solving, ethics, and communication.
  3. By learning from past technology pitfalls, we can create new innovations that enhance our humanity and enrich our lives.
The Digital Anthropologist 19 implied HN points 15 Dec 23
  1. Technologies that understand and meet societal expectations are more likely to succeed as they are adapted in different cultural settings.
  2. Considering social expectations leads to more innovative technology, helps avoid biases, and enhances the chances of success for a technology.
  3. Cultures vary in how they expect technology to benefit them, and social expectations influence creativity, innovation, regulations, and societal acceptance of technologies.
The Digital Anthropologist 19 implied HN points 23 May 23
  1. Social media has not solved loneliness and technology likely won't be able to completely solve it.
  2. Technology designed without a deep understanding of human behavior and social norms may not effectively address loneliness.
  3. Real-world physical contact and connections are crucial for resolving loneliness, and technology can only aid but not fully replace this aspect.
Fish Food for Thought 16 implied HN points 31 Jan 24
  1. Psychological safety is crucial for team success, more than individual skills or composition.
  2. Google's Project Aristotle highlighted the importance of emotional intelligence and interpersonal skills in successful teams.
  3. Data-driven decision-making is essential, but human elements like trust and open communication are critical for team success.
Space chimp life 0 implied HN points 10 Apr 23
  1. We need better ways to share information and opinions in our decision-making systems. Right now, it's hard for people to feel heard or to make changes in our society.
  2. Human systems often operate between humans making decisions and automated processes. Finding a balance could help us use both human creativity and the efficiency of automation.
  3. Creating a platform for people to propose and vote on ideas could improve cooperation and decision-making at all levels. This would help people work together better, whether in families, friends, or communities.
The Unabashed Observer 0 implied HN points 19 Apr 24
  1. Smartphones have made it difficult for us to tolerate boredom, leading to a constant need for mental stimulation.
  2. The pandemic accelerated our reliance on screens for work and entertainment, blurring the lines between real-life interactions and digital connections.
  3. We should make an effort to balance screen time with moments of boredom, introspection, and genuine human connection to combat the negative impacts of smartphone addiction.
The Digital Anthropologist 0 implied HN points 07 Feb 24
  1. Humans have always relied on technology for survival and identity, from making tools to creating complex technologies like smartphones.
  2. We are currently surrounded by an abundance of technologies that both enhance and challenge us, leading to questions about how we should use them to benefit humanity.
  3. Instead of being over-reliant, we may be feeling overwhelmed by the rapid pace and global impact of technological advancements, prompting us to consider how to navigate this new era.
The Renaissance Man 0 implied HN points 01 Jul 24
  1. We often want everything instantly, but patience can lead to surprises and joy. Sometimes the journey to find something special is what makes it exciting.
  2. We've started to value digital experiences over real-life ones. This shift can make us forget the joy of tangible objects and human interactions.
  3. Having a frictionless life sounds good, but it can also be boring. Embracing challenges can make experiences more fun and meaningful.
rene saenz 0 implied HN points 03 Dec 23
  1. Dinner parties are not just parties, but places for sharing ideas and vibes.
  2. Creating the right atmosphere and selecting diverse guests are key to a successful dinner party.
  3. While food is not essential, serving guests well can enhance the social experience, AI can play a role in understanding social dynamics.
The Counterfactual 0 implied HN points 01 Apr 24
  1. The study tested whether human readers find text easier or harder to read when modified by a large language model. The results showed that people did indeed rate the 'easier' texts as more readable than the 'harder' ones.
  2. While different readability metrics correlated with human ratings, they were often more aligned with each other than with actual human judgment. This suggests that while these tools can help gauge readability, they might not capture all aspects of what makes a text readable.
  3. The research highlights that 'readability' is complex and subjective. Future studies should explore how different audiences might interpret readability, and consider other factors like comprehension and enjoyment when assessing text.
Really Stupid 0 implied HN points 15 Sep 24
  1. A beluga whale named Hvaldimir was found dead in Norway, with a stick causing his death.
  2. There are suspicions that the whale might have been intentionally harmed due to allegations of being a Russian spy.
  3. Hvaldimir was known for being friendly with humans and was possibly trained for therapy with children, but his origins remain unclear.