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Skills for the Modern World

David Friedman’s Substack • 278 implied HN points • 24 Jan 25
🚌 Education Digital Literacy Critical Thinking Social Skills Information Management
  1. In today's world, it's really important to know how to find good information online and tell what's true from what isn't. Being able to filter through all the noise is a skill we need to learn.
  2. AI is a big part of our lives now, and we need to understand how to use it effectively and recognize when we're interacting with it. It’s also important to know how to protect ourselves from scams online.
  3. Learning how to navigate online spaces for socializing and education has become essential. Whether it's finding friends, dating, or learning new things, being savvy with technology and online interactions is key.

When life is a metaphor

SPARC '24 JC Blog • 199 implied HN points • 27 Aug 24
🚌 Education Learning Pedagogy Creativity Personal Growth Social Skills
  1. Stepping out of your comfort zone can lead to personal growth. Trying new activities and meeting different people helps you learn more about yourself.
  2. Learning can happen in unexpected ways. Sometimes, you realize you've grown just by reflecting on your experiences rather than actively studying something new.
  3. Creating a supportive social group can inspire creativity and curiosity. Surrounding yourself with like-minded individuals makes it easier to explore new ideas and develop your passions.

Smart, But Not Too Smart: IQ as a Double-Edged Sword in Leadership (and Romance)

Rob Henderson's Newsletter • 2954 implied HN points • 03 Nov 24
🇺🇸 U.S. Politics Leadership Intelligence Elections Public Opinion Social Skills
  1. Having a high IQ is important for success in many areas of life, including jobs and even health. It helps people learn quickly and solve problems well.
  2. For leaders, being smart is good, but being too smart can make it hard for people to relate to them. The best leaders usually have an IQ that's just above average.
  3. It's essential for leaders to connect with their followers. If they can't relate well, even smart leaders may struggle to succeed.

I don't like ice-breakers

Soaring Twenties • 100 implied HN points • 15 Jan 25
🚌 Education Teaching Learning Social Skills Courses Personal Development
  1. Ice-breakers often feel pointless and waste time during meetings or courses. People usually don't get to know each other better through these activities.
  2. Sharing personal stories can be uncomfortable for many, especially if they're private. It might feel better to focus on course-related topics instead.
  3. Instead of typical ice-breakers, it might be better to discuss why everyone is there. This helps people connect meaningfully and saves time.
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The Autism Horseshoe

Richard Hanania's Newsletter • 4242 implied HN points • 05 Feb 24
🏥 Health & Wellness Mental health Self-Improvement Social Skills Emotional Intelligence Personal Growth
  1. Asperger's symptoms can manifest in various ways, impacting social interactions, communication, and behavior.
  2. Those with Aspie traits may have a passion for specific topics in life and exhibit emotional distance from others.
  3. Individuals on the autism spectrum can leverage their unique perspectives and interests to turn weaknesses into strengths, leading to success in different areas.

#135: Anti Anti Social Social Club

Maybe Baby • 1734 implied HN points • 12 Feb 23
🎭️ Culture Society Community Social Skills Human Interaction Behavior
  1. Making socializing cool again has many benefits for individuals and communities.
  2. Antisocial tendencies are often culturally enabled rather than intrinsic, and resisting the pull of social avoidance can lead to personal growth.
  3. Engaging in genuine conversations, practicing prosocial behavior, and challenging antisocial norms can have a positive impact on society.

Better Small Talk:

Books Unbound • 3 HN points • 18 Aug 24
🎭️ Culture Social Skills Communication Relationships Emotional Intelligence Personal Development
  1. Small talk helps build connections, so it's important to practice it regularly. Short interactions can turn into meaningful conversations later on.
  2. Preparing topics for small talk, like a conversation resume, can make you feel more confident and engaging. Having stories or interesting facts ready helps avoid awkward silences.
  3. Keeping conversations lively requires techniques like free association or using certain prompts. This keeps the discussion flowing and makes it more enjoyable for everyone involved.

Put on your beginner hat!

box. • 159 implied HN points • 24 Apr 23
🚌 Education Personal Growth Community Building Social Skills Career development Diversity
  1. It's important to not limit yourself to one label, like 'engineer' or 'leadership kid.' Embrace all your skills and interests to grow as a person.
  2. Breaking down barriers between different groups, like tech and leadership, can lead to personal growth and better teamwork. Everyone has something valuable to share.
  3. Community support is key in learning new things. When we help each other, we all grow together and create a better environment for everyone.

The Self-Reliance Disorder

72 Degrees North • 19 implied HN points • 23 Jan 24
🏥 Health & Wellness Self-Reliance Mental health Social Skills Employment
  1. Autism is a complex condition with variations and benefits, not defined by a single cause or symptom.
  2. Neurodivergent individuals exist in a diverse space outside the neurotypical 'center', with both groups contributing value to society.
  3. Self-reliance is a common trait among the neurodivergent population, stemming from a history of exclusion and valuable insights that can benefit society.

BREAKING NEWS (that isn’t depressing or scary): My new book, Think Again

Granted • 19 implied HN points • 07 Oct 20
🚌 Education Psychology Self-Improvement Social Skills Gender Dynamics
  1. 2020 has forced us to reconsider our beliefs and be open to challenging our thoughts.
  2. Thinking like scientists seeking truth can help us cultivate the humility to accept we don't know everything and adapt to changes.
  3. Learning to sit with cognitive dissonance can be crucial for personal growth and evolution.

The Intentionality of Improving Social Skills

Jay's Data Stream • 0 implied HN points • 03 Sep 23
🏥 Health & Wellness Social Skills Personal Development Self-Improvement Communication Skills
  1. Improving social skills is important in various aspects of life, including professional settings like sales or interviews.
  2. Key aspects of improving social skills include genuine interest in others, strong body language and confidence, sharing values, and having fun.
  3. Developing social skills is a process that requires intentional effort and practice, treating charisma as a learned skill that can be honed over time.