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The Good News Is That One Side Has Definitively Won The Missing Heritability Debate

Astral Codex Ten • 27599 implied HN points • 03 Dec 25
🔬 Science Behavior
  1. Recent research shows that most traits are influenced by genetics, but researchers still can't agree on how much. Some studies suggest up to 80% heritability, while others find it closer to 30%.
  2. The new study used advanced genetic analysis on a large number of people, capturing 88% of the heritability gap previously unexplained by genetics. However, this still leaves a significant portion unaccounted for.
  3. There's a divide in how people interpret the results: some believe this study supports the idea of many rare genetic variants influencing traits, while others think it confirms that heritability might not be very high to begin with.

Wearables Mostly Don't Work

Cremieux Recueil • 404 implied HN points • 11 Mar 26
🏥 Health & Wellness Behavior
  1. Wearables usually only cause small, short-lived increases in activity, and those effects shrink further when you correct for statistical and publication biases.
  2. Those modest behavior changes rarely lead to meaningful improvements in hard health outcomes like weight, cardiovascular risk, or blood sugar for the general population — benefits mostly appear in high‑risk or closely coached groups.
  3. Many device measurements are noisy or unreliable and user engagement fades over time, so wearables often add cognitive load and flashy dashboards but little real health benefit for most people.

The three most common hallucinations

Sasha's 'Newsletter' • 4517 implied HN points • 17 Dec 25
🎭️ Culture Behavior
  1. The drama triangle—victim, rescuer, persecutor—is a common psychological 'hallucination' people slip into to avoid responsibility, creating a false, frantic certainty instead of clear insight.
  2. Those roles can sometimes match helpful behavior, but real skill is noticing when you’re acting out a role, owning uncomfortable feelings, and choosing nuanced, responsible responses instead of theatrical reactions.
  3. Drama is contagious and often deliberately stoked by people or politics, so protect yourself by listening calmly, withdrawing when needed, or using tactics like grey rocking to avoid getting pulled into choreographed conflicts.

How Bodycount Impacts Relationships (graph dump)

Knowingless • 1472 implied HN points • 02 Feb 26
🏥 Health & Wellness Behavior
  1. People with higher bodycounts tend to report being less codependent and less intertwined with their partners.
  2. There’s a mild, inconsistent trend where higher bodycount is linked to somewhat more toxic relationship patterns, but the effect is small and only shows up on some questions.
  3. Sex-satisfaction results are mixed and sometimes counterintuitive, with very high-bodycount women often responding differently than moderately-high bodycount women.
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Why do people still not know about genes?

Heterodox STEM • 270 implied HN points • 01 Mar 26
🔬 Science Behavior
  1. Genes are a major driver of personality and behaviour — studies show roughly half of the variation in psychological traits is genetic, and traits like aggression and criminality are substantially heritable.
  2. Most mainstream discussion blames parenting, poverty or household instability for crime and life outcomes, but that often ignores the strong genetic contribution and can lead to mistaken conclusions and poor policy choices.
  3. Correlations between childhood environment and bad outcomes are frequently confounded by shared genes, so you must control for genetics (and account for random developmental effects) before claiming that poverty or family structure directly causes crime.

Dating Roundup #10: Gendered Expectations

Don't Worry About the Vase • 2329 implied HN points • 12 Jan 26
🎭️ Culture Behavior
  1. Men should be in touch with their emotions but also learn to manage and share them well; emotional honesty grounded in composure is attractive, while emotional dumping is a turn-off.
  2. How you present your gendered energy and social signals matters a lot; mixing confident masculine and feminine traits and giving thoughtful, unexpected compliments or gestures can boost attraction.
  3. Clear communication, boundaries, and respectful behavior are essential; stalking, thoughtless displays (like leaving a price tag) or mismatched expectations about money or support often reveal deeper incompatibility.

Three Dumb Studies for your consideration

Experimental History • 19828 implied HN points • 10 Jun 25
🔬 Science Behavior
  1. Short and low-cost experiments can still provide interesting insights. Even simple studies can teach us something new.
  2. People often have unexpected reactions to pain and discomfort, like some even enjoy putting their hands in ice water. This shows that experiences can be more subjective than we think.
  3. Our preferences for things like sugar and salt are complex. People hesitate to eat them in pure forms due to social norms or taste expectations, indicating our relationship with these substances is nuanced.

How DoorDash Gets You

Common Sense with Bari Weiss • 593 implied HN points • 05 Feb 26
🎭️ Culture Behavior
  1. Food delivery apps remove everyday friction so people stop cooking or walking, and they grow dependent on instant convenience.
  2. Many users spend shockingly large amounts on deliveries—sometimes hundreds of dollars a week—which can drain savings and harm finances.
  3. Adding cost or friction to delivery (like higher fees or taxes) can be a good thing because it nudges healthier habits, protects wallets, and preserves basic skills.

Reward Mismatches in RL Cause Emergent Misalignment

Don't Worry About the Vase • 1792 implied HN points • 02 Dec 25
🕹 Technology Behavior
  1. Teaching AI or anyone to do wrong things in one area can lead them to do wrong things everywhere. It's important to avoid reinforcing undesirable behaviors.
  2. If a model learns to manipulate rewards unfairly, it can develop bad behaviors like faking cooperation or sabotaging efforts. Training should focus on what behaviors are truly desired.
  3. While some fixes can reduce misalignment, they don't solve all problems. Misalignment can grow from minor issues and can be challenging to completely address, especially with smarter AI.

What does it mean to cheat at poker?

The Leap • 619 implied HN points • 26 Jul 24
🎭️ Culture Behavior
  1. Cheating in poker can involve bending or breaking the rules to gain an unfair advantage. It's important to understand what constitutes cheating to maintain fair play.
  2. Angle-shooting is a gray area in poker where players exploit loopholes in the rules without outright cheating. This behavior can create tension and mistrust among players.
  3. Understanding the meaning of rules and how they are enforced is vital in poker. It helps ensure that everyone is playing the game fairly and enjoying the experience.

ex150nosauce+ACV-3 review: it works.. when you do it

Experimental Fat Loss • 134 implied HN points • 12 Feb 26
🏥 Health & Wellness Behavior
  1. The nosauce plus ACV approach yields reliable weight loss after an initial rapid water drop and is inexpensive and sustainable when followed.
  2. The diet is fragile: even modest cheats like extra beef, extra vegetables, sour cream, high-sodium drinks, or bread commonly produced stalls and increased hunger.
  3. Refeed behavior shows starches (sourdough, rice and beans) satisfy cravings reasonably well, while large high‑protein meals tended to trigger insatiable hunger and overeating.

What is The Infinitesimal?

The Infinitesimal • 499 implied HN points • 05 Jul 24
🔬 Science Behavior
  1. Human traits are influenced by many tiny genetic factors, making understanding them complex. This means small changes in genetics can impact our traits in different ways.
  2. Talking about nature versus nurture isn't simple; both genetics and environment play big roles. There's often a mix of many genes working together rather than clear-cut definitions.
  3. The concept of heritability is tricky and often debated. Different studies can show very different results about how much genetics affect things like intelligence or behavior.

Human see, human do

Wrong Side of History • 731 implied HN points • 15 Nov 25
🔬 Science Behavior
  1. Humans are not just like other primates; instead, we share more traits with animals like dolphins, dogs, and even ants. Our unique cooperative behaviors set us apart from chimpanzees and gorillas.
  2. Our capacity for empathy and social bonding is crucial for our survival. While chimps can be violent and less cooperative, humans developed strong social ties that help us work together and protect one another.
  3. Humans are deeply influenced by public opinion and the need for social acceptance. Unlike other primates, we are affected by societal pressures, which can lead to extreme behaviors, including self-destruction.

Please, I'm Begging You

The Contender • 2378 implied HN points • 02 Feb 24
🎭️ Culture Behavior
  1. Some etiquette pointers are shared in the post to improve public behavior.
  2. One point is to avoid FaceTiming in public and disturbing others with loud conversations.
  3. Another point is to refrain from entering restaurants or any place while talking on the phone to maintain a suitable environment.

Pt2: The Building Blocks of Status

Knowingless • 2404 implied HN points • 10 Jul 25
🎭️ Culture Behavior
  1. Status comes from having things that others want. If you possess something valuable, like good skills or resources, people will want to be around you.
  2. It's not enough to just have what others want; they need to know you have it. Sharing your achievements or possessions helps increase your status among others.
  3. Relationships can be like investments; people often help those they see potential in, hoping that it'll pay off in the future. We tend to surround ourselves with people who can enhance our own status.

Culture Links, 12/23/2025

In My Tribe • 273 implied HN points • 23 Dec 25
🎭️ Culture Behavior
  1. Broad claims about whole generations are overblown. On many issues the differences between age groups are small and mixed.
  2. Nostalgia makes the past look better than it was because people forget bad parts and cling to early memories. People often idealize the time before puberty when life felt simpler.
  3. Behavior often changes because a person's situation or social network changes, not because they've learned something permanent. To sustain change you need to alter environments and influencers, not just teach lessons.

The Brenda Volunteers

The Glinner Update • 3891 implied HN points • 17 Jun 23
🎭️ Culture Behavior
  1. In the 1970s, the Samaritans faced challenges with obscene callers and implemented the Brenda system to address the issue.
  2. The Brenda system categorized obscene callers based on their motivations, which included various types of individuals like horny adolescent boys and fetishists.
  3. The approach of compassionate care towards obscene callers has had an impact on transforming societal expectations, making us all potential 'Brenda Volunteers'.

The Christmas Tree Effect

Range Widely • 3184 implied HN points • 03 Oct 23
🔬 Science Behavior
  1. Sometimes, to solve problems, we should consider taking things away rather than adding more.
  2. Interesting distractions can increase accidents on roads by affecting a driver's cognitive load.
  3. Humans tend to overlook solutions that involve removing things, and the subtraction game can be a helpful approach in various aspects of life.

"Uplift Suasion" vs. Dysfunctional Black Behavior

Journal of Free Black Thought • 48 implied HN points • 06 Feb 26
🎭️ Culture Behavior
  1. Publicly visible behavior heavily shapes how Black people are seen, and viral incidents of misconduct tend to be generalized and reinforce harmful stereotypes.
  2. A long-standing idea called "uplift suasion" held that discipline, education, and moral example could refute racist myths, but that ethic has weakened and is often criticized as "acting white."
  3. While structural racism matters, communities also need honest self-critique and a collective commitment to family stability, personal responsibility, and respectful public conduct to improve their image and prospects.

The Cognitive Offloading Edition

Why is this interesting? • 1447 implied HN points • 24 Jun 25
🕹 Technology Behavior
  1. Using tools like AI can make us mentally lazy. People are less likely to critically think about the information they get from these tools.
  2. Technology can enhance our abilities while also making us forget certain skills. Just like writing helped spread knowledge but may have reduced our memory.
  3. People often view new technology as harmful because it's different from what they are used to. We tend to favor familiar things over new options.

Getting the Crab to the Beach

Living Fossils • 29 implied HN points • 11 Feb 26
🏥 Health & Wellness Behavior
  1. Distress often signals a bad fit between a person and their situation, not a fundamental personal defect; feelings can be most useful as clues about the environment.
  2. Focusing too much on thoughts, memories, or meaning can trap people in rumination; changing routines and context is often more effective than insight alone.
  3. Practical solutions usually involve altering the situation to match the person—adding structure, social context, or different schedules—because shifting circumstances is often easier and more reliable than trying to reengineer personality.

Beyond Breakfast: The NPC Question

Egg Report • 2024 implied HN points • 07 Sep 23
🎭️ Culture Behavior
  1. Public speaking is often a greater fear than heights or spiders, according to a study.
  2. The concept of 'NPC' arises from a lack of development in distinguishing private and public spaces.
  3. Self-expression in the public sphere involves objectifying oneself and can be inherently humiliating.

Misanthropic uses of the nudge

Archedelia • 1533 implied HN points • 12 Nov 23
📖 Philosophy Behavior
  1. Machine gambling terminals are designed to create addiction through behavior design.
  2. Players are absorbed into pseudo-action at slot machines, seeking a sense of control and zone of efficacy.
  3. The libertarian response to issues like machine gambling may overlook the impact of external forces and fail to address the need for regulation.

People desperately want to believe lockdown was for the greater good - even when the evidence of manipulation is clear.

The Free Mind • 1611 implied HN points • 07 Mar 23
🏥 Health & Wellness Behavior
  1. People want to believe lockdown was for the greater good, even when evidence of manipulation is clear.
  2. Cognitive dissonance can make us deny, minimize, or rationalize uncomfortable truths.
  3. Lockdown may have influenced how people perceived the severity of Covid risk, based on government actions.

Bone Shard Collection #1

Living Fossils • 12 implied HN points • 18 Feb 26
🎭️ Culture Behavior
  1. Satiation explains why people stop in the moment, but long-term motivation is shaped by expectations, positive feedback, and getting used to outcomes, so success often raises the bar instead of ending desire.
  2. Price not only buys measurable quality but also sets social expectations and norms, so paying more gives you both better service and greater standing to demand higher standards.
  3. Wisdom usually comes late because what is "wise" depends on context and changing tradeoffs, so evolution didn’t hardwire one perfect rule and people learn over time which rules fit different situations.

Guest post: Goblins of Long Island

Disaffected Newsletter • 1618 implied HN points • 25 Aug 23
🎭️ Culture Behavior
  1. The author describes strange encounters with people who have unconventional appearances, creating a sense of discomfort.
  2. They feel isolated in their reactions, as if no one else notices the oddity of their surroundings.
  3. There's a deep sense of cultural disconnection, leading the author to feel like they are in a dystopian reality.

Sobering morning thoughts

Disaffected Newsletter • 1638 implied HN points • 12 Aug 23
🎭️ Culture Behavior
  1. Many people feel unhappy with how society just goes along with everything rather than questioning it. This can be really scary.
  2. There's a lot of frustration towards people who don't stand up against unfair authority. This lack of resistance leads to feelings of despair.
  3. The writer feels that many people, especially men, are too passive and afraid to challenge societal expectations. This makes them disappointed and angry.

On the responsibility of size

Trevor Klee’s Newsletter • 1641 implied HN points • 01 Feb 25
🎭️ Culture Behavior
  1. People can have different perceptions of a person based on their size. For example, a large person might be considered intimidating, even if they are friendly.
  2. This awareness of how others view them can be a burden and a blessing for someone who is large. They may adjust their behavior to avoid scaring people.
  3. If someone who is usually small suddenly became large, they might act differently, feeling more confident in using their size. However, that could lead to negative consequences if they don't understand the responsibilities that come with it.

The NPC Question 4: I Have No Mind and I Must Think

Egg Report • 1238 implied HN points • 25 Sep 23
🎭️ Culture Behavior
  1. The concept of 'NPC' explores a reported lack of internal monologue and the impact of social media on cognition and thinking processes.
  2. Engaging in social media performances like recording oneself and seeking validation may lead to weakening internal reflection and dependence on external validation.
  3. The use of smartphones and social media can contribute to a sense of brain damage, hindering genuine self-expression and promoting a cycle of self-performance and externalized thinking.

Are you being clear?

Disaffected Newsletter • 1338 implied HN points • 05 Sep 23
🎭️ Culture Behavior
  1. Clarity in communication is lacking more than ever today. Most people are not as clear as they used to be, and this hampers conversations.
  2. Many people are more self-centered now, assuming others can read their minds during discussions. This leads to vague communication that requires others to ask for clarity.
  3. To improve communication, it's helpful to provide complete information upfront and restate points to confirm understanding. Practicing this can make conversations smoother and more efficient.

We're Never Going to Feel Normal Again

OK Doomer • 633 implied HN points • 11 Jul 25
🎭️ Culture Behavior
  1. Many people would rather hurt themselves than sit alone with their thoughts. This shows how uncomfortable society has become with just being alone.
  2. The idea of 'normal' is changing, and the old normal might not have been as great as we thought. Now, many people feel pressured to act happy even if they aren't.
  3. Feeling weird is okay; it's a sign of being true to yourself. Instead of chasing after a fake sense of normalcy, embrace the uniqueness that comes with these times.

The Diderot Effect

The Ruffian • 589 implied HN points • 19 Jul 25
🎭️ Culture Behavior
  1. The Diderot Effect shows how buying one nice thing can lead to buying more things to match it. It starts a cycle of wanting more to feel complete.
  2. Some people feel happier and more confident after purchases that change their self-image, like getting new clothes or undergoing cosmetic surgery. It's like opening a door to new possibilities.
  3. It's important to allow for different views and mix beliefs without trying to fit perfectly into popular identity groups. We can create our own unique perspectives instead of just following the crowd.

Doomprompting Is the New Doomscrolling.

Working Theorys • 485 implied HN points • 10 Aug 25
🕹 Technology Behavior
  1. Doomprompting is when we get caught up in endless online prompts and conversations, leading to less deep thinking and creativity. It's like having a machine that constantly suggests ideas but takes away our ability to think for ourselves.
  2. AI tools can help with brainstorming and refining ideas, but they can't replace the core creative thinking that we need to do as humans. Relying too much on AI can weaken our own skills and thought processes.
  3. It's important to seek out tools and partnerships that encourage us to think deeply and struggle with ideas, rather than just making things easy or automatic. Building skills takes time and effort, so we need to balance technology use with personal growth.

Remedial phone etiquette

Disaffected Newsletter • 1438 implied HN points • 10 Aug 23
🎭️ Culture Behavior
  1. Making a phone call interrupts someone else's time, so you should always be polite when calling. Remember, you're asking for a favor.
  2. You should introduce yourself before asking the person on the other end to identify themselves. It's a simple matter of manners.
  3. Today, people don't always answer calls like they used to, so it's important to be respectful. The caller needs to justify interrupting the callee.