The hottest Marriage Substack posts right now

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Cremieux Recueil 253 implied HN points 02 Feb 24
  1. Before Loving v. Virginia in 1967, state laws banning interracial marriage were common in the U.S., stretching back to the 1600s.
  2. Since the legalization of interracial marriage, the rates have increased over time, showing a more mixed ethnoracial composition in America.
  3. Analysis of interracial marriage rates can provide insights into race relations, impact of societal movements like the 'Great Awokening,' and patterns of intermixing across different races and sexes.
Traditions of Conflict 13 implied HN points 10 Dec 24
  1. Polygyny often happens in societies where men benefit more than women. This means that men use these marriages to gain extra support from women rather than women wanting to share a wealthy man.
  2. The way marriages are arranged plays a big role in how common polygyny is. When marriages are forced or without much choice, more women end up in polygynous marriages.
  3. If women contribute a lot to family resources and marriages are very controlled, it's easier for polygyny to thrive. In contrast, if women have more say or choice in their marriages, polygyny tends to be less common.
Men Yell at Me 375 implied HN points 24 Jan 24
  1. Women are pressured to conform to rigid definitions of womanhood and gender roles.
  2. Societal expectations attempt to confine women to narrow standards for their appearance and behavior.
  3. Expanding the definition of womanhood to be inclusive and diverse provides freedom and challenges limiting beliefs.
The Recovering Academic 178 implied HN points 07 Nov 23
  1. Kao Kalia Yang, a Hmong American writer, intricately weaves personal and family stories within her writings, reflecting universal themes of love, loss, and resilience.
  2. Her memoir, 'Where Rivers Part,' delves deep into familial relationships, showcasing the complexity and struggles within marriages, maintaining cultural identity, and the impacts of war and diaspora.
  3. The book illustrates the power of storytelling in preserving memories, bridging generations, and offering solace to those who have experienced similar hardships and challenges.
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Sex and the State 27 implied HN points 24 Oct 24
  1. There are more people looking for traditional male breadwinners than there are available men who fit that role. This can create issues in relationships.
  2. The gap between what people expect in a husband and what they actually find might be affecting choices around dating and marriage today.
  3. Declining rates of marriage and fertility could be linked to the changing perceptions of masculinity and the roles men are expected to play in families.
Life and Letters 59 implied HN points 26 Mar 24
  1. Marriage in the past often involved complicated discussions about money and family, just like today. The way partners handle these issues can lead to tensions.
  2. People in earlier times were concerned about remarriage and family dynamics, especially due to high mortality rates. They thought about how relationships would impact their children in the future.
  3. Age played a significant role in marriage decisions. For example, marrying young was less common by the Elizabethan period, showing changing views on when to start a family.
Fake Noûs 312 implied HN points 30 Sep 23
  1. Skepticism and humor around the concept of marriage is common, but many people still take marriage vows seriously.
  2. Marriage serves important social functions like providing stable child-rearing environments and reducing social strife.
  3. Getting married can offer personal benefits like longevity, happiness, and financial savings, along with legal and social recognition.
Reactionary Feminist 39 implied HN points 16 Feb 24
  1. Valuable loyalty in difficult times can exist in unexpected places, challenging the idea of easy separations
  2. Real-life stories of relationship challenges can be rare and challenging to share publicly
  3. Acknowledging and celebrating loyalty and perseverance in relationships is essential, even if the circumstances seem unconventional
Who is Robert Malone 58 implied HN points 13 May 23
  1. The author describes feeling peaceful and content in the company of their lifelong partner during a drive from Simi Valley to LAX.
  2. The post is intended for paid subscribers only.
  3. The content revolves around love and the author's reflections on their loving marriage.
sweater weather 13 HN points 18 Apr 23
  1. The concept of the marriage plot has evolved over time in literature, reflecting shifts in societal norms and values.
  2. Certain men today exhibit characteristics reminiscent of those in traditional marriage plots, emphasizing wealth and status for the purpose of marriage.
  3. There is a connection between the traditional marriage plot, societal power dynamics, and the modern focus on relationships and material wealth.
Reactionary Feminist 27 implied HN points 09 Jul 23
  1. In the past, 'aunties' played a role in matchmaking and family formation, which seems more successful than modern dating methods.
  2. The decline of the 'auntie' role in society may have led to challenges in relationship formation and marriage survival stories.
  3. Efforts are being made to recreate an 'aunty-like' network for matchmaking and support in relationships, recognizing the need for social coordination.
The Shift With Sam Baker 3 HN points 18 Apr 24
  1. Many women in their mid-40s to late-50s are reconsidering their marriages, feeling unsure about spending the next decades as they are.
  2. In certain traditional marriages, the bulk of domestic and emotional labor falls on the women, leading to feelings of being overwhelmed and underappreciated.
  3. The decision to end a marriage is sometimes met with assumptions and judgments, like accusations of finding someone else, even when that isn't the case.
In My Tribe 9 HN points 02 Mar 24
  1. Being able to make and keep commitments is essential in a successful marriage, and conscientiousness can be developed through rewards, punishments, and exercises.
  2. Appreciating tradition, including religious rituals, can give significance to your marriage and family, making the journey more fulfilling.
  3. Agreeing on family size, having a stable neighborhood, and positive peer pressure towards marriage and children can all contribute to a strong and lasting marriage.
Perspectives 9 implied HN points 14 Mar 23
  1. Conscious renegotiation in a relationship involves discussing and setting clear expectations for shared responsibilities.
  2. Effective communication and continuous discussion are essential for maintaining a healthy and equitable partnership.
  3. Agreeing on ownership of tasks, avoiding complaints about how things are done, and revisiting responsibilities help in sustaining a balanced relationship.
Some Unpleasant Arithmetic 4 implied HN points 14 Feb 24
  1. Valentine's Day can spark arguments about marriage rates and fertility, especially concerning the decline in marriage rates due to changing expectations and financial disparities in relationships.
  2. Factors like higher education levels in women, financial independence, and changing societal norms are contributing to lower marriage rates and different relationship dynamics.
  3. Cultural influences, economic factors, and policy changes are impacting fertility rates and family structures, highlighting the need for more affordable childcare, housing, and supportive policies for families.
Indian Bronson 3 HN points 15 Feb 23
  1. People are having less sex and fewer children due to societal and cultural shifts.
  2. Increased female empowerment and choices are leading to fewer children being born despite the desire for more.
  3. The solution to the fertility crisis is not just about having sex, but prioritizing family formation and early marriage.
Harnessing the Power of Nutrients 0 implied HN points 24 Aug 11
  1. Non-monogamous cultures, like the Masai, come with unique social expectations and pressures that differ from monogamous societies.
  2. Polyamorous arrangements may not always lead to carefree relationships, as seen in the case of the Masai where jealousy and sharing spouses are significant challenges.
  3. The Masai society's emphasis on extensive sharing and avoidance of daughters sheds light on how non-monogamous social mores can impact family dynamics and relationships.