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The red shoes are never tired

rachaelmeager • 337 implied HN points • 25 Oct 24
🎭️ Culture Film analysis Community Impact Gender Dynamics
  1. Ambition can lead to unethical behavior, like stealing credit from others. It often happens in academic and artistic settings, and many don’t talk about it.
  2. A strong community is vital for good work. If a community is negative or toxic, it can affect the quality of the work, no matter how talented the individuals are.
  3. Chasing ambition often doesn’t lead to satisfaction. Even successful people can feel tired and unsatisfied, which shows that true contentment comes from more than just achievements.

The Ick List

Many Such Cases • 2877 implied HN points • 27 Aug 24
🎭️ Culture Relationships Emotions Social media Gender Dynamics
  1. Desire can be confusing and change quickly. People might feel attracted to someone one moment and then completely turned off the next because of small things.
  2. The feeling called 'the ick' can stop attraction suddenly for many, especially women, making it hard for them to stay interested in someone for minor reasons.
  3. Labeling minor annoyances as 'icks' can lead to unrealistic expectations in dating. It's often better to relax and not take these little things too seriously.

The Specific Catharsis of 'That Guy"

Culture Study • 7220 implied HN points • 13 Sep 23
🎭️ Culture Social Commentary Gender Dynamics Internet culture
  1. The TikTok filter 'That Guy' accurately portrays a specific type of man with entitlement issues.
  2. The filter highlights the dynamics between men and women, showing how some men view women as objects to possess.
  3. The meme provides catharsis by showcasing and ridiculing behaviors of 'That Guy' and shedding light on societal roles in enabling such behavior.

Gen Z’s Sexual Apocalypse. The Case for Marriage. And: Is It Time to Ditch the Apps?

Common Sense with Bari Weiss • 2207 implied HN points • 14 Feb 24
🎭️ Culture Dating Relationships Marriage Gender Dynamics Self-Improvement
  1. There is a growing political divide between young men veering right and women leaning left, complicating dating and relationships.
  2. Consider ditching dating apps and try more traditional methods like asking for setups from friends or striking conversations in real life.
  3. Getting married can lead to a happier, more prosperous, and more meaningful life, despite common myths about relationships and career choices.
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True Threats And American Cultural Gulfs

The Popehat Report • 3630 implied HN points • 27 Apr 23
🇺🇸 U.S. Politics Legal system First Amendment Free speech Gender Dynamics Supreme Court
  1. American society is diverse and faces challenges in applying legal standards like the reasonable person test across different cultures.
  2. Cultural context plays a significant role in determining what constitutes a true threat in First Amendment cases.
  3. To strike a balance between free speech and protection from threats, considering the intended audience's cultural context in true threats analysis could be a valuable approach.

Why Men Don't Date Woke Women

Handwaving Freakoutery • 803 implied HN points • 08 Aug 23
🎭️ Culture Dating Politics Morality Gender Dynamics Social movements
  1. Politics impacts the dating market, affecting who people choose to date based on their ideologies.
  2. There is a rise in people unwilling to date across political lines, leading to fewer marriages and dates.
  3. Woke morality dynamics and past events like the Kavanaugh trial have influenced dating decisions, particularly in avoiding woke women due to fear of false accusations.

Is there a Crisis of Masculinity?

The Great Gender Divergence • 373 implied HN points • 15 May 23
🎭️ Culture Masculinity Gender Equality Media influence Gender Dynamics Social Issues
  1. Misogyny is declining, and there is increased support for gender equality among young people worldwide.
  2. Modernization in patrilineal societies like China, Korea, and India has led to a crisis of incels due to imbalanced sex ratios.
  3. China's government is repressing female freedoms to address the issue of frustrated incels and social instability.

Guest post: Jenn Zuko

The Recovering Academic • 217 implied HN points • 28 Feb 23
🎭️ Culture Theater Academia Gender Dynamics
  1. The author reflects on the challenges faced as an adjunct theatre professor and the lack of recognition or support received after many years of service.
  2. The narrative highlights the profound impact of the decision to leave, detailing the mixed reactions and emotional moments during the announcement.
  3. Despite the author's anticipation of theatrical reactions to their resignation, the reality was met with unexpected, mostly silent responses during a faculty meeting.

Working for the 'King of Clubs’: My time at Stringfellow’s

London in Bits • 196 implied HN points • 22 May 23
🎭️ Culture Nightlife Gender Dynamics Work Environment Ethics Entertainment industry
  1. The working environment at Stringfellow's strip club was filled with intense competition and unethical practices among staff.
  2. The job entailed exploiting clients for money through various means like charging high prices for private dances and manipulating drink orders.
  3. Despite the allure of easy money, the work at the strip club led to a loss of self-identity and trust, highlighting the damaging effects of such environments.

The Librarians Are Not OK

The Recovering Academic • 158 implied HN points • 17 Oct 23
🚌 Education Gender Dynamics
  1. Librarians are facing challenges to their faculty status, impacting their professional identity and job security.
  2. Academic librarians, predominantly women, often experience deference behavior and lack of respect from teaching faculty, indicating deeper issues of misogyny.
  3. Deeper consideration is needed on whether all librarians in academia should hold faculty status to ensure equitable treatment and representation in governance structures.

Colleges have a boy problem

The Recovering Academic • 158 implied HN points • 11 Jul 23
🚌 Education Gender Dynamics Student Engagement Socialization
  1. Experts suggest that boys shy away from college due to issues like resistance to authority, feeling unwelcome, and societal pressures.
  2. Factors like socialization, lack of motivation for academic engagement, and fear of speaking up honestly in class contribute to the declining male enrollment in colleges.
  3. Alternative educational models, such as internships and direct links to employers, are being explored as potential solutions to engage young men in higher education.

There's Nothing to Rethink

Holodoxa • 99 implied HN points • 12 Sep 23
🎭️ Culture Feminism Sexuality Gender Dynamics
  1. History has shown bizarre alliances between radical feminists and social conservatives against libertine culture and pornography
  2. Challenges in gender politics have led to changes in feminist labels and goals, blurring the lines between Right and Left ideologies
  3. Criticism of modern sexual ethics argues that the emphasis on consent overlooks emotional and psychological impacts, specifically for women

Falling Asleep after Sex and Other Cosmic Problems

Painful Signs, Or, Joel's Substack • 39 implied HN points • 19 Jan 24
📚 Literature Classics Mythology Gender Dynamics Epic poetry Interpretation
  1. The scene of Zeus being seduced by Hera in the Iliad offers insights into divine cosmos, power dynamics, and themes of desire and limitations.
  2. The interaction between Zeus and Hera reflects on themes of succession, desire, and the disruption of divine order in the broader context of the Trojan War narrative.
  3. Comparisons between the Iliadic scene and the Homeric Hymn to Aphrodite highlight the serious undertones of desire and its impacts on gods and humans in cosmic narratives.

Chaos and Order

Polymathic Being • 59 implied HN points • 11 Feb 24
⛪ Faith & Spirituality Psychology Archetypes Gender Dynamics Balance Mythology
  1. Ancient archetypes depict the feminine as chaos and the masculine as order, challenging our bias towards masculine order.
  2. In psychology, the feminine is linked to creativity and intuition, representing chaos, while the masculine is associated with logic and structure, representing order.
  3. Balancing the feminine chaos and masculine order is crucial for creating antifragile systems and achieving a dynamic and flexible equilibrium.

Laboring in the Longhouse

The Carousel • 95 implied HN points • 23 Apr 23
🎭️ Culture Workplace dynamics Gender Dynamics Communication styles Social Interactions
  1. The modern office is like a 'longhouse' with open floor plans, emphasizing visibility and gossip among female coworkers.
  2. Women excel in the workplace due to their strength in indirect communication and attention to detail, symbolized by the tyranny of checkboxes.
  3. Certain women in mid-management roles embody a mix of femininity and masculine 'dread', enforcing the workplace culture with callousness and indirect tactics.

bro, where's my marriage plot

sweater weather • 13 HN points • 18 Apr 23
🎭️ Culture Literature Gender Dynamics Marriage Capitalism
  1. The concept of the marriage plot has evolved over time in literature, reflecting shifts in societal norms and values.
  2. Certain men today exhibit characteristics reminiscent of those in traditional marriage plots, emphasizing wealth and status for the purpose of marriage.
  3. There is a connection between the traditional marriage plot, societal power dynamics, and the modern focus on relationships and material wealth.

More evidence linking Evangelical Christianity with belief in female idiocy, etc.

Sex and the State • 10 implied HN points • 29 Feb 24
⛪ Faith & Spirituality Christianity Gender Dynamics
  1. The author discusses the belief in female idiocy and its connection to urban/rural divide, with Evangelical Christianity playing a role in the cycle.
  2. The concept of female brain drain is highlighted as a contributing factor to the urban/rural divide.
  3. Evidence supporting the theory of Evangelical Christianity's impact on gender pay gap is shared, reinforcing points made in previous parts.

Increasing collective intelligence

Klement on Investing • 3 implied HN points • 11 Mar 24
💼 Business Team Dynamics Hierarchy Collective Intelligence Gender Dynamics
  1. Collective intelligence of a team is more important than individual intelligence, and factors like emotional intelligence, team speaking behavior, and gender composition can enhance collective intelligence.
  2. Research suggests that team success hinges on 'collective attention,' wherein team members focus on shared goals rather than individual objectives, highlighting the significance of synchronized team efforts and equal contribution in meetings.
  3. Clear hierarchies in teams lead to higher levels of collective intelligence compared to flat hierarchies, as hierarchies reduce the need for constant status assertion and competition among team members, fostering better teamwork.

Both sexes have to be oppressed

Wood From Eden • 3 HN points • 08 Jan 24
🎭️ Culture Gender Dynamics Psychology Social relationships Science Evolutionary Psychology
  1. The book _Warriors and Worriers_ by Joyce Benenson presents the evolutionary psychology of men and women, highlighting how males and females differ in social interactions based on prosocial and antisocial behaviors.
  2. Females compete covertly for resources, leading to social exclusion and the need to show vulnerabilities to build alliances with unrelated women.
  3. Gender equality means equal opportunities for individuals to surpass their natural tendencies and work towards societal advancement.

BREAKING NEWS (that isn’t depressing or scary): My new book, Think Again

Granted • 19 implied HN points • 07 Oct 20
🚌 Education Psychology Self-Improvement Social Skills Gender Dynamics
  1. 2020 has forced us to reconsider our beliefs and be open to challenging our thoughts.
  2. Thinking like scientists seeking truth can help us cultivate the humility to accept we don't know everything and adapt to changes.
  3. Learning to sit with cognitive dissonance can be crucial for personal growth and evolution.

Is it worth it for women to go to medical school?

Penelope Trunk's Substack • 0 implied HN points • 09 Aug 22
🏥 Health & Wellness Medicine Work-life balance Gender Dynamics Career Choices
  1. Financially, going to medical school may not be worth it for women due to factors like part-time work and difficulty balancing job demands and family responsibilities.
  2. Part-time schedules in medicine can undermine support for the second spouse and disrupt the family's division of labor, impacting overall family dynamics.
  3. Leaving work entirely might be a better choice for women balancing professional work and family responsibilities, as part-time work can lead to identity loss and weak ties in both areas.