Perspectives

The 'Perspectives' Substack melds insightful reflections and advice across tech, leadership, and parenthood, focusing on growth, effective communication, and balancing professional and personal life. It leverages personal anecdotes, data-driven insights, and strategic approaches to navigating challenges in career development, happiness, and relationship management.

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Top posts of the year

And their main takeaways

Drawing the Cancer Card

20 implied HN points • 06 Feb 25
🏥 Health & Wellness Screening Health Education Patient Experience
  1. Getting regular health screenings, like mammograms, is really important for early detection of diseases like cancer. A friend's encouragement made a big difference in taking that step.
  2. Cancer is not just one illness but over 200 different types. Understanding this complexity is important for awareness and prevention.
  3. Facing a cancer diagnosis can feel like a game of chance, where each medical visit reveals new information. It's crucial to focus on the present and deal with what you know, rather than worrying about what might come next.

How Your Mindset Determines Your Course

10 implied HN points • 19 Dec 24
🚌 Education Mindset Learning Growth Parenting Motivation
  1. Your mindset can shape your experiences and outcomes. Believing that you can learn and improve helps you tackle challenges better.
  2. Praising effort, rather than innate intelligence, encourages persistence and a love for learning in kids. It's better to focus on hard work rather than just being 'smart.'
  3. Changing how you view your abilities is key. When you stop seeing things as fixed and treat them as skills to develop, you open up more opportunities to grow.

Beyond What's Next

9 implied HN points • 23 Jan 25
🎭️ Culture Lifestyle Family Personal Growth Work-life balance Mindfulness
  1. Taking time off can help you figure out what you really want in life. It's okay to embrace nothingness and let your mind wander.
  2. Life isn't just about being busy; it's valuable to simply enjoy moments with family and friends. Sometimes doing nothing leads to meaningful experiences.
  3. Having space in your schedule allows for spontaneity and connection. Not every moment needs to be planned out to be meaningful.

5 Steps to Take Back Power in Your Career

8 implied HN points • 12 Dec 24
💼 Business Career development Entrepreneurship Personal Branding Networking Product Management
  1. Don't wait for the perfect job. Instead, focus on making the most of the position you have and use it to build skills and connections.
  2. Follow your interests and share what you learn. You don’t have to be an expert to teach others; sharing your journey can resonate more with people.
  3. Be consistent in showing up and sharing your thoughts. Building your personal brand is about being true to yourself and expressing your values regularly.

Looking Back and Looking Ahead

8 implied HN points • 15 Jan 25
💼 Business Leadership Innovation Culture Personal Growth Technology
  1. Ancestry helps people discover their family stories and create connections. They have made it easier for many to explore their heritage and find personal connections through their platform.
  2. The author enjoyed building a company culture and connecting with team members through shared experiences. They valued discussions and ideas, which led to new products that benefited customers.
  3. The author is taking a break for personal health and family reasons, while continuing to document their own family's history. They believe in the importance of legacy, both in work and family.
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The Anti-Brand-Builder’s Guide to Building Your Brand

8 implied HN points • 21 Nov 24
💼 Business Branding Marketing Personal Development Entrepreneurship Content creation
  1. Think of your life story in just a few words. Writing a six-word biography helps you see the key points of your journey and values.
  2. Identify what you’re really good at. Everyone has a unique skill, or 'superpower,' that they can share, and recognizing this can help you define yourself better.
  3. Start small by sharing what you know. You don’t need to do big things right away; even a simple social media post can be a good first step.

How to Say No

6 implied HN points • 30 Oct 24
🏥 Health & Wellness Mental health Self-care Personal Growth Productivity Work-life balance
  1. It’s important to say 'no' to things that don’t align with your goals. By doing this, you can focus on what truly matters to you.
  2. Making space for others is key. When you overcommit, you might be stopping others from growing and taking on challenges.
  3. Celebrating your achievements helps combat feelings of not doing enough. Keeping a list of what you're proud of can remind you of your contributions.

Getting Out of Your Own Way

6 implied HN points • 09 Jan 25
🏥 Health & Wellness Personal Growth Coaching Mindset Self-help Psychology
  1. Your past experiences, especially from childhood, can shape how you see yourself and your abilities. Understanding this can help you unlock your true potential.
  2. Instead of giving direct advice, it's important to help people discover their own solutions. This can lead to powerful realizations about how to move forward.
  3. We often hold ourselves back by repeating negative thought patterns. Changing how we think can open up new possibilities and help us achieve success.

Networking in the Real World

6 implied HN points • 24 Oct 24
💼 Business Networking Career development Entrepreneurship Leadership Job Market
  1. Networking is really important before you need it. If you start connecting with people early, they'll be more likely to help you when you need a job or advice later.
  2. It's helpful to focus on quality over quantity in networking. Building close relationships within trusted communities will make it easier to ask for help in tough times.
  3. If you haven't built your network yet and need help, don't be afraid to reach out. Even acquaintances can connect you with others who might help, so just ask!

Breaking Free from Perfectionism

5 implied HN points • 13 Feb 25
🏥 Health & Wellness Mental health Self-Improvement Parenting Psychology Life lessons
  1. Perfectionism can cause a lot of anxiety and stress. It's not about doing things perfectly but about finding faults and feeling never good enough.
  2. To overcome perfectionism, it's important to embrace failure. Learning from mistakes helps you grow and builds resilience.
  3. Recovering from perfectionism means accepting that it's okay to be imperfect. It's about forgiving yourself and finding balance in life, rather than rigidly following rules.

Finding Your Pace

5 implied HN points • 13 Jun 25
  1. Belief plays a huge role in how we see ourselves and others. Sometimes, people will think you're great just because you're always there, even if you don't feel that way.
  2. Growing and learning often means stepping back and letting others take the lead. It's important to know when to support instead of being in the spotlight.
  3. Life changes our roles over time. Sometimes we lead, and sometimes we cheer from behind. The key is to keep showing up for those who matter in our lives.

Adding Not Subtracting: What Leaving 90% of Our Things Behind Taught Me About Life

5 implied HN points • 30 Jan 25
🎭️ Culture Life lessons Minimalism Family Moving Psychology
  1. Leaving behind a lot of things can make you feel freer and help you understand what you truly need. It's surprising how much stuff we hold onto that we don't really use.
  2. Moving quickly forces you to focus on essentials instead of getting distracted by all your accumulated things. Sometimes, the rush can make decisions clearer.
  3. Instead of thinking about what to get rid of, it can be helpful to think about what really adds value to your life. This shift in thinking can change how you view your belongings.

Ten Ways You Can Use New Year’s Resolutions to Change Your Life

4 implied HN points • 01 Jan 25
🏥 Health & Wellness Fitness Nutrition Personal Growth Mental health Lifestyle
  1. Start by imagining your future success. Write down your goals and what it feels like to achieve them. This will keep you motivated and focused on your resolutions.
  2. Set realistic and specific goals that you can actually accomplish. Instead of aiming for something huge, break it down into smaller, manageable steps that you can achieve regularly.
  3. Find someone to support you on your journey. Having an accountability partner can greatly increase your chances of sticking to your goals.

Five Easy Ways to Declutter Your Life

4 implied HN points • 29 May 25
🏥 Health & Wellness Mental health Lifestyle Self-care Organization Personal Growth
  1. To regain control over your space, you need to confront your clutter and let go of things that no longer serve you. It's important to recognize that holding onto too much can lead to stress and chaos instead of comfort.
  2. Decluttering is more about a change in mindset than just organizing your belongings. By letting go of items that hold sentimental value but don't fit your current life, you can create room for new opportunities.
  3. It's key to have a specific place for everything to help everyone in the house find and put things back easily. This prevents piles of forgotten items from building up and brings order to your living space.

Say It Out Loud

4 implied HN points • 05 Jun 25
🎭️ Culture Communication Relationships Self-Improvement Leadership Appreciation
  1. It's important to express appreciation to people. Saying nice things out loud can strengthen connections and make others feel valued.
  2. We should thank those who have helped us in our journey, even if it's been a long time. It reminds them—and us—how meaningful their support was.
  3. Letting others hear praise or good comments about them helps build trust and shows we appreciate their efforts. It can create a positive work environment.