bad cattitude • 315 implied HN points • 05 Feb 25
- Some people manipulate others by pretending to be fragile or hurt. This can make it hard for others to say no, even when they should.
- Over time, people start to notice when they are being used, which can lead to a breakdown in these manipulative tactics. The strategy stops working as people become less sympathetic.
- It's okay to not fix everyone's problems or feel guilty for their struggles. Recognizing this helps protect your own well-being.