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Links to Consider, 2/13

In My Tribe • 182 implied HN points • 13 Feb 24
🚌 Education Beliefs Institutions Parenting Schools Reform
  1. Individuals may prioritize social rewards over truth in belief adoption, leading to collective delusions. It's hard to overcome irrationality at the individual or group level, so focusing on institutional change is crucial.
  2. There is a pattern in how some view different races, depicted by Coleman Hughes in his book. This mirrors the concept of the Moral Dyad, simplifying moral situations to assign feelings or agency.
  3. Challenges in education include the negative impact of excessive parental spending on education. To promote equality, the idea of a luxury estate tax on high-tuition schools was proposed years ago and still holds potential.

The Week In Recommendations 10.18.23

Rich Text • 746 implied HN points • 18 Oct 23
🎭️ Culture Literature Fashion Podcasts Parenting
  1. Claire and Emma share their book recommendations, including favorites like 'Love Your Life' and 'The Custom Of The Country.'
  2. Emma finds solace in newsletters and essays that address social issues, advocating for involvement in keeping others safe.
  3. Claire and Emma discuss their recent TV and podcast interests, from 'Love Is Blind' to 'Heavyweight' and 'Bachelor In Retrospect.'
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A Game About Bad Dates Is Also About Parents and Children Trying (And Failing) to Understand Each Other

Crossplay • 294 implied HN points • 11 Jan 24
🎨 Art & Illustration Video Games Parenting Immigration Personal experiences
  1. Game 'Thirsty Suitors' explores parents and children connecting through gaming.
  2. The game reflects the creator's personal experiences with parenting his own kids and caring for his parents.
  3. As a game developer, juggling parenting and work life balance is a challenge.

Why has Fertility Plummeted? Insights from Hong Kong

The Great Gender Divergence • 196 implied HN points • 04 Feb 24
🏥 Health & Wellness Fertility Parenting Research
  1. Conservatives blame over-educated women, progressives highlight women's burdens for declining fertility.
  2. Men's desire for children is decreasing due to endless opportunities for entertainment and heavy expectations in parenting.
  3. In ultra competitive East Asia like Hong Kong, one child is increasingly viewed as sufficient due to the educational arms race.

Links to Consider

In My Tribe • 258 implied HN points • 14 Jan 24
🚌 Education Parenting
  1. Emily Oster discusses a reader's second thoughts on parenting.
  2. Lorenzo Warby examines the issue of accountability in democracies.
  3. Dan Williams explores the dynamics of human cooperation and social networks.

Fathers and Sons (Part One)

The Recovering Academic • 277 implied HN points • 09 Jan 24
📚 Literature Memoir Fatherhood Masculinity Parenting High School
  1. The author reflects on the unique challenges and responsibilities of raising a son, highlighting the lack of stories and guidance on fatherhood from the men in his family and the need to redefine masculinity for his own children.
  2. The author shares a personal memory of a conversation about fatherhood that left a lasting impact, underscoring the importance of acknowledging and understanding the emotional depth of fatherhood.
  3. The author describes a moment of internal conflict between traditional models of fatherhood and the nurturing guidance he believes his children need, emphasizing the importance of evolving and adapting as a parent.

And the Mominees Are...

Momspreading • 216 implied HN points • 23 Jan 24
🎭️ Culture Film Podcasts Art Literature Parenting
  1. 2023 was highlighted as the year of movie moms with fascinating portrayals in films.
  2. Different movies showcased diverse and complex mother characters, ranging from divisive to delightful to horrifying.
  3. Variety of emotions and elements like guilt, forgiveness, and growth were depicted in the films, providing a unique perspective on motherhood.

Anxieties about kids and screen time, train vs. submarine movies, crime-novel recommendations, and other questions

Read Max • 928 implied HN points • 25 Aug 23
🎭️ Culture Literature Film Tech Parenting
  1. The writer discusses concerns about raising kids with technology, highlighting the importance of setting boundaries and modeling healthy behaviors.
  2. Submarine movies and train movies are compared, with a humorous take on cinematic transportation in films.
  3. The intersection of AI, writing, and labor is explored, emphasizing the social aspect of writing and the potential impacts of AI on the craft.

Childhood Roundup #2

thezvi • 1562 implied HN points • 11 Apr 23
🚌 Education Parenting Learning Admissions
  1. Child care is becoming more regulated and expensive, making it challenging for parents to afford quality child care.
  2. Parents are facing challenges in allowing their children to play and be independent due to strict regulations and societal fears.
  3. The education system is facing criticisms for ineffective techniques, pushing unnecessary pressure on students, and focusing more on signaling than actual education.

Why I'm Working Three Days A Week | #257

Boundless by Paul Millerd • 118 implied HN points • 17 Feb 24
🏥 Health & Wellness Wellness Parenting Work-life balance Self-care Family
  1. Working a 3-day week can be fulfilling and productive, even when balancing full-time childcare.
  2. Experimenting with unconventional work structures can lead to unexpected growth and satisfaction.
  3. Prioritizing personal values and creativity over traditional work models can lead to a more rewarding and fulfilling life.

Katherine Goldstein on how to make friends as an adult

Evil Witches Newsletter • 1041 implied HN points • 07 Jul 23
🏥 Health & Wellness Friendship Alcohol Time management Parenting Relationships
  1. Making friends as an adult can be challenging, especially after significant life changes.
  2. Factors like changing relationship with alcohol, lack of time for social activities, and difficulty connecting at kid-focused events can impact adult friendships.
  3. Tips for building friendships include staying in touch, setting reasonable goals, and embracing vulnerability.

Do Ten Times as Much

Bet On It • 1132 implied HN points • 13 Jun 23
🚌 Education Learning Effort Parenting Achievement Goals
  1. Success often requires ten times more effort than what is considered normal.
  2. Quality practice matters, but putting in ten times the effort is crucial for fluency in skills or knowledge.
  3. Prioritize your goals and focus on a few, putting in ten times more effort to increase your chances of success.

cool story, dad

moontower: a stoner dad explains options trading to his kids • 117 implied HN points • 11 Feb 24
🚌 Education Parenting Mathematics Investing Personal Growth Learning
  1. Kids often learn from their parents through modeling and osmosis rather than direct instruction.
  2. Teaching someone else's child may sometimes be more effective in imparting knowledge and lessons.
  3. Finding learning moments in everyday activities or tailored to a child's interests can help them grasp concepts effectively and make the lessons their own.

Le couple et l’argent : Pourquoi les hommes sont plus riches que les femmes ?

L'Atelier Galita • 334 implied HN points • 20 Oct 23
🏥 Health & Wellness Gender Equality Financial Literacy Relationships Empowerment Parenting
  1. The gender wealth gap can start from childhood with differences in pocket money and how boys and girls are taught to manage money.
  2. Couples often have unequal financial dynamics, with women shouldering more unpaid domestic work and facing financial vulnerabilities during and after relationships.
  3. It's important for women to prioritize financial independence, have open conversations about money, and be aware of economic abuse in relationships.

The Secret Language of Asian Tiger Parents

Val's Pals • 117 implied HN points • 17 Jan 24
🎭️ Culture Parenting
  1. The post discusses the experience of being a high-achieving Asian student and the pressure it puts on others.
  2. It highlights the tactics employed by Asian parents to ensure their children succeed.
  3. The importance of strategic secrecy and withholding information to maintain a competitive edge is emphasized.

Crossplay Mailbag: "Is Nintendo's Awful Online Setup Actually Great For Kids?"

Crossplay • 746 implied HN points • 02 Jun 23
🕹 Technology Gaming Online Services Parenting Video Games
  1. Kids may easily switch between different games and videos, affecting their level of commitment to a particular game
  2. Parents appreciate the strict controls of Nintendo's online setup for kids playing multiplayer games
  3. Introducing games to children can be influenced by personal values and the desire to guide the child's exposure in a positive way

Strip-Mining Children

Reactionary Feminist • 34 implied HN points • 16 Mar 24
🏥 Health & Wellness Children's Health Ethics Parenting Gender identity Medical Ethics
  1. Some argue for allowing everyone, including children, unrestricted freedom to modify their sexed appearance, claiming it as a fundamental right.
  2. The concept of normophobia pushes for a war on normalized societal patterns, particularly targeting children for exploitation in the name of individual freedom.
  3. Challenges arise when trying to balance individual freedom with the need for limits and guidance, especially in the context of children's development and well-being.

Friday Q&A: dismissed by doctors; ADHD vs. inattention; vaccines before visiting baby; & osteoporosis meds

Are You Okay? • 519 implied HN points • 23 Jun 23
🏥 Health & Wellness Wellness Mental health Parenting
  1. Medical tests may not always show the full extent of a person's suffering. It's important to communicate to your doctor how your symptoms impact your daily life.
  2. Distinguishing between normal inattention and ADHD can be tricky. Look for consistent patterns of behavior and consider seeking professional advice if unsure.
  3. Advocating for yourself and ensuring your story is heard in medical settings is crucial. Ask questions, seek clarity, and don't hesitate to communicate your concerns.

Spare rooms

quite useless • 314 implied HN points • 04 Sep 23
🎭️ Culture Literature Travel Food & Drink Parenting Music
  1. The author finds glamour in solitude and imagination while living in a spare, retro space.
  2. The town of Lewes, DE offers historical charm, convenience, and good dining options in a small setting.
  3. The author enjoys simple pleasures like turkey sandwiches and interacting with locals at a beachside restaurant.