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My Birthday Gangbang

Knowingless • 15 HN points • 01 Mar 24
🎭️ Culture Sexuality Events Experience Organizing Survey
  1. Despite societal pressures and fears, the author faced their anxieties to explore sexual adventures and gangbang experiences.
  2. Organizing a large orgy event involved significant planning, including safety measures like STI testing and logistics like condom distribution.
  3. Men who attended the gangbang reported positive experiences, with some facing challenges in maintaining arousal due to the unusual setup.

Sympathy for the Devils

Banana Peel Pirouette • 59 implied HN points • 28 Oct 23
🎭️ Culture Gender Sexuality Community Identity Social Issues
  1. Terfs, or trans-exclusionary radical feminists, are a controversial group largely existing online and in digital spaces.
  2. The evolution of LGBTQ+ movements has caused divisions, particularly among lesbians, about the definition and inclusivity of the term 'lesbian.'
  3. Culture wars often revolve around defining social realities, such as sexuality, and establishing acceptable boundaries for personal identities.
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The Dirty Blues

Mister Slang • 78 implied HN points • 12 Jul 23
🎭️ Culture Music History Literature Fiction Sexuality
  1. Blues singers used slang and double entendre in their music, often pushing the boundaries of decency.
  2. The blues offered a raw and honest perspective on life, focusing on the present rather than the afterlife.
  3. The dirty blues genre included explicit lyrics and was sometimes intertwined with hokum, a mix of trickery and nonsense.

The Longhousing of Sexiest Man Alive

The Carousel • 14 implied HN points • 20 Dec 23
🎭️ Culture Celebrity Beauty Society Sexuality
  1. The concept of 'Sexiest Man Alive' has shifted to a more neutered and sexless portrayal of male celebrities.
  2. The Longhouse ideology influences societal beauty standards, promoting weakness over traditional masculinity.
  3. The evolving criteria for 'sexiness' may lead to a lack of real sexual attraction and potentially impact human reproduction over time.

Liberals are bad at BDSM

Unstabler Ontology • 19 implied HN points • 06 Oct 23
🎭️ Culture Sexuality Psychology Sociology Trauma Gender
  1. BDSM is becoming more common and prevalent, making it challenging for individuals who do not wish to engage in it to find compatible sexual partners.
  2. Understanding BDSM requires a departure from liberal individualistic views, as it contradicts microeconomics and challenges traditional notions of consent and freedom.
  3. Some aspects of BDSM culture imitate elements of traumatic experiences and call into question societal norms regarding power dynamics and sexual acceptance.

Autogynephilia and the Sexualization of Shame

Year Zero • 46 implied HN points • 12 May 23
🏥 Health & Wellness Mental health Psychology Sexuality Therapy Identity
  1. Autogynephilia involves a separation of gender identity from sexual desire which can lead to repression and shame.
  2. Autogynephilia can be a coping mechanism for deep-rooted shame and self-loathing in individuals.
  3. Individuals struggling with autogynephilia may use sexual fantasies as a way to escape from underlying core shame and pain.

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Journal of Gurdjieff Studies • 19 implied HN points • 11 Aug 23
⛪ Faith & Spirituality Philosophy Spiritual Practices Sexuality
  1. Sex plays a significant role in human life, acting as the principal driving force of mechanicalness, but the abuse of sex lies in the wrong function of centers and the borrowing of energy.
  2. Creating a permanent center of gravity is crucial for self-work, starting with valuing the work, school, and understanding the aimlessness of other aspects of life.
  3. The sex center, when functioning with its own energy, can be at a high level of being, ensuring that all other centers operate correctly in their places and with their own energies.

Loki, Gender, and Sexuality in Norse Society

Norse Mythology & Germanic Lore • 1 HN point • 22 Dec 23
🎭️ Culture Mythology Gender Sexuality Society History
  1. Loki in Norse mythology is often portrayed as a man who engages in behavior considered unmanly, particularly highlighted by the insult 'ergi'.
  2. Norse society had rigid gender roles and expectations, with certain actions, like being accused of 'ergi', leading to severe consequences.
  3. While Loki is known to shapeshift into a woman on occasion, the majority of his appearances and actions in the myths are as a man, and he is referenced with male pronouns predominantly.

Is Bisexuality a Political Statement?

Data Taboo • 5 implied HN points • 10 May 23
🇺🇸 U.S. Politics Sexuality Gender Ideology Culture Statistics
  1. A surge of young women have identified as bisexual post-2016 election but only have sex with men.
  2. Statistics suggest bisexual women truly are attracted to other women, but there are more men available in the dating pool.
  3. Liberal young women in college often identify as LGBT, creating a dating pool where gender ratios may impact partner preferences.

Unpacking The "Gen Z" Mental Health Crisis

The Missing Data Depot • 3 implied HN points • 24 Jul 23
🏥 Health & Wellness Mental health Gender Sexuality Education
  1. Conservatism and participation in core institutions like marriage, church, and the military are linked to better mental health, but Gen Z is moving away from these beliefs and behaviors.
  2. There is a surge in media coverage and concern about mental health issues among young people, with Gen Z showing a significant decline in mental well-being compared to previous generations.
  3. Factors like gender, sexual orientation, church attendance, marital status, education, military service, and social media use play similar roles in mental health perceptions for both Gen Z and older generations.

Queer Identity's Online Spotlight Overcoming Society's Shadow

Dilemmas of Meaning • 3 implied HN points • 01 Jun 23
🎭️ Culture Identity Technology Community Sexuality Social media
  1. Queer people have turned to online spaces for refuge and representation due to societal barriers and prejudice
  2. Social Cognitive Theory (SCT) explains how queer identities are constructed through modeling, enacted experience, and direct tuition
  3. Online spaces provide essential support for queer individuals in terms of sex-ed, identity exploration, and community building

We're on a break

Sex and the State • 0 implied HN points • 19 Mar 24
⛪ Faith & Spirituality Relationships Self-worth Sexuality
  1. The author is taking a break from writing to spend time with family, so readers can check out older posts in the meantime
  2. The posts recommended to read are about love, relationships, and men's issues related to porn
  3. The newsletter focuses on human connection, self-improvement through relationships, and destigmatizing sex

Chances are your date will never call you again!

Links I Would Gchat You If We Were Friends • 0 implied HN points • 09 Oct 14
🎭️ Culture Social media Big Data Sexuality Food Technology
  1. Social media serves as a modern autobiography for many individuals, showcasing personal journeys and struggles.
  2. Big data originated as an experimental concept with socialist intentions in 1970s Chile.
  3. There is a significant presence of couples documenting and sharing their sexual experiences on public platforms like Tumblr.

Pro-Sex Work Advocacy as a Form of Doomerism

The 21st Century Proletarian • 0 implied HN points • 07 Sep 22
🎭️ Culture Activism Feminism Sexuality Social Issues Gender Studies
  1. Exchanging sex for money is a controversial topic, often leading to intense political debates.
  2. Liberal feminists may prioritize sex industry workers at the expense of the marginalized, influenced by capitalist realism.
  3. To tackle issues in the sex industry, reducing demand and moving away from capitalism are crucial goals.

From Rights to Pride to OnlyFans

martymac • 0 implied HN points • 19 Mar 23
🎭️ Culture Sexuality Identity Social Issues Psychology Pornography
  1. Gay rights evolved from legal battles to encompass sexual identity and pride, influencing societal concepts of sexuality.
  2. The concept of 'gay' shifted from behaviors to internal desires, leading to external manifestations through events like Pride but not necessarily involving sexual actions.
  3. The evolution of sexual identity towards a subjective, internal experience has influenced trends like higher porn use and the concept of sexual identity without the physical act of sex.

Midlife Crisis? Start a Social Sex Revolution.

The Intersection • 0 implied HN points • 21 Mar 23
🏥 Health & Wellness Sexuality Career Fear Values
  1. Preparing for a midlife crisis involves saving money to have the financial freedom to pursue new opportunities.
  2. Discovering your calling early in your career can help develop the conviction needed for a successful second act.
  3. Designing your own system, guided by your core values, can help overcome fear and lead to happiness in pursuing new ventures.