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Can We Escape from Ourselves?

Fake Noûs • 212 implied HN points • 16 Aug 25
📖 Philosophy Self-reflection
  1. Sometimes, no matter where we go or what we change in our lives, we still end up facing the same issues within ourselves. It’s tough to escape from our own minds and thoughts.
  2. We can find temporary relief from our problems through engaging activities or distractions, but these are often short-lived. Eventually, we have to confront our feelings again.
  3. Accepting the parts of ourselves we don't like might not bring happiness, but it can be a first step toward understanding that everyone struggles with similar issues. We might not change completely, but we can learn to manage our feelings better.

The Gulf and the Silence

The Abbey of Misrule • 641 implied HN points • 26 Jan 25
⛪ Faith & Spirituality Self-reflection
  1. When the power goes out, life changes a lot. People talk more and do things differently without all the gadgets.
  2. Going without electricity made one family reflect on what they gained and lost with technology. It brought a calm, slower pace to their lives.
  3. Experiencing silence can reveal new rhythms in life, making people appreciate simple moments like reading books and sitting by the fire.

Smarter thinking in everyday life

Brain Pizza • 662 implied HN points • 16 Jan 25
🏥 Health & Wellness Self-reflection
  1. Understanding how your brain works helps you deal with daily problems better. This means recognizing your own thinking patterns can improve your decision-making.
  2. By knowing common biases and habits, you can improve how you think and behave. This helps you make better choices and reach your goals more effectively.
  3. Small changes in your thinking can lead to big improvements in life. Using these insights helps you shape your actions and make smarter decisions daily.

A Letter To Your Mind

Insight Axis • 355 implied HN points • 10 Dec 23
⛪ Faith & Spirituality Self-reflection
  1. The mind has been a loyal companion, shaping thoughts and feelings to guide us through life.
  2. The journey towards the true essence of the Self requires letting go of attachments to the mind.
  3. Despite parting ways with the mind, it remains an integral part of the infinite and eternal essence.
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Dangerous or Beautiful

Less Foolish • 432 implied HN points • 05 Jun 23
⛪ Faith & Spirituality Self-reflection
  1. Running can help shift your mindset from overthinking to getting things done efficiently.
  2. Being truthful in your self-reflection and writing helps cut through illusions and connect with your inner spirit.
  3. Engaging in communal practices like Collective Journalling and Collective Inquiry can lead to beautiful insights and connections with others.

Cosmic Game

Seven Senses • 259 implied HN points • 06 Jan 24
📖 Philosophy Self-reflection
  1. Entering a new year can bring excitement and a sense of renewal. It's important to embrace the feeling of possibility without holding onto specific expectations.
  2. Life is a mix of experiences, both good and bad. Instead of labeling years as 'hard' or 'good', it's better to appreciate the in-between moments that make up our daily lives.
  3. Showing up with clarity and hope while letting go of control can lead to a more fulfilling year. Embrace life's surprises and focus on your intentions without strict plans.

Dissecting a Case of Imposter Syndrome

Software Design: Tidy First? • 1612 implied HN points • 02 Feb 24
🎶 Music Self-reflection
  1. Imposter Syndrome can make you doubt your own abilities, even when others appreciate your work.
  2. Challenging negative thoughts and focusing on the evidence of your success can help overcome Imposter Syndrome.
  3. Exploring underlying reasons like past experiences or fears can provide insights into dealing with Imposter Syndrome.

Sick season

Vague Blue • 319 implied HN points • 27 Nov 23
🏥 Health & Wellness Self-reflection
  1. Illness can bring about profound spiritual changes and reveal undiscovered aspects of ourselves.
  2. Facing and accepting the inevitability of illness is an essential part of life, despite the tendency to avoid or deny it.
  3. Personal writing that delves into fears, struggles, and experiences can offer wisdom and insight, resonating deeply with readers.

Stories we tell ourselves

Sunday Letters • 39 implied HN points • 30 Jun 24
🎭️ Culture Self-reflection
  1. Understanding your personal challenges can change how you see yourself. Recognizing a condition like ADHD or Tourette's allows you to reframe your story from weakness to strength.
  2. Everyone has stories about their abilities that may not be true. Instead of saying "I'm bad at math," think of what you're really good at instead.
  3. The way we tell ourselves stories shapes our lives. By being aware of our thoughts, we can rewrite our narratives to be kinder and more helpful.

From Clouds To Clarity

Insight Axis • 355 implied HN points • 01 Oct 23
🏥 Health & Wellness Self-reflection
  1. Thoughts emerge from your subconscious in their own time, without force.
  2. Even simple thoughts can take time to become clear and actionable.
  3. Feelings of unease and vagueness should be embraced, as they can lead to clarity and meaningful direction.

To my parents

benn.substack • 1968 implied HN points • 30 Jun 23
🏥 Health & Wellness Self-reflection
  1. The author reflects on how work took them away from their parents over ten years.
  2. Despite the distractions, the author acknowledges their parents' unwavering support.
  3. The author expresses gratitude to their parents for years of sacrifices and love.

Beautiful Disasters

Both Are True • 1509 implied HN points • 24 Oct 23
🏥 Health & Wellness Self-reflection
  1. The author explores their struggles with addiction and the search for meaning in life.
  2. The search for belief and longing for faith are central themes in the author's journey.
  3. The story reflects on past mistakes, growth, and finding a sense of meaning among chaos.

The Encyclopedia of Happiness

Why is this interesting? • 1930 implied HN points • 06 Jun 23
🏥 Health & Wellness Self-reflection
  1. Practicing gratitude journaling can help shift your focus to the positive and enhance self-understanding over time.
  2. Keeping a digital record of daily reflections allows for easy access, searchability, and deep self-reflection.
  3. Discovering consistent patterns of joy in your past can inform present and future decisions towards a happier life.

Weathering Storms

Seven Senses • 259 implied HN points • 21 Oct 23
⛪ Faith & Spirituality Self-reflection
  1. Finding stillness can help us stay calm during chaos. When we pause and breathe, we can clear our minds and think better.
  2. Reactions based on fear or judgment can trap us in negative cycles. Taking a moment to reflect allows us to respond more wisely.
  3. Meditation and being present are powerful tools for navigating life's storms. They help us reconnect with ourselves and find inner peace.

Losing All My Excuses

Sounds Good! • 157 implied HN points • 09 Jan 24
🏥 Health & Wellness Self-reflection
  1. At a young age, the author used drinking as a form of distraction and coping mechanism.
  2. The author reflects on their drinking problem and how it made them feel invincible and bulletproof.
  3. Reflecting on the past, the author acknowledges the privilege and anxiety associated with their drinking habits.

Reflection #1

Venture Prose • 259 implied HN points • 06 Aug 23
🏥 Health & Wellness Self-reflection
  1. Reflecting on past decisions and mistakes during summer is essential for personal growth and learning.
  2. Summer is a time to appreciate the people and moments that bring joy and gratitude in life.
  3. Finding a balance between staying connected and unplugging during summer is key to maintaining mental well-being.

Index Cards

Nice Try • 2 HN points • 14 Sep 24
📚 Literature Self-reflection
  1. To improve your novel, read it all the way through first. This helps you see what you have written and decide what changes to make next.
  2. Using index cards to summarize each chapter is a great way to organize your thoughts. You can easily see where new ideas might fit or what's missing.
  3. Set aside time to focus on your writing, but also take breaks. This space can help clear your mind and give you fresh ideas when you return.

2023 Mid Year Review

Val's Pals • 216 implied HN points • 29 Jun 23
🏥 Health & Wellness Self-reflection
  1. The importance of reflecting on past actions and goals to gain insight and make positive changes
  2. Recognizing the need for self-motivation and understanding underlying reasons for procrastination
  3. Being realistic about tasks and setting achievable expectations to reduce self-disappointment and anxiety

Who has an inner voice?

sebjenseb • 196 implied HN points • 09 Apr 23
🏥 Health & Wellness Self-reflection
  1. Inner voice strength is related to neurodivergence like alternative sexualities or mental illnesses.
  2. There is a linear relationship between inner voice strength and outcome variables.
  3. Various factors like gender, mental illness, anxiety, and more are significantly associated with inner voice strength.

no, they don't hate you

Both Are True • 111 implied HN points • 10 Jun 25
🎭️ Culture Self-reflection
  1. People often worry that others hate them, but they might actually be feeling the same insecurity. It's a common cycle of doubt.
  2. Instead of assuming someone dislikes you, it's better to recognize that they might be preoccupied with their own fears and feelings.
  3. Understanding that both sides might be feeling misunderstood can help break the cycle of negative thoughts and improve relationships.

local man sends 2nd email after 1st only gets 3 responses

Both Are True • 102 implied HN points • 17 Jun 25
🎭️ Culture Self-reflection
  1. Sometimes, when reaching out, we can feel anxious if we don't get the responses we expect. It's normal to worry about how others perceive us.
  2. Sending a follow-up message can be scary, but it can also be an opportunity to express yourself honestly. You might be surprised by how good it feels.
  3. Being open about our imperfections can help reduce feelings of shame. It's better to be genuine than to strive for a perfect image.

The Year Behind and Ahead

Many Such Cases • 439 implied HN points • 30 Dec 22
🎭️ Culture Self-reflection
  1. 2022 was a year of big changes, including getting laid off but finding freedom in freelance writing and traveling a lot.
  2. The author discovered new motivations in writing, focusing on how topics like sexuality reflect on society, not just interesting facts.
  3. In 2023, there may be more conversations about masculinity and sexual health online, which could lead to confusion about desires and habits.

Ways We Might Be Unintentionally Participating In Weight Stigma and Diet Culture

Weight and Healthcare • 399 implied HN points • 01 Oct 22
🏥 Health & Wellness Self-reflection
  1. Complimenting Weight Lost can reinforce harmful beliefs and set people up for disappointment when weight is regained.
  2. Supporting Inequality by expecting fat individuals to change themselves for healthcare tools is harmful and unfair.
  3. Avoid hypocritical behavior and Blaming Fat Bodies, healthcare practitioners should practice weight-neutral health for all patients, regardless of size.

To beat the empty page

The Leftovers • 59 implied HN points • 11 Mar 24
📚 Literature Self-reflection
  1. Writer's block may not really exist and could just be about trying to write the wrong thing at the wrong time.
  2. Sometimes difficulties in writing can be attributed to starting from a wrong place rather than a complete inability to write.
  3. To overcome 'writer's block,' it may require changing approach or perspective rather than waiting for inspiration.

You're not perfect, sport.

Through the Looking Glass • 139 implied HN points • 29 Oct 23
⛪ Faith & Spirituality Self-reflection
  1. Life is about reframing your view of a meaningful life and learning to escape the hedonic treadmill.
  2. It's important to live true to your values, find peace within yourself, and avoid self-bullshit to lead a fulfilled life.
  3. Success doesn't always mean constant hustle; finding contentment in ordinary life and being true to yourself is valuable.

Weekly Wednesday Wisdom #5

Weekly Wisdom • 179 implied HN points • 05 Jan 23
🎭️ Culture Self-reflection
  1. The newsletter discusses reading 'Discipline Is Destiny' and '5000 Words Per Hour' to increase productivity and writing output.
  2. Listening recommendations include 'Building A Second Brain' and insights from author David Deida on masculinity and femininity.
  3. The newsletter delves into philosophical discussions from podcasts and videos, and reflects on the themes of wisdom and personal growth.