The hottest Self-development Substack posts right now

And their main takeaways
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The Map is Mostly Water 1643 implied HN points 08 Feb 25
  1. Love isn't just something that happens to you; it's something you actively work on. Like tending a garden, you have to put in effort to help love grow.
  2. Many people have a casual attitude about love, thinking it will just appear by chance. This mindset can lead to a sense of helplessness in relationships.
  3. Introspection is important, but it needs to be paired with action. If you want love in your life, you have to take initiative and make choices to nurture it.
The Novelleist 1846 implied HN points 01 Jan 25
  1. Helping others is more important than just focusing on ourselves. When we pay more attention to our communities, we find more happiness and purpose in our lives.
  2. A balance is needed between caring for our loved ones and thinking about the broader world. We should take care of our families, but also show concern for others beyond our immediate circle.
  3. Self-development is good, but too much can lead to selfishness. It's better to use our skills and time to help those around us instead of just working on improving ourselves.
Austin Kleon 2437 implied HN points 28 Nov 23
  1. Discipline is about making a commitment over time. It's important to stick with something consistently, even when it's tough.
  2. Musicians must balance three types of discipline: hands, head, and heart. Being good at one area isn't enough; all three need to work together.
  3. To be disciplined, you need to show up and get the work done. Sometimes, that just means sitting down and starting the task at hand.
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The Art of Enchantment, with Dr Sharon Blackie 1118 implied HN points 15 Aug 22
  1. A series of special podcast episodes called 'The Hagitude Sessions' are now available on 'This Mythic Life' podcast, discussing experiences of women in the second half of their lives.
  2. The first guest on the podcast is writer Tanya Shadrick, known for her inspiring work and transformative life journey.
  3. Listeners can subscribe to the podcast on various platforms like SoundCloud, iTunes, Stitcher, and TuneIn to receive new episodes automatically.
Journal of Gurdjieff Studies 79 implied HN points 25 Mar 24
  1. Thomas and Olga de Hartmann's lives changed dramatically after meeting Gurdjieff, shifting from outer happiness to inner transformation.
  2. Gurdjieff's teachings focused on differentiating between egoistic love and real love for personal development.
  3. During Thomas de Hartmann's illness, the symbolic act of Marfousha gathering and discarding 'evil' red musical notes highlights the essence of Gurdjieff's teachings on vibrations and transformations.
The 21st Century Proletarian 159 implied HN points 13 Aug 23
  1. Recognizing and accepting the need for rest and vulnerability is important for well-being.
  2. Cultural infantilization can lead to adults feeling like passive objects instead of active agents in society.
  3. Instead of retreating into comfort, embracing responsibility and resilience is crucial for creating positive change in the world.
The Leadership Lab 118 implied HN points 23 Apr 23
  1. Immersive experiences offer a powerful way to accelerate personal growth and self-awareness
  2. Regular immersion in transformative activities like retreats can lead to exponential awareness growth
  3. In immersive group settings, participants act as mirrors for each other, accelerating awareness and facilitating breakthroughs
Boundless by Paul Millerd 223 implied HN points 16 Sep 23
  1. When navigating the creator world, don't blindly follow what others are doing - find your own unique approach.
  2. Be cautious of being influenced by trends or strong opinions, and instead focus on what truly aligns with your goals and capabilities.
  3. Success as a creator isn't about copying what works for others, but about staying true to your interests, finding your unique path, and not giving up.

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The Other Side of Fear 5 implied HN points 22 Dec 24
  1. As we get older, time seems to move faster because each moment is a smaller part of our lives. It's important to reflect on our experiences and keep learning.
  2. Moral courage and physical strength are essential. They help us make the right choices in hard situations and protect ourselves and others when needed.
  3. Life is full of choices, and one bad decision can have serious consequences. It's vital to recognize the time we have with loved ones and prioritize our health and relationships.
The Ask Newsletter — by Ellen Donnelly 5 implied HN points 04 Dec 24
  1. Set high expectations for yourself, your business, and the world. This mindset helps drive personal and professional growth.
  2. Identify and overcome personal limitations like fear and knowledge gaps. Clarity is the first step toward overcoming these challenges.
  3. Use a tailored planning tool that aligns with your goals. This will help you track progress and make adjustments throughout the year.
Journal of Gurdjieff Studies 59 implied HN points 03 Aug 23
  1. Orage's work involves psychological exercises and essays that relate to Gurdjieff's teaching.
  2. Orage's exercises focus on intellectual development through manipulation of numbers and words, observation, and visualization.
  3. Orage's writings explore the relationship between different centers of the brain and emphasize the importance of self-observation in psychological development.
⭐️Bob’s Newsletter 19 implied HN points 26 Feb 23
  1. How you do anything is how you do everything - be diligent and committed in all areas of life.
  2. Your experiences are a reflection of your inner world - choose positivity and new beliefs for positive change.
  3. Assume the best about people and practice empathy - kindness and understanding go a long way.
Creative Destruction 28 implied HN points 22 Sep 23
  1. Individualism-centric mindset hinders systemic change by focusing on self-reform over systemic reform.
  2. Shift towards systems reform encourages a deeper analysis and reflection for radical change.
  3. Worldview-reform suggests reframing fundamental beliefs and narratives for building a better alternative and conveying a new, exciting story.
everything is agile 2 HN points 04 Jun 24
  1. Agile is a framework for building processes to create good software but can be applied to personal and professional life for fulfilling work.
  2. Agile is about intention, balance, being a tool that can be molded, and being experimental and personal.
  3. Agile is not a system but a mindset, not a magical solution, needs real testing, can't be bought, and there's no one true definition - it's adaptable and individual.
Day One 139 implied HN points 21 Apr 20
  1. During times of boredom, focus on feeding your mind with productive inputs to harness the power of your brain.
  2. In the midst of challenges, find opportunities to create and profit, just like individuals who launched successful initiatives during the pandemic.
  3. Use periods of hibernation or slowdowns to study, learn, and enhance your skills for future success.
The Prism 4 HN points 06 Jul 23
  1. Youth mental health is deteriorating due to societal influences, leading to increased diagnoses of mental disorders.
  2. Long Covid and mood disorders are intertwined, potentially leading to misdiagnosis and confusion.
  3. Pathologization of personal issues as medical disorders is on the rise among young people, driven by social media, victimhood culture, and the medical industry.
The Wisdom Project 0 implied HN points 05 Jan 25
  1. Goals are important because they give your life direction and purpose. Without goals, it's easy to feel lost or like you're just going in circles.
  2. Systems or habits help you achieve your goals, but they should not be the only focus. It's important to set systems that align with your goals.
  3. Take time to think about what kind of life you want to live. Once you know that, you can set goals and create systems that support that vision.
Journal of Gurdjieff Studies 0 implied HN points 07 Apr 23
  1. Gurdjieff believed that air is a form of food essential for self-development, not just for everyday life.
  2. Gurdjieff warned about the dangers of incorrect breathing exercises, emphasizing the risks of intervening without proper knowledge.
  3. Interfering with the automatic process of breathing, which is vital for sustaining life, can lead to harmful consequences.