Disaffected Newsletter β’ 1418 implied HN points β’ 29 Oct 23
- Many people who experienced emotional abuse as children crave for their feelings to be understood and validated by others. They want someone to 'get' their pain, even if just for a moment.
- It's hard for others to truly feel what we feel, and we shouldn't rely on that to explain our experiences. Understanding can happen without sharing the exact emotions.
- Adults who were hurt as kids often seek comfort from others, since they didn't receive the emotional support they needed as children. Itβs important to find a way to cope with that disappointment on our own.